I can't come out as bi because lots of people just see bi men as "ashamed gays". It's not worth it. I have seen this so many times happen.

>>40031495 (OP)
I am out as bi to relevant people (gf, close friends, past sexual partners) and I just let other people assume I am straight. Occasionally I'll bring it up other times if the context is relevant.

>>40031502
I feel conservatives hate bisexual men even more than gays.

>>40031581
No shit. But I don't really hang out with many conservatives lol

maybe you are just an ashamed gay and think you not being *as fruity* as the other gays means others should treat you better for being supposedly part straight

>>40031495 (OP)
L take, go lift weights and work on yourself, bi men are the hottest and funnest to fuck and be around, technically patting myself on the back but I gotta call out your ladgeful behaviour

>>40031607
Even gays think we are "ashamed gays".
No wonder most bi men are in the closet and just live as "gay" if they prefer men or "straight" if they prefer women.

Isn't like every other zoomer bi these days?

>>40031619
maybe they are right and you are just scared of dating men long term
calling yourself bi is a way to signal to women you are uncomfortable with being gay and willing to date them nonetheless

>>40031640
Women think we are either closeted gays or hypersexual retards who just want to nut in a hole.

if you are TruBi you should internally accept it and not let anyone pressure you to change but outwardly do the "i dont like labels" thing

>>40031682
there is no or, you are just closeted gays

>>40031725
I'm telling you that some women just told me I was a pervert into sex with different people but not "gay".

>>40031822
i have never been called a pervert. you must be a top

>>40031892
Yes I'm a top.

>>40032964
makes sense. tops are called perverts and bottoms are just called gay

>>40031495 (OP)
I'm "straight passing" (have been told this to my face) so I just don't bring up my sexuality unless it's relevant. People from either side of the isle are violently biphobic so it's just not worth the headache. If people ask my sexuality I just say "unbothered".

rule of D
bi woman? marries a man
bi man? marries a man

>>40033146
Bi men marry women 99% of the time.

>wait too long to come out because why should I tell anyone
>don't start HRT because "I didn't need it"
>now everyone thinks I'm suffering a middle age crisis
lmao fuck my life

>>40031725
All gays are closeted bisexuals

>>40031495 (OP)
you dont come out as bi because you will be hated by both sides
>t. bipedo hater

>>40034794
all straights too

>>40033146

>>40036423
They’ve never done enough self reflection to realize it

>>40031495 (OP)
You can do whatever you set yuor mind to. I believe in you anon.