>>40038437 (OP)yeah but it takes like an hour+
1. edge multiple times beforehand, spread them out throughout the day
2. dont chase the orgasm, be gentle, you might not cum, but trying to force it will just feel worse and you might hurt yourself. use plenty of lube too
3. the prostate is deceptively shallow in the anus, you can pretty easily reach it with just your middle finger so you dont need to go very deep, most of that toy will go unused
4. mindset and environment, put on some mood lighting and finish all your chores so you dont have any distractions
prostate orgasm is less like the fireworks that a penile/clitoral(if you have one) orgasm is and more like a pot of water boiling over, its a slower rise and it lasts longer without a defined start and end, but you'll certainly know it when you've felt it. as an upside it doesnt trigger refractory period so you can keep going for a while, my personal best is 7 times over 2.5h ish
glhf anon godspeed