As a straight cisgender kissless dateless virgin male, how do I attract trans women and make them want me?

>>40061451 (OP)
Being a Digimon fan is a good start

>>40061451 (OP)
befriend them without immediately wanting to have sex with them

>>40061468
Is it really? I don't think anyone loves Digimon like I do. And I've certainly never seen many trans girls in the Digimon community

>>40061471
I try to do that, but they just don't like me. Trans women treat me like I'm repulsive and like I am a lesser being

Larp thread.

>>40061487
It’s not you, most trannies are just autistic assholes who don’t know how to socialize.

>>40061487
It is for me! I really like the Digimon series I've watched, I haven't got to frontiers yet though

>>40061451 (OP)
It will be difficult. Trans women have high desirability and low availability. This allows them to be very picky, more so than cis women.

>>40061556
>trans women have high desirability
honestly crazy to read something like this but the flag checks out
>captcha: 0RAGP

>>40061505
Not a LARP.

I am more autistic than 99.9% of trans women, maybe that's why they don't like me.

>>40061514
That's crazy. Frontier is extremely underrated IMO. I hope you enjoy it.

>>40061622
>i am more autistic than 99.9% of trans women
are you actually significantly more autistic than chris chan? honestly same

>>40061673
No, not like that for fuck sake. I'm not a fucking goblin. But I am significantly mentally impaired.

There is something about me that has made every single woman I have ever encountered in my life view me as a leper, and, on top of that, many men I have met in my life view me as a lesser person also...

I have often believed that I was cursed by god at birth to live a torturous and pained life. I don't see another explanation for why I have lived 29 years of my life without any woman having EVER expressed romantic interest in me, and yet countless other (many uglier, and/or more mentally deficient men) have got dates and girlfriends with ease.

>>40061699
you might want it too much. most modern people are attracted to good people in their lives more than they are to being courted. especially cis women who get cold approached their whole lives and get rightfully creeped by it. idk your situation so im sorry if im way off

>>40061757
I don't "want it too much" at all.

All I want is to be treated the same way that every other man on the planet Earth has ever been treated.

Getting to 29 years old without any woman having EVER expressed romantic interest in me is not normal. It's indicative of something very strange happening.

>>40061806
okay but whatever it is is definitely a social phenomenon and therefore changeable, as you already admitted uglier and autisticer people find love. much of it is about positivity, you have to be someone someone would wanna date. do you think about women in contexts besides whether or not you want to date them or whether or not they want to date you? i know a lot of people who get stuck in the incel loop because they don't see women as real people, women can figure this out by the way he acts and don't wanna date someone like that for safety/self respect reasons, and then this makes him lonelier and even less considerate of women

>>40061858
I do. I just treat women as normal people, which is what literally everybody told me to do, and yet I never ever ever got even one single date or one kiss from doing that.

I am not an incel. But I am definitely someone who women just hate. Women hate me. They don't want anything to do with me. They want me to go die. There's no other explanation for how I ended up at 29 years old without ever having kissed a woman, been on a date, or ever done ANYTHING romantic with a woman at all.

>>40061902
the fact that you're even really treating them as a single entity here kinda shows you don't view them as normal people

>>40061976
I do. But women don't treat me as a normal person.

If they did, then I would've had a singular chance in my nearly 3 decades of life to have a a date or some kind of relations with a woman.

But no such thing ever happened. Women view me as a pathetic, disgusting, and pitiful creature.

as the same situation how do i attract cis women, is it easier or harder?

>>40062025
Go away.

>>40062073
i haven’t been able to since i spent a year and a half on estrogen in high school

>>40062093
Let me take you on a date. I think you're extremely cute

>>40062112
you’re an internet person who lives hundreds of miles away probably

>>40062126
Yeah? And so what?

You know, if you reject me you will absolutely destroy my self-esteem... I won't know how to cope with it.

I have been rejected by so many women in my life, I simply cannot take one more... It will be the catalyst for me to put a bullet inside my head.

