Help - /lgbt/ (#40114680) [Archived: 922 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:05:51 AM No.40114680
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I'm a 19 year old male and I think I'm bisexual. Thing is I go between phases of wanting to be with women or men. These preferences switch biweekly.
This week and the last I have been horny for getting lovingly dominated by a big man. Next week I will most likely be horny for having loving vanilla sex with a cute girl.

I wonder if this is normal, if my brain is kind of fucked up somehow. I worry if I got with someone then I wouldn't 100% be happy with that person due to my fucked up preferences.
I wouldn't ever cheat on anyone, it's not like that. I'm not even ashamed of the gay part of it either. I kind of just wish I was either 100% straight or 100% gay. I feel like a sex pest whenever I think about it.

Now that I've given context to my situation - I want to know - is this normal for bisexual people? How could I find myself to be truly happy in a relationship eventually?
Thank you for helping and reading my blog post.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:20:42 AM No.40114813
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cross that bridge when you come to it, for now just enjoy being bi (supirior sexuality lowk)
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:21:30 AM No.40114817
>>40114680 (OP)
You sound bipolar.
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Anonymous
6/20/2025, 8:30:27 AM No.40114870
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>>40114813
I suppose it's not immediately worrying since I don't see myself being in a relationship anytime within the next couple of years.
I just don't want to leave the problem and let it get worse, if that's possible

>>40114817
Could be but I doubt it. I read somewhere that people that are still in puberty can have their brain chemicals all weird and some doctors don't even want to diagnose young people with anything since it's so uncertain.
If I still have this problem in two years then there is definitely some issue and I will be very worried then. I don't want to potentially ruin future relationships because of this. That would be fucking brutal.
Anonymous
6/20/2025, 12:07:03 PM No.40115941
>>40114680 (OP)
Even totally straight/gay people have fantasies outside of their type. You may end up dating a girl built like a ballerina but suddenly want a busty girl or vice versa.

It's no big deal. You're also 19, just have fun.