>high desirability
>low availability
>much higher standards than cis women
>LGBT centers and events are pozzed and full of boomers and druggies
>Grindr is full of prostitutes and creeps
>trans women on here just flake after one Discord conversation

Being a chaser is suffering

>>40071720 (OP)
Just become a transbian already anon

>>40071720 (OP)
Facts. I don't know why they don't want me. I'm fat, ugly, have a low-paying job and a small penis. I check all the boxes! And then there's my winning personality, nothing but a constant deluge of self-defeating whiny-baby bullshit. Who wouldn't want to spend literally all their free time with me?
It just makes no fucking sense.

>>40071768
I'm not trans

>>40071787
>I'm fat, ugly, have a low-paying job and a small penis. I check all the boxes! And then there's my winning personality, nothing but a constant deluge of self-defeating whiny-baby bullshit
None of that even applies to me

The self-defeating whiny-baby bullshit applies to you.
This thread is it. This is the that.

>>40071720 (OP)
guys always stop messaging me after a while though. like if you have interesting conversations with me and check at least a few of the boxes i like, i'll probably stick around. but i'm kind of a schizoid so i'm bad at maintaining any kind of relationship

>>40071720 (OP)
>high desirability
lmao

>>40071885
Nothing I listed is inaccurate. "Self-defeating" suggests I have never tried, which I absolutely have.

Cowboy up, buttercup.

>>40071885
>>40071787
Self defeating stuff is addicting you dumb fucks
You do it here all the time

>>40071720 (OP)
>higher standards than cis women
brother cmon

>>40071720 (OP)
I’ll be your girlfriend op

>>40072177
Am I wrong? Sexual dimorphism is extremely important to trans women, is it not? They (understandably) want guys who are significantly bigger and taller than they are. And since they have high desirability and low availability, they are able to be as picky as they want.

>>40071720 (OP)
>high desirability
hahahaha
>low availability
perhaps this is true in that there aren't very many of us? but i am very available...
>much higher standards than cis women
i'm not sure this is true but maybe. i'm very self-hating and would largely let someone walk all over me, but i also have no interesting in being in a relationship with someone that i don't love (for both our sakes), something that most cis women seem not to have figured out yet...
>LGBT centers and events are pozzed and full of boomers and druggies
don't call them druggies bro. we all have leftist politics you can't be saying that. but you are right that this is generally not a great way of meeting us...
>Grindr is full of prostitutes and creeps
true
>trans women on here just flake after one Discord conversation
also true...

hope this served as a nice reality check for your op

>>40072300
>hope this served as a nice reality check for your op
You validated all my points, so...

>>40072260
i hear u, but i still disagree. ur point about sexual dimorphism holds true, but it applies equally to cis women. a majority of cis women similarly want to feel feminine next to their partners, and i don't think the physical standards of a trans woman are notably higher than a cis woman's.

>higher desirability
also strongly disagree. i think they are highly popular within a small minority. although they have become more widely accepted within the past decade, they still have, at best, a niche appeal. not saying this to be rude, but i think it is safe to say that the majority of straight, cis males would hesitate to date a trans woman, even in 2025

>low availability
ye i agree w/ u here. in fact i think this is the driving factor in ur struggle to find a trans gf

>>40071720 (OP)
i tried online dating anon, its a total meme. if your near me in a place i could travel to resonably often i will.

im also an ugly disgusting fuck

>>40072623
also i disagree with high disirability very very few men who arent gay completely are inti me

>>40072623
>if your near me in a place i could travel to resonably often i will
Southern California

>>40071899
hi asl?

>>40072204
please mean it…

>>40072623
what place?

You just have to treat us like other girls and not be creepy to us. Literally be normal and hygienic and one of us will fuck you or at least flirt with you. Plenty of trans women on Grindr use it for easy chaser dick when we’re horny and feeling needy. Just. Be. Normal.

>>40072640
22, mtf coping as femboy, virginia
also i'm a self hating christian

>>40071787
All of this applies to me and I still have a trans gf so idk

>>40072758
holy shit you’re actually close to me, discord?

>>40072785
garbagehumanbeing

>>40071720 (OP)
Date a cis woman. And if you can't because you really need a woman with a cock, then you're either gay or a tranny yourself.

>>40072826
okay but what if I’m a top chaser who prefers post-SRS trannies

>>40072711
I already do those things.

>>40072765
Then maybe I really am just screwed

>>40072758
>>40072785
Incredible. Another anon manages to find someone in my own thread. Truly incredible.

>>40072876
>Another anon manages to find someone in my own thread
it wasn't as close as one might have hoped; states do be quite large

>>40071720 (OP)
Just force-troon a twink/femboy who's in their early 20s by pressuring them into taking HRT or else you'll leave them.

If you can't get a troon-gf, you build one instead.

>>40071720 (OP)
>high desirability
in what world, its like 1% of cis guys that are actually fine fucking trannies and even then 9 times out of 10 theyll trade for a cis girl in a heratbeat
>much higher standards than cis women
??what
half the trannies would be fine dating a corpse if it didnt treat them like a man

your problem is that you're specifically chasing
dont
let it happen naturally
be around trans women and let genuine relationships and pair bonding happen, aka be a normal human being instead of a sex predator

>>40073642
>be around trans women and let genuine relationships and pair bonding happen
Where do I do this? It's hard to penetrate trans-specific places as a cis guy. I don't want to be disrespectful.

>>40073667
You need to be in like a male oriented space that also has trans women in

>>40071720 (OP)
I’ve never had trouble getting girls once I find how to interact with them for a date.

All the apps and irl events they’re into me, even the transbians who specifically say they’re t4t. When I ask why the answer is I’m cute. I’m not feminine in the slightest I’m 6’2 with a mustache and beard.

Just be a good guy and be open to rejection. Dating basics.

>>40073689
Shit advice the reason chasers exist is because tranners don’t just fall into your lap.

And because we’re interested in them they treat us like rabid dogs… Essentially your advice is to minimize any attraction to trans people and be open to meeting one for a relationship… that’s fucking stupid.

If someone wants to be in a relationship it doesn’t happen by sitting around hoping it comes to them.

>>40073690
>I’m 6’2
This why they're into you, bro

>>40071720 (OP)
Getting a tranny to be your gf is one of the easiest things in the world.
>trans women on here just flake after one Discord conversation
You have to be the worst conversationalist in the world if even trannies do that to you.