How do i not feel dread knowing i was a chud, when i talk to a tranny i like i get icky because i know i would have called them a man at one point and i feel gross
please help me

>>40102461 (OP)
your kind never really reforms

>>40102485
why do you say this
I want to be happy and forget
why are you like this

>>40102461 (OP)
yeah that's called guilt you're supposed to feel that when you feel remorse for your bad behaviors

>>40102492
you willingly embraced an ideology of hate and went out of your way to demean or undermine others on the basis of their birth or circumstance
you deserve far worse

>>40102500
but you dont want to feel guilt your whole life do you?

>>40102461 (OP)
I love and respect my trans gf. Other trannies I’m respectful towards until proven unworthy. Such is the way of the chud.

>>40102461 (OP)
as a tranny, please don't worry about this! im sure most trannies would just be happy you're not a chud anymore. i forgive you. forgive yourself too

>>40102501
everyone can change for the love of God
death to your purist culture

>>40102512
your god is dead and your faith is death, cultist
be quiet about your disgusting filth

>>40102512
actually. we've regressed so far and become so cynical that we reject even the possibility of true change. it's disgusting, and frankly should preclude anyone acting shocked when people get more hard headed. you have to forgive people, you have to make changing worth it.

no point in wallowing in self pity, if you feel that sort of guilt redirect it towards helping trans people in some way. outside of that people change, you aren't a frozen forever as a shitty person just because of things in the past.

>>40102516
im agnostic its just a saying lmao
jesus christ relax

>>40102525
>you have to forgive people, you have to make changing worth it.
why? they don't change
I have never met a "reformed" bigot of any kind, they're always just lying to get people off their back and will happily show their true colors again if they let their guard down or think you're sympathetic to their shit

>>40102563
SHUT THE FUCK UP AND KILL YOURSELF FAGGOT

I love you don't feel bad

>>40102525
its stupid really, because everyone isn't immutable
life is literally change so who is to say one can not change in beliefs
>>40102541
best i can do is make a lonely sad tranny neither of those things

>>40102578
i love you too
thank you
>>40102573
you might have anger issues

>>40102615
you might have to kill yourself

>>40102573
>why? they don't change.
sometimes they do. i've changed before, it would be ridiculous to believe others can't. plus my God died for forgiveness and grace.
i have met many reformed bigots. progress is built off the backs of swaying people. it's not the job of each of us individuals to he friends with people we just can't feel comfortable around, but you shouldn't try to guilt people out of at least TRYING.
im sorry you've never experienced change or met people who have. please leave your echo chamber some day

>>40102637
shut the fuck up about your dirty little cult, no wonder you claim to believe people like that can change

you're disgusting

>>40102615
Don't listen to the angry anon trans girls love reformed chuds we love each other and support each other okay?

>>40102629
I know history will see it differently

>>40102650
no
they do NOT reform

>>40102650
yeah that is good

>>40102652
what the fuck did you think before you typed that out? did you think that was poignant, or insightful, or even meaningful?

>>40102645
>no wonder you claim to believe people like that can change
of course, i changed to get here. i was born a 3rd generation atheist and from there, changed.
>you're disgusting
for not writing a feeling sentient being off because they used to be a moron? frankly it's disgusting to dismiss a whole human being like that.
>>40102596
exactly. ive changed in my beliefs. ive changed peoples beliefs. my bf used to be transphobic

>>40102461 (OP)
I was a chud and I dont feel bad. Live & learn

>>40102691
why do you think that your willingness to embrace fiction and reject reality is an argument in favor of bigots embracing hate NOT being filthy spineless liars hiding what they still very much believe and enact in their own lives? pathetic

>>40102692
kill yourself

>>40102671
its a quote from the movie ANTZ
i just thought it was a cool quote

>>40102719
kill yourself

>>40102733
its a cool movie first dreamworks movie
what is your favorite movie?

>>40102746
kill yourself

>>40102704
i'm sorry you were hurt. that's the only reason i can imagine such strong cynicism. ive been hurt too by people who didn't change, but that experience has also helped me recognize that some people do. again, my bf used to be transphobic.

>>40102756
kill yourself, pickme

>>40102751
>>40102760
low tier God

>>40102760
i think you are just taking your anger on others here. Please stop it isn't healthy, go work out or something you will be much happier

>>40102760
>being pro love is pickme
stop holding hateful grudges. love is the only way forward. id say that im the truly radical one for believing in change

>>40102795
I think you should shut the fuck up and kill yourself

>>40102801
what is pro love about empowering, enabling, and enacting hatred and discrimination against others on the basis of their physical existence? insane

>>40102810
Having sex with chuds feels good, seethe

>>40102852
kill yourself, pickme

>>40102461 (OP)
You feel bad you would have done something negative in the past but have grown enough that you no longer would? Be happy you've grown into a person that has acknowledged whatever you see as flaws and have changed.

>>40102873
OP did not change, don't humor it

>>40102810
>empowering, enabling, and enacting hatred and discrimination against others
i'm not, im supporting the death of their hateful beliefs by welcoming them to the side of love.
>what is pro love
acknowledging the fundamental dignity of each other as fellow creatures, equal in worth regardless of circumstance. that we all deserve to do better and be better, and that we should support one another and forgive one another to build that world without hate
idealistic? maybe. but love is the truth, and without it you get nowhere and just keep the cycle going.

>>40102886
except they don't actually change, they still hold those beliefs and will express and act on them when the moment or environment is opportune - you're willingly believing the lies of people who think that people deserve more or less human rights for their skin color or sex or sexuality

>>40102898
You're an autistic loser

>>40102905
you're a revolting pickme

>>40102760
why do you kill yourself faggot? Its not like you dont think about it nightly

>>40102898
unfalsifiable cynical traumatized bullshit. im sorry. i hope you can eventually experience change and become happier. you're clearly very emotionally invested in people being unable to change - thats very healthy just on an interpersonal level

>>40102760
why don't you kill yourself instead faggot? Its not like you dont think about it nightly

>>40102880
I'd like to believe everyone can change and grow if they really put in effort to doing so..

>>40102939
kill yourself about it

>>40102958
reality and evidence contradict your precious fucking "beliefs," retard

>>40102975
Reality is that my chaser bf snuggles me every night and you are alone and angry while I get to huff my chaser's boysmell

>>40102980
that's nice
kill yourself

>>40102975
I'm sure you'll grow one day too, if you really want to.

>>40102975
why do you want me to kill myself? what would that solve for you? i don't want you to kill yourself

>>40102989
I'm sure you'll continue believing reassuring falsehoods

>>40102905
You're mean

I mean just say transgender. Saying the T slur isn't pleasenant and is not flattering . Just giving advice. Also atleast you kinda seem to care . Most people don't feel bad when they misgender a transgender person . Some do it on purpose to be cruel. Hopefully you can accept transgender women as women .

>>40105335
I’m just use to saying tranny and they don’t mind it
Obviously if I don’t know if they mind it I wouldn’t say it

>>40103007
you should really read about the shattered assumptions theory and get some therapy maybe

>>40102461 (OP)
You grew, forgive yourself and continue being better.

>>40105656
But like I’m only doing this because I’m interested in trans woman

>>40102461 (OP)
would you call me a tranny in bed if i asked you too

>>40105709
Duh

>>40105729
and would you enjoy it, or only do it because i wanted you to

>>40102516
>your god is dead and your faith is death, cultist
>be quiet about your disgusting filth
you're dead inside and want others to feel the same joy you feel (none)