Did my male friend cure my transbianism? - /lgbt/ (#40061248) [Archived: 1074 hours ago]

Haduj
6/15/2025, 3:33:37 AM No.40061248
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>be me 21 MtF KHHV Transbian
>only really ever liked other women
>never been to fond of men romantically nor sexually
>talk to my male friend on the occasion and stream games shows and other hobbies to him
>knows i'm a transbian and only really like women
>we get along well always having a laugh together enjoying each others company
>goes on for a few months
>tell him how frustrating it is to find dates/love and any of that sorts
>he is compassionate and understanding
>show him pics of me being more feminine
>she is ultra supportive saying i look super pretty and being super nice about everything in general
>starts sending me Stark x Fern pics
>i get this weird feeling inside whenever he sends me those pictures
>don't think much about it after all i like women
>have an extremely bad day of brainworms
>most of my trans friend's can't deal with it shush me off or just dont wanna talk about it with me
>he ofc is there for me talk about me with it and tries his best to help me feel better
>the help isn't the best but he really makes me feel better about myself and my body
>while talking he sends me more Stark x Fern pics this time more sexual
>I feel a stronger urge this time to be fern and him to be stark...
>tell him i enjoy the pictures he sends me...
>he becomes more flirty
>i can do nothing but blush and be all fidgety

Did he cure me of my Transbianism? am i just Bisexual? I feel like he will be confessing his love soon... and ill maybe even say yes to him, he has been there for me when i need it and my trans friends have all let me down a lot recently but he hasn't he's always been nice... i don't know anymore i'm so confused recently... he's so nice...
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 3:55:53 AM No.40061425
it should have been me not him
it should have been me not him
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:00:34 AM No.40061479
>>40061248 (OP)
>I feel like he will be confessing his love soon.
Because he was nice to you? You didn’t mention anything romantic at all.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:02:37 AM No.40061498
let him cum in you
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 4:04:28 AM No.40061521
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>>40061425
love is there for everyone... i hope...

>>40061479
No but he has been really really flirty almost boldly so... i didn't really say anything too romantic

>>40061498
maybe...
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:07:34 AM No.40061551
>>40061521
what do you mean maybe
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:07:43 AM No.40061553
>>40061521
What’s flirty to you? Maybe he just sees you as one of his bros.
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Reb !Rebel/1lFA
6/15/2025, 4:09:57 AM No.40061572
>>40061248 (OP)
hggggggggggggggg I wanna tongue kiss a tranner so hard she gets tipsy off of our shared saliva
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:10:41 AM No.40061579
>>40061479
>>40061553
not all men, but lots of men aren't nice to other people that they don't have a crush on.
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 4:12:27 AM No.40061598
>>40061553
That could be... its mostly just how he'd take care of me... like when i told him i really wanna cuddle someone he was like telling me how hed cuddle me for days and stuff...

>>40061579
hmmm yea thinking the same
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:12:00 AM No.40062075
>>40061248 (OP)
POST MORE
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 5:44:08 AM No.40062306
>>40062075
I don't know what else to tell you... he's helping me right now.... very brainwormed the only one who is there for me right know i tried to go to trans ppl first cuz they usually understand but they have their own problems... he doesn't have them cuz he is a man so he can focus on me and give me attention the pictures are also getting way more sexual (as in actual sex) and way more romantic... he's pretty charming hes very academic and does like science stuff i dont have higher education but listing to him rambling about science is nice i talk to him about maps and history and maps! he watches me play games he teaches me mechanics in games and tells me how to play more effectively im very bad at games but its always fun!
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 5:46:03 AM No.40062328
>>40061572
thats so cute.... need honestly
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 6:35:18 AM No.40062771
>>40061248 (OP)
i wouldnt hold too dearly to your labels, especially if theyre causing u distress. if u like the guy, u like the guy! thats all thats important. realizing that u like a guy is not a betrayal of your identity, its just adds another layer to it. wishing u luck :)
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 7:03:27 AM No.40062980
>>40061579
The opposite Men are mean-sweet when they like someone. They will be saying shit like "hey smell head how was day?" and then try to cuddle and call you sweet head.
T. Cis guy pseudo chaser who does this.
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 7:31:08 AM No.40063148
>>40061579
>>40061521
I dont want to be the bearer of bad news. But consider the following:

Many people who are okay with gay people do gay shit with them. For example straight guy starts to take the flamboyant gay bottom at work and the gay guy is having a good time and Im sure the straight guy felt good for helping his gay friend and coworker feel better about themselves. Im not sure what this gay mimickery is called.

