/Bigen/ - bisexual general - germany edition

>QotT1 : Do you know any german words ? +10 points if you can speak it
>QotT2 : What's your favorite thing from germany ? (and why is it caspar david friedrich's paintings)

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FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
Ich liebe dich, mein Liebling
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/

>>40117168 (OP)
I am german lol.
But yeah, Caspar David Friedrich is pure kino.

>>40117512
>actual german
I kneel

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Pokémon the first movie wins the first round, vote NOW in the 30 minutes FLASH ROUND to decide the second movie of the night!

>https://discord.gg/jz4ArFtM

>>40117168 (OP)
I studied German in school so I know a lil bit but have forgotten most of it ;-; not a fan of Germany desu lost its appeal a long time ago

Anyone had any experience with threesomes or poly as bi?

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

And after a FLASH ROUND we have the two winners!

>Pokémon the first movie
>Dragon Ball Z: Fusion Reborn

So see ya later at 22 GMT!

>>40117168 (OP)
>>QotT1 : Do you know any german words ? +10 points if you can speak it
I can (could) speak it ! Just with even worse grammar than before and a lack of vocabulary because I didn't practice for quite some time :( Favorite word is enthüllen I think, love this verb idk why
>>QotT2 : What's your favorite thing from germany ? (and why is it caspar david friedrich's paintings)
It's hard to pick, I love the beer, Spezi, the Döners, the people, the music... It's definitely not the fucking Deutsche Bahn though that's for sure.
I'll have to check out Caspar David Friedrich !

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that in 2 hours Movie Night is gonna start! Here is tonight's selection:

>Pokémon the first movie
>Dragon Ball Z: Fusion Reborn

>what the hell is "movie night"
Its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>where do we watch the movies?
On the official Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/jz4ArFtM

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40117168 (OP)
Idk even know if I'm bi-"sexual" like I might think guys look cute but I'm sexually repressed that it's hard to imagine me having sex with anyone but even less so with men. And I've not really had a crush on one like I have with women.

>>40119686
>I'll have to check out Caspar David Friedrich !
please do, it's an iconic romantic german painter, that's very very good at symbolism and has a dry style that really put to shame many other painters with how it highlights his awesome sense of colors and composition

>>40118658
>not a fan of Germany desu lost its appeal a long time ago
true it all went downhill after '45

>>40120415
ok

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Pokémon the first movie
>Dragon Ball Z: Fusion Reborn

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 22:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/jz4ArFtM

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40120392
>>40121616
u posted that 2 hours ago r u ok

>>40121616
tfw you getting dryhumped by satan

cocks are tasty yum yum feed me ropes

>>40125265
that's a little gay anon
discord text chat killed this general btw

Gonna start dating again soon, and gonna try dating guys (I'm a guy myself). Only problem is, I live in a small country so while I know that Tinder is pretty shit compared to other apps, it's the only dating app with a decent population on it, meaning there aren't any other real options...
You people who live in bigger countries have no idea how privileged you are!

>>40118658
>Anyone had any experience with threesomes or poly as bi?

My girlfriend and I have has a threesome with another chick and are gonna do it again soon, what do you wanna know?

>>40126014
That sounds like hell.

>start dating a girl
>she pegs me
>says she loves it, but wants a different toy
>order the dildo to her address
>suddenly she's very distant, won't respond to me texts, doesn't have time to meet
fuuuuuck i fell for the ol' "fuck-his-ass-ghost-him-and-get-a-free-dildo'' scam. shoulda known.

>>40126403
It is :(

>>40117168 (OP)
>QotT1 : Do you know any german words ? +10 points if you can speak it
"Nein" is all I know lol no points for me
>QotT2 : What's your favorite thing from germany
Max Ernst, or Kraftwerk

>>40117168 (OP)
>QotT1
Ja, aber ich spreche nur ein bisschen und ich bin nicht so gut auf die Grammatik und so fort. Wo ich nicht die korrekten Worte haben im meiner Haupt, ich simply bullshit it or put in some English or Italian or Scandinavian, which is a right mess.
>QotT2
Hmm good question. I really like Paprika crisps and Erdnuss Flips?

Thinking on going on a munch, but I’m a virgin and just want to talk to new people

>>40127199
Do it. And then tell us how it went!

>>40126120
Hot but how do you plan for the threesome ? Eventually someone have to just sit and watch.

>>40127221
NTA but I've had a few threesomes. There are times when you're playing together (frequently two people doing things to one person) and times where one of the three is watching the other two or just taking a break. Doesn't really need a ton of planning IMO.

