>>40118037 (OP)i used a dildo ~7 times in my life and the only time it felt good was when i was riding it but that doesnt mean it felt really good, it just means it felt better than the my other attempts. i lurked /d/'s anal general to see if i was doing anything wrong, but it turns out that prostate stimulation is way harder to pull off than it seems, let alone trying to achieve a prostate orgasm. there were posters on here that spent years pounding their ass until they could do it while there are others that say they can orgasm from their ass just fine. personally? receiving anal's not for me. I tried.
tl;dr anal stimulation is probably 99% mentally dependent rather than physically depended when you're stimulating with your penis and because of that anal is either easy or hard to enjoy depending on the person.