>>40097045>I don't think being male is undesirable - akin to being fat or uglyintentionally misunderstanding my point. it's not about being undesirable, it's about drawing attention to aspects of people that they or others might not want attention being drawn to. this is where having empathy comes in anon.
if i know that someone is self-conscious about say the shape of their nose, even if i think that objectively they have a completely normal shaped nose and i actually think that the makeup they're wearing to try and cover it up looks far worse, i'm not going to point it out unprompted. it's their life and i don't make a hobby out of trying to show off to people how smart and observant i am at the expense of others just trying to get through the day.