Why do trans women hate the most the people who love them the most? I just want to give a pretty, nice trans girl the best and most gentle love and care I can provide to a partner, and yet every other thread is about how those who love trans girls are evil menaces. Why? I think you are lovely people. I have no desire to treat you as objects. Does this make me so bad?

>>40028987 (OP)
loving trans women is good, it's why you love them and how you express it that matters

>>40028987 (OP)
>I just want to give a pretty
There it is

>>40028987 (OP)
opinion on penises

>>40029004
I mean that's the ideal but I would date a physically unattractive person if I liked their personality. Even then, I don't think it's unreasonable to have a preference toward those who are physically attractive.

>>40028987 (OP)
i dont mind chasers

>>40028987 (OP)
i will love you despite your opinions on penises

>>40028987 (OP)
It's a cruel world, OP. Men like us with nothing but love and support to give are the ones who suffer the most.

Sadly, many of the trans women here hate themselves, and they project that hatred onto any man who could love them.

>>40028987 (OP)
we associate anyone who’s interested in us with chasers, and associate all chasers with bottom chasers. it stems from a deep insecurity that no one would want to date us so we justify reasons to push people away so we don’t give them a chance to hurt us when they “inevitably” break up with us

>>40029014
I'm not attracted to penises. I would prefer someone post-op. Not a dealbreaker if she wasn't, but I would probably ignore the penis in that case. I might be open to something if she asks me to do it, though.

>>40029032
then you are valid and I hope tranners here stop being bitches to you

>>40029014
this is the biggest dealbreaker with chasers

>>40028987 (OP)
you don't want to love us. you don't love us at all. you want to fetishize us and steal our estrogen.

>>40029042
I do want to love you though. And I do love you.

>>40029014
Telling u, just keep it instead of trying to snip it off

>>40029084
This is not me. I said here in this previous reply >>40029032 that I am not into penises, but also that if a trans woman wants to keep their penis, that's their prerogative but that I will likely ignore it unless they specifically ask for stimulation.

I've been ghosted for the third time in one month lmao, and this time I didn't even reach out they messaged me first, and I didn't act slutty nor unhinged

>>40028987 (OP)
what is it about us that you find so lovely anon?

>>40029131
I honestly have no idea. I just find trans women really really cool and interesting. It's a weird autism hyperfixation thing probably.

>>40029162
that’s a remarkably honest answer, many people have a type even if they don’t know why. good luck finding the one anon

>>40029003
yeah exactly. like i don't think its inherently problematic to be attracted to transwomen--its great that u love them. some chasers end up being really fucking weird and fetish-y about it, which probably kinda runs it for everyone else

Love isn't real, there's only misery and loneliness

>>40029213
There's self love tho

>>40029247
I havent felt that either. Just disgust and regret

>>40029479
Work on that, you need to learn to love yourself so you can teach others how to love you, be your own light.

Have loved two tranners but they both broke my heart.
Still can't go back to cis women though.

>>40029711
i feel you man

>>40029711
>>40029741
Bros...

>>40028987 (OP)
i dont think chasers are evil menaces so long as they have a non-1-dimensional view and reasons for choosing us

but im not really party to that dynamic because im thankfully not straight

Personally I love chasers as long as they are either
1. female
2. very feminine twinks
or
3. don't want to touch my pp too much.
I hate men wanting to bottom for me or suck me off. But apart from that chasers are awesome and whenever I hear about someone being into trans girls or watching trans porn or smth it really turns me on. I wish I could see it from people's faces whether they watch trans porn or not and I love fullfilling chaser's fantasies with my body

>>40030113
>I love fullfilling chaser's fantasies with my body
Unsee please

i think chasers are cool as long as they don't expect me to fuck their HAIRY MAN ASS

>>40029004
oh, shut the fuck up

>>40030131
My nudes are probably already circulating online enough without me posting them to 4chan of all places. Plus that's not a gratifying way of doing wish-fullfillment. You gotta make me orgasm

>>40030160
Yeah this basically. I fuck twinks and women but whole ass men don't get to touch me down there.

0. love me and treat me kindly
1. dont ask me to fuck you but you can suck me
2. 6"+ dick
3. 5'8+ (I'm 5'6), dont be fat
4. fuck me regularly
Is this too much to ask???

>>40031276
I would like to apply

>>40028987 (OP)
For the sake of conversation I'll assume this isn't about chasers specifically which it obviously is.

I don't love myself, can't, and don't understand why someone would. I'm very low value. So my response to it sometimes manifests in weird ways

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