how do you cope knowing that your existence is something that causes your bf to be ridiculed and mocked by his friends and family? it makes me feel worthless..

>>40124443 (OP)
My bf is too chad to be ridiculed by anyone

If this is happening and it's not something you're worried about--

Your boyfriend loves you. He thinks you are more important to be around and be loved and respected by than his shitty family. His family judges you for no reason. You have done nothing wrong and neither has he. You should enjoy each other's company to the fullest. These are difficult times and love makes life worthwhile.

i'm 6'4 and look mean enough that no one has tried to make fun of me even holding hands and kissing other men in shithole ghetto areas

>>40124483
not to be doomer but if his friends or family know your trans then they all roasting him to his face or behind his back. you can feel the judgement.

>>40124542
well he wont even really introduce me to them. they are all super religious including him. he wanted to move to a new city with me, marry me and start a new life, but i told him i dont want to be with someone that doesnt introduce me. because when we have kids i want them to have a relationship with both sides of their grandparents, and i want my bf to be able to have a relationship with his family. family is really important to me and i want to only be with a guy that prioritizes that. i know any advice would be like "find a new guy that doesnt hide you!" but im realizing almost all the ones who wouldnt hide me are weird bisexuals, or low T libtard males. im only into chads. i know that makes me vain, but im just bitching that it seems the more chad of guy youre with the often more theyll try to hide you. and its kind of devastating because youll be feeling like a normal woman until something like this happens and it just reminds you like oh. nope. im not normal. i am this thing that most people are ashamed to be associated with. and what was my alternative to this life? just not transition and be a masc4masc gay boy i guess which sounds even less fulfilling to me... but i digress

>>40124443 (OP)
yea if i chose to reveal my tranny to my social circles, this would happen
im hoping for her to voicetrain to fully girlmode and go stealth

>>40124443 (OP)
If my partner was trans I wouldn't give a damn about any external pressure. Even familial. The potential rejection/mockery may hurt, but it's outweighed by the potential love of that relationship. I want to make sacrifices for the one I love.

>>40124625
>i know that makes me vain
It doesn't sound vain to me, really. I do think that people who are center- or right-leaning politically are much more likely, almost by definition, to not treat you with respect and be comfortable being open about dating you.

I hope that if you ever meet a guy you're physically attracted to and who behaves decently towards you and others, that you give him a shot, even if he is a weird bisexual (lol) or liberal/left or whatever. I feel like there's something hot about simply not feeling any shame or hesitation with someone.

>>40125110
>I feel like there's something hot about simply not feeling any shame or hesitation with someone.
good point. maybe if im in love enough i wont care at all about dumb bs like that.

>>40124443 (OP)
I don’t have tranny gf but I don’t give a shit about that