Thread 40128112 - /lgbt/ [Archived: 983 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:51:41 PM No.40128112
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Do people actually transition because they have no success with the opposite sex?

Anecdotally I can't think of anyone that transitioned because of this. All of the people I can think of who transitioned actually had active romantic and sex lives before transitioning.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 4:59:11 PM No.40128150
>>40128112 (OP)
No it is never the only reason
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:34:16 PM No.40128324
i still have no idea wtf Kisekae is
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:36:37 PM No.40128341
>>40128112 (OP)
i had no success with the opposite sex because women aren't into some repper fag that gets shy and self conscious around women who doesn't want to use his dick.
i have had marginal success with women posttrans because having any amount of confidence is an attractive trait.
its not about transitioning it's about transition bringing mental health benefits that will ultimately make you a more compelling partner. you might not know how truly soul sucking reppers are to be around.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 5:42:17 PM No.40128372
>>40128112 (OP)
Had sex a couple times before I trooned out, it was pretty underwhelming and I had to dissociate hard or imagine myself in the girls position to even finish. Turned out it wasn't even sex I was craving, I just wanted intimacy.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:30:47 PM No.40128687
>>40128112 (OP)
i wouldn't say i did because of that, but it had a minor role in the "i have nothing to lose" sense
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 6:55:10 PM No.40128868
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>>40128112 (OP)
I can think of at least one
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:48:05 PM No.40130465
>>40128112 (OP)
>All of the people I can think of who transitioned actually had active romantic and sex lives before transitioning.
Well I didn't lol, but I had been one girl's boyfriend and hadn't found it fulfilling. I still didn't transition for incel reasons.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 9:50:37 PM No.40130490
>>40128112 (OP)
no, that's classic anti-trans rhetoric and some people internalize that to justify themselves
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:19:41 PM No.40130749
>>40128112 (OP)
I didn't transition because of it, however if I was loved and appreciated for who I was I am sure I could have dealt with my dysphoria without trooning. I was always super nice to girls and a total simp because I wanted them to like me and to have access to feminine spaces through them, but I was just taken advantage of in the way simps usually are which made me very jaded and hate women.

It was chronic loneliness and being a KHHV that made me decide to finally bite the bullet and just troon out.
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Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:23:29 PM No.40130792
>>40128341
>women aren't into some repper fag that gets shy and self conscious around women who doesn't want to use his dick.
I will never forgive women for this. It breaks your heart when you realise the sort of men that women would rather date instead of you.
Anonymous
6/21/2025, 10:27:06 PM No.40130823
>>40128324
anime doll poser
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:45:50 AM No.40132635
>>40128112 (OP)
No they are just really easy to groom cia is like “every well fucked tranny who was incel is one less nashville shooter”
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 1:48:53 AM No.40132679
>>40130749
No you fail because you only know how to flirt as the woman you are and they want a man and they dont know why but they know what you are to your very soul isnt what they are attracted to, ie real men. you should accept you are really a woman and transition sooner than later otherwise you will never find love. If you were right wing trad man, now you have to be trad wife stay at home wife mom
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:18:26 AM No.40133546
>>40132679
>transition sooner than later
I started estrogen a year ago

>you will never find love
I know
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:38:26 AM No.40133719
>>40128112 (OP)
pooner haircut in the before pic
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:47:57 AM No.40133817
>>40128112 (OP)
Having no success with the opposite sex is probably better for trans people. Having success gives you opportunities to imagine yourself in your partner's position, which just ends up being a shitty way to repress and delays transition. Trannies will always troon out, its just a question of when.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 3:50:58 AM No.40133847
>>40128112 (OP)
nah actually all the memes about trannies being failed male incels and/or shy autists made me rep harder and avoid hrt because I didn't want to fall into the stereotype. But I don't gaf anymore I just wanna look cute.
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:20:19 AM No.40134893
>>40128112 (OP)
eh its part of it. i just have never been able to imagine myself as a man with a woman, maybe as a twink but i wouldnt be able to stay that way. i dont know, it just feels horrible, i dont think women like me but maybe thats good because the real nightmare is to become a john 50 with wife and kids
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:25:21 AM No.40134916
>>40128112 (OP)
I seriously despise that stupid "become the gf" meme. I feel like it totally trivialize the trans experience. I'm not trying to be a gf I'm just being me.
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Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:55:26 AM No.40135110
>>40134916
>I'm not trying to be a gf I'm just being me.
well see that's because you aren't an agp reddithon
Anonymous
6/22/2025, 6:57:42 AM No.40135127
>>40134916
A lot of online trans "culture" trivilises the trans experience. Its been like, a decade of terminally online anime-inspired weeaboo shitmemes generated by people who will never actually transition and just larp online