Its like the person is being accepting of you so they try to make you feel good about yourself because they are altruistic egoist vs ethical egoist. Meaning he has nothing to gain out of it maybe even losing brain cells. But he puts you above himself even though its just an innate drive he has.

Of course I hope you dont take away that you are somehow gay but I just havent interacted with many or virtually at all with trans people in the wild. All queer people Ive interacted with were all cis gay people. So i cant say if this dynamic holds up in the wild but i dont see why not.

But it very well could be he has latent feelings for you.

Conclusion: there isnt enough information to make a conclusion.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:03:41 AM No.40063709
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>>40061248 (OP)
Finally, some good greentext. Whatever happens, I wish you good luck, anon.
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:03:49 AM No.40063710
>>40062306
>the pictures are also getting way more sexual (as in actual sex) and way more romantic...
fuckkkkk i hope you post an update when your relationship with him progresses
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:06:34 AM No.40063724
when he sends you a particularly sexual fern x stark image you should tell him you want someone to do that to you...
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:12:22 AM No.40063747
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>>40061248 (OP)
A close friend of mine trooned out and was a transbian for a while before we started dating. She told me that she wasn't interested in any man including me before and that after starting estrogen she started to notice me more and more both romantically and sexually until she was absolutely feral.
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Discordia !!9L6fGHXCPaO
6/15/2025, 9:40:26 AM No.40063876
dude is just sending porn while you talk and you associate him with the horniness from the porn. You have the mental fortitude of a newt haduj
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:42:36 AM No.40063889
>>40063876
that’s so cool, are you arms so thick and veiny because you’re a neverpassing male? Haha post those hands
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 9:43:14 AM No.40063891
>>40063876
I do this to transbians too transbians are easy
Discordia !!9L6fGHXCPaO
6/15/2025, 9:44:14 AM No.40063897
>>40063889
I posted it in the other thread but you stopped replying :( did you get jealous. sorry I shouldn't have indulged your online sh but you were too persistent >///<
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 1:54:31 PM No.40064880
>>40061248 (OP)
Waow...
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 4:42:43 PM No.40065854
>>40062771
It's all so complicated i swear to god ><

>>40063148
I mean i think he is Bisexual even before we met
but yea its hard to make a conclusion... i just wanted to post it to word what happened and to get a feel for how maybe i feel about all this...

>>40063709
g-good greentext? idk if its that good anon...

>>40063724
i did once then he send 5 more afterwards all very uhm yea ... hot ... yea... one of them gave me some bottom dysphoria but he was there for me once again

>fuckkkkk i hope you post an update when your relationship with him progresses

I will try to do that!

>>40063747
I've been on E for a while now he was like always a good friend since when he met
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 4:54:18 PM No.40065928
>>40063876
the porn thing is a very recent thing the fern x stark thing was mostly romantic and silly pictures before! i think that's a very important distinction to make! and he has been just there when i needed someone to be there and not since yesterday too also i don't really get horny like that

>>40064880
it is very waow...
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 4:57:40 PM No.40065952
>>40065854
imagine what might happen if you let slip a "godd if you did that to me..." at one of the pictures >~<
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 5:24:32 PM No.40066104
>>40065952
dfgidfngd >~<
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:25:03 PM No.40066108
>>40061498
reminder
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:39:31 PM No.40066182
>KHHV Transbian
>actually only has sex/relationships with men
yeah sounds about typical, sorry not sorry about your transbianism though
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 5:44:33 PM No.40066200
>>40061248 (OP)
at the very least, you gotta suck his dick
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 6:05:38 PM No.40066325
>>40066108
maybe...

>>40066182
:( >_<

>>40066200
maybe ... thinking about it just as a thanks for him being there for me when i need it the most
Anonymous
6/15/2025, 6:10:16 PM No.40066358
>>40061248 (OP)
You're probably bi but attracted to guys in personality and such, and attracted to women visually, which probably is the standard female sexuality. Anyway don't think about your labels too hard and just go what feels good
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 6:11:52 PM No.40066371
>>40061248 (OP)
>picrel
holy fuck i need this immediately fuuuck making out is so good i miss it
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Anonymous
6/15/2025, 6:18:16 PM No.40066409
>>40061248 (OP)

There's a name for that phenomenon, it's called pseudobisexuality.
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Haduj
6/15/2025, 6:22:51 PM No.40066436
>>40066358
your prob right anon...

>>40066371
same tho i've never made out with someone

>>40066409
>google pseudobisexuality
>only transphobic and AGP shit
yea no