>>40061451 (OP)
Step 1: drop identifying with all that bullshit. Sure it's true, but don't make it an identify, stop letting it overshadow all parts of you. Yeah it's baggage but everyone has baggage, just don't be weird about it
Step 2: put in real effort to improve yourself. Work on your body, work on your life, work on your mentals. Progress is attractive. Don't have to be perfect, don't have to be all the way there yet, but the momentum and confidence it instills will lead you to making connections without realizing it eventually

T. happening to me currently from a similar position but doing the things said above

>>40062137
oh, lucky for you i’m not a woman so this shouldn’t destroy your self esteem

>>40062142
>Step 1: drop identifying with all that bullshit. Sure it's true, but don't make it an identify, stop letting it overshadow all parts of you.
But it IS my identity.

I am a 29 year old man who has NEVER EVER EVER experienced any woman expressing any form of romantic interest towards him.

This is simply not normal on any level. 99.9% of men have had at least some form of female interest expressed towards them... But not me.

I hold this identity close to my chest. Being a kissless dateless virgin is a core part of my person. I wish it wasn't this was, but it is.

>Step 2: put in real effort to improve yourself. Work on your body, work on your life, work on your mentals.
Yeah, I already did all of this. It didn't work. Women don't express any interest in me regardless. I have never, ever, ever been asked on a date by a woman EVER.

>>40062165
>its a core part of my person
that's why you're single

>>40062267
No, it's not.

I have sought companionship from literally thousands of women, and not a single one ever was willing to entertain me as a potential partner.

I literally have not done a single thing wrong. I an a kissless dateless virgin completely against my own will. No woman has ever wanted to ever do so much as lay her own lips upon mine, let alone do anything more... Please explain how that's my fault?

>>40062323
because a core part of your personality is wanting that, and they can probably tell. it's often pretty easy to tell when a guy is objectifying you
>sought companionship
walk me through some interactions and i will let you know what i think. how long do you know them before asking stuff like that?

>>40062368
if it’s anything like this >>40062112 then even i, as a fellow KHHV can see why. i honestly wish the best for OP but his game is practically nonexistent

>>40062368
I have never objectified anybody.

>>sought companionship
>walk me through some interactions and i will let you know what i think. how long do you know them before asking stuff like that?
I have never asked anybody anything.

I have never asked any woman on a date. I just wait for them to express interest in me.

>>40062396
Should I kill myself? I don't want to live if women view me as an unattractive person.

>>40062165
>I am a 29 year old man who has NEVER EVER EVER experienced any woman expressing any form of romantic interest towards him.
I'm in my 30s and this was true until this year
Now I have multiple women calling me hot and attractive and one I'm talking to daily who I like a lot
Massively stagnated for the entire past decade because of autism and trauma and protective apathy but I finally got fed up and said enough and started trying
Stop making it your identity, it doesn't need to be, and that is a huge part of the problem, your brain corrals you into the fences you put up around yourself
>never, ever, ever been asked on a date by a woman EVER.
They almost never do the asking. You're expecting unreasonable things. Sure it happens sometimes but it's not something you can bank on, asking is the man's role. How sure are you about the "cisgender" claim in your OP? I've heard about mtfs saying they had an inexplicably female perspective on how they thought dating should work when they were repressing. Maybe it's an autism thing idk, but that never has been for me

>>40062396
yeah i genuinely dont get why people think the cold approach will work. ok it might on 4chan actually
>>40062397
>i just wait for them to express interest in me
yeah i cant help you desu only one person has ever expressed interest in me
>>40062404
no, it's fixable. you just have to become a more in-touch person, which is hard im still working on it myself as a terminally online autist

>>40062414
>Stop making it your identity, it doesn't need to be, and that is a huge part of the problem, your brain corrals you into the fences you put up around yourself
But it IS my identity.

I have done everything in my power to get attention from women,. and they have never ever ever viewed me as a potential relationship option.

How is this my fault? I did everything right, and yet women don't take any interest in me. it's just pure luck. I don't have the correct "soul" so women won't pay attention to me.

>They almost never do the asking.
Why not? I can't ask. I have a crippling fear of rejection. I'd rather hang myself than ask a a woman on a date. Girls should make the first move on me, and that's that.

>How sure are you about the "cisgender" claim in your OP?
I am 110% male. I would be the ugliest woman so its not even worth entertaining that possibility

>>40062449
There is potential you're just refusing to allow it for yourself

>>40062462
What potential?

I was at university for 5 years and not a single woman ever expressed romantic interest towards me.

It's clear that the female gender just views me as a leper... They don't want anything to do with me.