>>40030520 (OP) A BPD partner would unironically be a perfect fit for me, but somehow I always end up getting involved with mentally healthy/secure people who stand on their own two feet. Kinda weird!!
>>40031345 this and if they're still mentally ill it's not the gap moe type like bpd where they're lovey dovey and then hate you. they're usually just constantly depressed.
>>40031299 BPD unironically does improve if a person has stable, long term relationships; instability makes BPD worse If they have an episode you don't go along with their episode, but rather kind of act like a firm cliff that they can rely on to stay relatively the same