>>40117168 (OP)
>QotT1 : Do you know any german words ? +10 points if you can speak it
Rindfleischetikettierungsüberwachungsaufgabenübertragungsgesetz
>QotT2 : What's your favorite thing from germany ? (and why is it caspar david friedrich's paintings)
99 of them https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fpu5a0Bl8eY

>>40126423
>fuuuuuck i fell for the ol' "fuck-his-ass-ghost-him-and-get-a-free-dildo'' scam. shoulda known.
Classic

Saw a webm of an aisan girl getting dicked. Turned out she has a gock and I wasn't really turned off. Am I bi?

>>40128426
Maybe look for some more videos and see what you think.

>>40128487
I might not be straight...

>>40128733
Enjoy!

>>40127104
>Wo ich nicht die korrekten Worte haben im meiner Haupt, ich simply bullshit it or put in some English or Italian or Scandinavian
Filling in with English is actually a good strategy, you will definitely get understood

>QotT1
It's my first language:
>QotT2
I like old German literature and medieval architecture that you can find there.

>>40128736
Wtf how do I realize this at 26

>>40129064
It's never too late to learn more about yourself or the world

>>40128825
Sweet :) did seem to work alright when I went about a decade ago as a teen (except for when I got too nervous) but I havent been back since. The frustrating thing though is that my reading comprehension is far higher than my ability to reply

Went out to the bar for the second time this month! Putting myself out there!
I was hit on by a guy who had obviously done a lot of coke or something, and I inadvertently offended another who I didn't realize was trying to hook up.
Interesting night.

>>40129923
Sounds fun! A lot of my wackiest experiences have been interacting with random people in public spaces and just kinda following them.

>>40117168 (OP)
The board outside of this gen is very angry and aggressive

>>40131063
the board outside this general is active

the bible says adam and eve, not or

>>40131492
You make a compelling argument

thinking bout those beans

>>40127221
We use Tinder, organise a meet up before hand to discuss things like kinks, what we want to do/what we won't do, STD status that sorta thing
Then when we start we just do whatever feels natural and what we want. Yes there will be times where one person is just watching, for me was when my gf and the other chick were 69ing, shit was cash to watch. Felt a bit awkward at first but I enjoyed the show before changed positions

>>40131063
bigen discord troons banned me for natsi imagery lul and i didn't even manage to report them for piracy

>>40117168 (OP)
I don't speak any German, which annoys me as I have visited probably 7 times. Some of those were just like long weekends in Berlin, 2 others were month long trips where I travelled by train everywhere (if anyone remembers the 9 euro ticket in 2022). I pick up a few words each time, but completely forget after I leave. Though I have 'Ausgang links/rechts' and several other train announcements burned into my brain.

>>40117168 (OP)
ruhm und ehre der waffen ss

does cocklust mean i'm bi

>>40133317
Assuming you also like women, yes.
Straight men aren't into other men at all.

>>40133671
i find it easier to be into women than into men but at the end of the day i've no idea i'm a virgin

>>40133815
>i find it easier to be into women than into men
Same for me, but although I'm not a virgin I've only been with women. I do think I prefer women in general, but it's hard to know for sure without being with a guy.

>>40134087
i've never been with anyone so i can only assume my porn preferences are similar to what i'd like in real life, in which case it would go something like: cock > women > men
i've been wanting to try for a while now but i'm currently not very dateable right now and i'm afraid of casual/cheap sex because of stds

>>40134324
As a somewhat cocksexual bi man, your porn preferences correlate with what you like in real life but not necessarily 100%.
I love seeing blowjobs in porn, probably more than anything else.
Giving a blowjob is exciting for a bit, but I get bored after five minutes. They need to either cum or fuck me at that point.
I don't like seeing men give cunnilingus in porn at all, does nothing for me, it's mildly annoying, I skip it if I'm watching a full video and never look at clips of it. But IRL I love eating pussy indefinitely, I've had encounters where I just gave head to a girl on and off all night.

>>40133285
You could have at least bothered with proper capitalization if you are gonna larp.

picrew teim

https://picrew.me/ja/image_maker/2236443/

>>40136533
Young Doc Seismic looking ass

>>40117168 (OP)
Guys when does the rat race end? I'm tired of the same shit every week, working my days away just to scrape by

>>40136667
When you save up enough that you don't have to work anymore. Personally my goal is to be able to stop working (if I want to) by the time I'm 50. Most likely it's gonna be some kind of barista FIRE around that time though.

finger me silly batman, the riddlers diddling a fiddler, the penguins stole the mayors diamond, and the jokers a femboy

ur not too good to post cool, fun, flirty, clever, charming, or ridiculous posts in bigen

>>40139555
Maybe young doc seismic prefers to wallow in silence rather than voice his sorrows to such a picrewless crowd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cp0pLQpSY-M

>>40140158
ok i made a picrew
i dont really get it, i just made a dude and gave him hella layers of clothes

>>40140402
saved

>>40117168 (OP)
i might be getting into a relationship with a man for the first time in my life. it feels amazing but i also want to vomit from how kind he's been to me. as someone a bit older (31) without much experience it feels embarrassing and i instinctively reject affection towards me (mentally) and believe i don't deserve it. he can do much better but i got asked ... its sickening

>>40140975
love that for u, enjoy urself please

>>40141032
thanks
part of me wonders what he sees
trying not to have my hopes up too much so im trying to suppress my feelings. he's traveling so i need to hold out until he's back

>>40140975
I need that. How'd you manage it? I've been making very little progress so far.

