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questions that dont deserve their own thread

what is that question that you cant find the right thread for, or if any thread is appropriate at all? have at it. or tell secrets. or confess. whatever.

>>40030570 (OP)
like i guess my own thing is i got my ears peirced ouit of the blue just because one of my cousins was doing the whole lgbt changing genders thing. i dont get it, but i wanted to show some sorta support, solidarity, whatever. my plan was that the question would get dropped "ready to get your ears peirced?" and id be first, put my hand up, so that they didnt feel weird or pressured to do it, and feel a bit normal because me, the normal guy did it non chalantly.

>>40030646
she/he did seem to lighten up and relax a little when they realized i was just gonna do the same thing they did. i think it worked, their folks thanked me for being "cool" with it. feel pretty bad for her/it/they, whatever. i know the dad wouldnt be able to parse this situation at all. the mom i can see being more accepting, but without the dad, the money tree

man this situation is gonna get so fucking grim for this poor kid so fast. fuck

>>40030570 (OP)
ive tried a few lipstick colors and noticed that all light reds and conventional colors look extremely bad on me and started matching it to my south east asian skintone. Realized all my mums lipsticks were the same terracotta/brown color i decided on and kinda cried knowing how many body issues we both shared as our skin is basically identical. wish she was still alive and i could give tell her stuff that works on me and vice versa

>>40030981
thats just outright assuming your mum was wrong and your right

>>40030570 (OP)
How do you cope with HRT effects on your penis if you don't have bottom dysphoria? Isn’t seeing it shriveled down and useless at least a bit disturbing?

>>40030993
how so? im sorry i got emotional noticing one more thing that my mum figured out for herself when she was young that also helps me
sry am esl but I was basically trying to say how we both struggled with the same issues, just that i have to consult the internet now and finding out retroactively that my mum found the same solutions in her time

>>40031016
oh, that makes a lot more sense. i get what your saying, i just dont really have anything to add to it

>>40031039
its okay, i feel like i often write very unclearly making people mad at me

>>40031077
got any examples? copy pasta an old reply you made, literally anything. whats something you got odd replies to

>>40031098
i dont really do that but i remember another asian from uni being mad at me because they thought i ordered her to do a specific part of an assigment when all i meant was that i can do most of it and she only has to cover the last 20%