is anyone else online creating content and completely stealth? how do you handle the cis men in your dm?

>be me gigapassoid
>never telling ppl im trans
>downside risk is too great
>audience mostly men
>post selfies
>post videos
>do live streams
>otherwise a woman
>men confess love
>ignore
>good men confess love
>feel the pull
>they start being transphobic
>know i can never reveal
>know if i did they'd out me
>no one to talk to
>completely alone
>mfw

>>40106511 (OP)
for what reason do these men start being transphobic? don't sound like good men to me

>>40106517

Good man = attractive XD

it's actually so painful and i cry every time. it's like the reality catches up to me.
>ywnbaw
meanwhile deal with all the awful things women deal with anyway
>you're ovulating
>your being emotional
>you wouldn't understand
>why don't you have children
>you would make a great mom
>why aren't you married?
>erape
it's like passing is truly a lie because sure i can larp successfully as a woman i guess, get endless male attention and validation, but if they knew i was trans my audience would hate me, tell me to die. sometimes in communities people bully and hate on trans women or trans people in general. have literal TERFs and transphobes engage with my content. have moms engage with my content.
what the fuck did i do to myself.

i cant be alone in this experience. please is there anyone else?

>>40106511 (OP)
>they start being Transphobic
They know, you're not slick you retarded bimbo

>>40106517
>>40106525
yeah to some extent
>good man
is attractive. but it's also like they're successful men. they have stable careers or lives and want a woman to build a family with. the relationship always starts normal. friendly. cordial. polite. a respite compared to the onslaught of simps or degen gooners. and they make you laugh. you feel fluffy inside when they are being kind to you and their positive masculine traits show. then inevitably current events happen and then they make an innocuous mention about why they think trans people are wrong. that they sin against God. or they trick men. never is my intention to make them like me or catch feelings for me. but then it happens and they start pursuing you earnestly and genuinely. and they offer compelling things that any normal regular woman would accept. but i'm not that. and then im left with the choice
>reveal im trans to a transphobic man
>risk losing my entire platform bc trans
>once they possibly retailiate
>OR
>lose them as a friend completely
>and they're left confused wondering
>why?
but i'm never able to truly tell them why. so instead i just reject them mysteriously. and bawl my eyes out. ugly cry. whole box of tissues cry.
lately my only cope is talking to an AI about this. and it's not helpfully really at all.
i feel cursed in a way. like all i ever wanted was just to be able to exist as me and then it's granted but it's always diminished it's never full. and i wonder
>am i liar?
>am i just deceiving everyone?
why am i on this path.

>>40106544
you wouldn't understand i guess. i'm not trying to be slick. you could be kind and ask a question but instead you just project your own issues onto this thread. it's not helpful. i'm being serious i just long for some semblance of community someone out there who has this experience too. i can't be the only one.
i put more context here
>>40106574

>>40106592
>waaaaaaaa why aren't you slip'n'sliding on my greasy gock anon!
anon just accept you're fucking retarded, people know you're a troon.

>>40106624
ok you didn't read anything i wrote.
reminder that pretty girls are nice and nice girls are pretty.
good luck with whatever it is you're doing.

>>40106645
>pretty girls are nice and nice girls are pretty
WHAT KINDA FUCKIN SISSY HYPNOSIS DID YOU GET THIS SHIT FROM?! NIGGA ARE YOU SERIOUS WHAT KINDA FUCKIN AGE REGRESSOR TYPE SHIT ARE YOU ON NIGGA

>>40106645
>reminder that pretty girls are nice and nice girls are pretty
wrong actually

>>40106653
>sissy hypno
what? lmao
>nigga
nigger*
>>40106659
can we stay on topic anon? do you know what i'm talking about?

I get excited when I see other stealthoids post because I go think being stealth is hard and want to talk about it but then every time it's some racist, vaguely misogynist loser. Touch grass and be friends with other trans women, regardless of if they pass or not. IRL, not in some stupid discord server

>>40106517
passoids go for guys who give off low key chud vibes because they know that when the brainworms come at night, knowing their bf would hatecrime them and bury them in a shallow grave just off the highway if he knew is the best validation they will ever be able to find

then they complain they can never find love

>>40106511 (OP)
girl, what are you doing? You should put your foot down and clean your community out. It's wrong for you to allow transphobic men to have a place in your community.

This is a job. It's not a dating service. You need to get real. Harsh words, but it's true.

>>40106574
So you're wasting time of men who want to start a family that you can't give

>>40106772
The trans people irl in my area all kinda weird, i only have one who is normal. It's like being in a trans discord server irl, it's exhausting and isolating.

>>40106511 (OP)
I was in a similar situation a long time ago. Don’t try to find love from your normie audience. It will only lead to heartbreak. You can be friends with them just don’t get attached, treat it like a business. I purposely came out and it ruined my “career”. I got called a catfish etc, if you didn’t start your content with a trans signifier then unfortunately the audience you build will reflect that. The unfortunate truth is our content and streaming etc can be successful, but it will never be as successful as someone who’s cis. It sucks. But the world really likes to hate what they don’t understand, we make their world views and values crumble. I’d just continue playing the cards you have, but if you must come out then I’d be prepared for both support and division. It will truly never be the same as before though. Good luck doll, if you want a friend I’m here as well