It's hard for me to discern because all the horny cis women and fembrained ftms i know are clearly hypersexual as a trauma response. Do normal girls get horny? And like how?

>>40091170 (OP)
cis women are pretty much asexual. thats why the trope of withholding sex from partner as a punishment exists

>>40091170 (OP)
no, not really

it's true
cis women also don't orgasm

>>40091195
blatantly wrong

>>40091170 (OP)
yes if u had female friends they'd let u know all the details about it too like way too much detail.

>>40091170 (OP)
Very few women have enough testosterone to feel horny the way a man feels horny
You don't want to go totally a new woman, you want to stay horny

Women get horny, and they enjoy sex. They have a lower sex drive than men, but you don't view men's lives through the lense of a woman- you wouldn't say "Men are so needlessly sexual, women are normal". You can acknowledge that they have different sex drives without making it so black and white.
Women like sex, but they don't want to be taken advantage of. They want to have fun, but having Tooooo much fun has serious consequences. Your partners are stronger than you, probably make more money, and also btw you can get pregnant, if someone hasn't been reminding you since you were 12.
And your sex drive is rarely going to match your partner's, and there's a good chance they don't know how to please you anyways, so what's the point in worrying about it?

Women get horny, usually not as often as men, and they have many reasons not to think about it.
In the best relationships, sex is good. In poor ones, sex is bad (or really really good)
Men face the same issues for different reasons.

>>40091249
My female friend is a self-described (and in practice from what shes told me) whore but its hard for me to discern how much of that is mental illness. But she talks about it semi-frequently.

>>40091170 (OP)
It’s not like an on and off switch. Male orgasms are inherently different than female orgasms so horny looks very different in both sexes. Horny is more an undercurrent feeling that can be subtle and last all day while you’re going about doing everything and reflects the orgasm climb. There needs to be a lot of build up. Flirting and bringing up the notch on the sexual tension long before you hit the bedroom. It’s more mental than physical I think for most women. I’m a cis afab not sure if I’m a lesbian or a repressor, but I’ve only sept with people of the same sex. I think also that living in a male-run and dominating world most women experience their own sexuality and perception of themselves through male lens unfortunately. So what you’re seeing isn’t always trauma, but a lack of self awareness and women supporting the patriarchal system in place unintentionally. A lot of women have a hard time finding their own voice/sexuality without the male lens.

>>40091339
i have several friends who basically only talk about their hookups with me and i tell them about the grindr guys cocks we share pics and its all pretty fun.

>>40091404
Also wanted to add this link, but 4chan thinks it’s spam.

2013/03/female-masturbation-graphs-yes.html?m=1

>>40091249
I know way too much about my cis friends' vaginas

>>40091170 (OP)
no. cis women don't enjoy sex. they're also not attracted to anyone. if you experience sexual attraction of any kind, you're not a woman.

>>40091195
Lmao it’s funny how so many people believe this narrative just bc most men aren’t chad enough to make women horny.

She wants to get fucked just not by you.

>>40091170 (OP)
cis women are freaks compared to men where tf does the idea they dont get horny even come from?? my cis gf is the one begging me to fuck twice a day when im sleepy and just wanna cuddle lol

>>40091280
>and there's a good chance they don't know how to please you anyways
i would do whatever it takes, including risk my life to please a woman’s vagina, mind, body, and soul. i guess most men just aren’t cut from the cloth i am.

>>40091170 (OP)
yeah but its not at all the same or as dominating as cis guy horny
girls still do get horny though (why do you think 50sog or ao3 exist), and in more open friendships we talk about it occasionally with our besties
my friends and i have had EXTENSIVE conversations after leaving nightclubs about some smoking hot guy that came up to us at the club, about all the things that they imagine he'd do to us in bed
we also talk to our close friends about our preferences during "boy talk" a lot. like, much more than i imagine guys do. and we go into *detail*
girls are also just better at mitigating their horniness, we can ignore and hide it easier, it doesnt overpower our thoughts. we don't really get lust-stricken and "think with our pussies" like guys seem to with their dicks

the last and perhaps most important thing to why girls arent percieved as horny, is that thats just how women are expected and taught to act. we're taught to be elegant, demure and chaste, to not talk about this stuff openly. there's uncountable instances of guys getting gfs and being surprised at "how much hornier she got" but really she just stopped pretending to not be once she got comfortable. also being around the guy they see as attractive tends to affect things, especially if its been a while for her since her last partner

ovulation hits different though, thats a whole other beast

>>40091750
based and same

>>40091170 (OP)
yeah they do, but horniness in women is demonized so they usually have to come up with a cover that makes it seem less “their fault”, like lately it’s often been by blaming ovulation

>>40091170 (OP)
I get horny thinking of girls or subby ftms but I am straight and married to a man I love. Most girls prefer how women look. I honestly think only gay men are sexually into men.

>>40091404
All of these things are because of lower sex drive. Nothing to do with "more mental than physical".

>>40091442
This is also due to low sex drive (in comparison to men)

Men also experience this if they've had their fill

>>40091214
i do but i'm sexually malebrained

ITT: males acting like experts on female sexuality while spouting such demented drivel I can't decide whether to laugh or cry.

>>40091170 (OP)
Yes.

t. had sex with one once

>>40091170 (OP)
>It's hard for me to discern because all the horny cis women and fembrained ftms i know are clearly hypersexual as a trauma response
>Women are horny only if they have sexual trauma
Fucking kek.
>Do normal girls get horny? And like how?
Why men always make it so clear they never talk with women?

>>40095545
Laugh.

>>40091539
as a post op mtf i tell everyone all about my pussy too..idk why we do this
>>40093573
>ovulation hits different though, thats a whole other beast
maybe i shouldn't speak on this point but it's an interesting aspect of male bias in science and medicine that we understand that estrus i.e. ovulation i.e. estrogen causes horniness in all other mammals but in humans we claim it's only testosterone

>>40096271
during ovulation its a whole cocktail of different stuff going on desu, not just estrogen levels
naturally theres a gradient to how girls react to it, but there's been a whole meme wave recently and i think its overblowing the intensity of ovulation horniness a lot. its certainly more, but not that animalistic heat that the memes make it out to be

>>40091170 (OP)
>>40091272
My T is nuked, and my libido has suffered because of it. I'm sure there has to be some biological factor to it too.
I can still get horny if my buttons are pushed correctly, or get randomly horny bouts, but they're unpredictable and short lived

>>40096340
>i think its overblowing the intensity of ovulation horniness a lot
It really is. I don't understand what those women are on about. Maybe they fish for DMs or use it as an excuse for horny behavior. For me the difference is barely noticeable, i.e. I get turned on when I see something nice or at random regardless of the whole cycle thing.

>>40096379
i mean, its a hit meme, i know ive used it as a haha funny before when it really isnt that bad