When I experience something bad in my life, like someone hurting my feelings, I don't blame that experience on innocent people. This includes generalizing and making assumptions about people I don't know based off past experiences. If you do that, why?

>>40109808 (OP)
recognizing patterns allows one to implement changes to prevent negative things from occurring once again.

>>40109822

The patterns I made the thread to address are shown to be highly inefficient at that.