slash elgeebeetee, whats ur gay/queer bar experiences?

im a really lonely NEET troon never drinker asocial autist and im not even looking for hookups or something, i just want to meet ppl, but i know that i will never fit in a regular bar because 1. people are way older than me and are cishet well adjusted adult normies, and even tho i find woke people annoying, most gays are quite normal (except the ones who have dyed hair and earrings) and i just want something to do or find people to talk to

>>40100663 (OP)
gaybars are zogslop for normie gays, use frengen on here

>>40100743
really? how bad is it tho
also im from europe and also i don wanna get raped

>>40100797
ive never been but i am predispositioned against them :) i think only 30+ year old go there so it must be true

>>40100839
oh no whhy is it so impossible to meet people my age as a NEET i guess its joever for me

>>40100797
Can only speak on American bars but to elaborate on >>40100743 the vibes of anything that markets itself on being some flavor of queer club is gonna be the same dogwater top 40 shit as the normie straightoid clubs just with more Charli XCX merch and maybe some Temu pup hoods or bondage harnesses if you’re lucky. Genre themed nights that aren’t explicitly marketed as gay but are somewhat affiliated with fags and/or trannies (eg. goth nights) are a little better but not devoid of woke posturing unfortunately. Better than listening to Chappel Roan all night tho imo

I recently(3 years) went to one and it was empty as fuck, kinda sad desu, it had a stripper show, and an acrobat women that was very cute, a transgirl imitating old singers, there were many transgirls, never seen so many, and almost everyone was way younger than me, danced for a while with my friend, drank a few beers and went back home early, like 3 am, night life is not for me anymore, didn't recognize most of the songs and only went there for nostalgia.

Still prefer it over normal clubs tho.

>>40100663 (OP)
I went to one once, it went surprisingly well. I was sitting alone and a drag queen essentially forced me to socialize with some other people there. Didn't actually make friends but I had a good time talking to them all evening

>>40100663 (OP)
I'm not a neet but I'm an awkward computer nerd who is bad at initiating conversations with strangers. I've always had lots of friendly people talk to me at gay clubs/bars.

>>40100663 (OP)
From my experience, there are
>Fags
>Cis women that wanna be around gay dudes
>Party animals
>Straight people that love legbutt culture
>Occasional hon/drag queen/chaser

>>40100663 (OP)
I got stared at by a bunch of college girls and groped by a gay guy