>>40141259
we met on grindr coincidentally. he's a bit older, expressed to me that he was looking for a romantic relationship and he wanted to just get to know me at first, we moved onto ig + later mobile. from his pattern of communicating as well as my own research / experience it looks like he's a real dude. i guess i was just open to it and we went from there... he's insane at flirting (whereas i have like no rizz) so everytime he compliments me or says anything mildly suggestive i want to just crush my phone out of embarrassment

im not going to get too emotionally invested until we meet up. but i credit our strong rapport (so far) to the fact we're both willing to word dump on each other and be really vulnerable / open about our experiences and how the other's responses make us feel

Bump

>>40141353
Just see how it goes. I think you can frequently kinda tell if you'll hit it off if you're really texting a bunch ahead of time.

>>40141353
that sounds exceedingly sweet anon, glgl

>>40136533
Ok I never got the picrew thing, is it time to actually get into it ?
Also /rant/, the people on tagmap never reply to me :(

It's always such an ambivalent feeling when you agree to work extra - on the one hand the money is nice, but on the other hand you have to sacrifice your personal life for it, to an extent.

>>40117168 (OP)
DEATH TO GERMANY !

VIVE LA FRANCE !

>>40146388
>Also /rant/, the people on tagmap never reply to me :(
I assume one person joins tagmap a month maybe and then never checks it a month after that. You're not likely to meet anybody there.

Why is there no flag for "fag"
>>40136667
Never :(
>>40146388
Can't speak for anyone else but I just put my tag up there with my discord details, I never check the actual website so make sure to dm me on discord if you're in the business of talking to me :p

>>40140975
You got any tips on how to court people like you?
>T.zero rizz and trying to get with a really cute shy guy

>>40147546
think about the poor souls who have to work unpaid overtime

>>40147934
Talked with several people on the site and even met (and befriended) one.

>>40149415
Anyone that lets themselves be exploited by doing unpaid overtime has only themselves to blame ngl

>>40149449
i think ur being a wee bit naive babe, it a big ol world out there

>>40117168 (OP)
I really like old German love songs, I really like the medieval imagery some of them evoke.

>>40147546
Doing a PhD and I wish I got paid for my overtime lol. I've been sleeping at university under my desk and putting in hours every weekend and still feels like I'm just perpetually playing catch up. But I chose this so don't get to complain.

>Only romantically interested in women
>Have insatiable cravings to fuck femboys every now and then
It's pretty great, ngl. Except when I have a girlfriend I guess.

>>40152364
Try to get a gf who will let you smash femboys on the side

>>40149473
I understand that people can be stuck in situations where they need a job to live and get exploited via unpaid overtime obviously, but having any loyalty whatsoever towards a company that does stuff like is just shooting yourself in the foot. I always start looking for new jobs as soon as the company I work for pulls anything similar to that lmao

I regret telling my friend im bi. I thought it would feel good to be open and seen but instead I feel bad and vulnerable. It's not as if she reacted badly. She was nice. I just want to take it back. I dont want anyone to know.

>>40155283
I feel like I've read this post before almost word for word

>>40155632
idk man

>>40155283
too bad buddy now even we know

>>40149364
don't be afraid to compliment others / flirt sincerely even if you feel mega cringe doing so

seriously, some of the things this guy has texted me have made me blush so hard i threw my phone across my room, and i'm old as fuck. legit makes me want to be his bitch

>>40155853
Define flirt sincerely
Should I just tell him what I think? I.e, that he's cute af

>>40157951
You should just ask him to send you pictures of his feet

>>40136533
Picrew Teim!!! I don't care how stale the thread is!!!

>>40140402
its just fun to mess around with the options desu. Also interesting to compare the variety of choices between different picrews. I usually try to make myself or a character; chose to do myself this time

huh, and now I just learned that the abbreviation "tee bee ach" gets turned into "desu" by 4chan. lmao, this dumb ass site

>>40158191
yikes it truly is summer

>>40158191
candyassgot

>>40158191
Only about a decade late on that, senpai

>>40158162
saved

>>40146388
They're a cute way to make a self-portrait that's not a goddamn photo if you want to post yourself online. It's a lgbtqi+ coded thingy too, and it's free
I personally am very fond of them