Thread 40093189 - /lgbt/ [Archived: 986 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:38:59 AM No.40093189
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what's the best dating app for a mostly passing tranny?
don't say grindr i got banned from that app for using real photos of myself because the retards there seethed too hard and reported me for being a catfish

i'm a bishit if that matters
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:45:58 AM No.40093230
>>40093189 (OP)
Does it need to be an LGBT app? If so, you could try Taimi. Idk if OKCupid is still used or not. If you pass well enough, why not try the normie apps?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:51:36 AM No.40093268
>>40093230
taimi is full of nonpassing brickrapehons. i will never open that app again
i do use normie apps, but it's kind of depressing. i think i pass too well, because i get lots of matches (whenever i bother to swipe right on people, which is rare), but then i usually get unmatched shortly after (before i even say anything; i always wait a bit for this specific reason) i am assuming because they go look at my profile and see that i'm a tranny. so it's a bit discouraging i guess
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:54:03 AM No.40093280
hit the clubs luv xoxo
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:55:04 AM No.40093288
>>40093280
i'm a shut-in aide from going to work five days a week. i don't even go shopping
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:55:36 AM No.40093295
>>40093288
shut-in aside from*
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 5:59:46 AM No.40093325
>>40093288
ur not a real shut in if u have a job, fakehikki
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:02:27 AM No.40093339
>>40093325
okay i'm not a shut-in i just don't go outside or interact with humans other than for 8 hours at work monday-friday
the point is, going outside to meet people is an unrealistic ask, which is why i'm trying to do the app nonsense. i want to at least try to not be alone for the rest of my life
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:13:50 AM No.40093412
>>40093189 (OP)
>>40093339
You know what's funny about this is that this is me. The people I've dated in the past say I'm in my best shape now that I've ever been on all accounts emotionally, physically, mentally, and yet most of my hours are spent at home or at work or on my hobbies. I barely spend time looking for others. I guess I'm just so comfortable in my own skin that I don't see the need to find validation from others. You feel the same way?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:16:30 AM No.40093421
>>40093189 (OP)
nobody actually dates on dating apps, treat it as a marketing term at this point
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:19:55 AM No.40093437
>>40093412
i guess. i'm just lonely
>>40093421
okay well feel free to tell me how to actually meet people then if you're such an expert
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:23:35 AM No.40093458
>>40093437
Why are u lonely now? What changed recently.

Also bi shit means what. Switch? Bottom? Top?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:25:39 AM No.40093467
>>40093458
i have always been lonely. this isn't something new. my roommate just moved out and it's been feeling particularly bad, i guess
bishit means bisexual, my dear boomer friend
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:30:11 AM No.40093482
>>40093437
Heck, I'll shoot my shot right here. What's your ASL?
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:34:56 AM No.40093508
>>40093467
I’m not a boomer lol I’m 22. It’s just that I spend pretty much all of my time alone. I wonder why so many people feel lonely. I’ve never felt that way in my life, if any relationships happened to come to me it’s just how it is. Dunno why. Why do you feel lonely? Why not just make friends, why does there need to be a relationship
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:36:20 AM No.40093515
>>40093482
sorry, i hate this website and everyone on it. if you're the type of person who uses 4chan, let alone /lgbt/, then you're not going to be my type
yes, i realize how this could come off as hypocritical
>>40093508
>Why not just make friends,
>>40093339
>i just don't go outside or interact with humans other than for 8 hours at work monday-friday
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:39:06 AM No.40093524
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>>40093515
>you're not going to be my type
blackpilled again
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:42:53 AM No.40093540
>>40093524
if it makes you feel any better, i'll probably be alone forever because of my unrealistically hyper specific standards
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:43:51 AM No.40093544
>>40093515
lol good catch, I should’ve clarified. In ur first post u started with saying how grindr banned you. So you don’t feel lonely because of a lack of friends but because of a lack of a relationship? Or is it both? I just wanna know what it is that drives you to think that way because it’s so different from mine.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:45:44 AM No.40093553
>>40093189 (OP)
Pray you find someone that matches your needs here, on discord servers for hobbies or get lucky in the swade of hons and creeps in the dating apps, found my gf here also a bishit
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:48:32 AM No.40093563
>>40093544
it's both. fundamentally, it's a lack of intimacy. you can have platonic intimacy with friends, but romantic intimacy tends to be a lot stronger
>>40093553
i hate everyone on this website and i deleted my discord a few months ago
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:50:47 AM No.40093572
>>40093563
Yeah ur fucked then, you cant be a shut in and close off options to find people, best of luck but sounds like you'll be forever a gnome
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:52:56 AM No.40093577
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>>40093437
>if you're such an expert
all my relationships were with people I met on 4chan, it really is that easy
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:56:11 AM No.40093587
>>40093563
Hahahah. I had something else to say but I’m gonna tell you a story instead.

A man goes out to sea in a boat. He goes pretty far out when all of a sudden his boat capsizes. He struggles to stay afloat and thinks he may die. In that moment he prays to God
“God, please save me!”
After a few minutes some fisherman come by and see him struggling. They offer to help but he refuses it, saying god will help him instead. The fisherman leave.
A few minutes after that the national guard comes and offers help, but he denies even their help stating only god can save him. They also have no choice but to leave him.
Eventually the man becomes so exhausted that he drowns and dies.
When he goes to heaven, he asks god “why didn’t you help me?”
God says “dumbass, who do you think sent the other two”

You are the man in this story. Having high standards is fine. Being an introvert is fine. But cutting off all ways for someone to potentially reach you? Well, you better hope some damn good fisherman come to save you.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 6:59:16 AM No.40093611
>>40093572
i'm aware
>>40093577
i love that creature
>>40093587
i'm not closing myself off? i'm literally asking for ways to improve
i don't need you to be obnoxious and have a holier than thou attitude. i just want advice
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:18:20 AM No.40093727
>>40093611
Fair enough. I wasn’t trying to be obnoxious, just trying to draw a parallel to the absurdity.

You mentioned above u have hyper specific standards? Let’s hear them. If I knew what you were looking for I could give more apt advice
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:20:00 AM No.40093737
>>40093727
it doesn't matter. it's just looks. i have a specific type and most people don't match it. you can ignore that aspect though because there will be a mix of people with different looks no matter where i meet them
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 7:42:51 AM No.40093820
>>40093737
Even if it doesn’t matter, I’m still curious to know how specific these criteria are.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:17:43 PM No.40095491
>>40093820
tl;dr looks like my dad
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:36:47 PM No.40095584
>>40093515
>wants to date normies
>asks how on tttt
Have you ever thought about socializing with people from the group you wanna date? Posting here isnt gonna help
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:38:49 PM No.40095595
>>40095584
idk how to make friends as an adult
all i have are coworker acquaintances
Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:40:44 PM No.40095607
>>40093189 (OP)
i as a 27 y/o boomer tranny got reported on grindr after multiple messages from faceless accounts saying things like "ur not reeeeeeeaaaaaaaaal". i don't know who's doing the seething, if it's other boomerhons or gay men or sissies or what, but certainly much seething is taking place there lately
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:40:49 PM No.40095608
>>40093437
>okay well feel free to tell me how to actually meet people then if you're such an expert
you were told how and then said no because you prefer to be a shut in.
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Anonymous
6/18/2025, 3:42:46 PM No.40095616
>>40095607
yeah i tried to appeal it and they wanted me to send a selfie with my ID in it and i was like fuck that so i just never did
>>40095608
no they didn't. the clubbing post was obviously a joke