Thread 40129385

I am the only straight guy on this board who's had successful relationships with trans women.
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>>40129385 (OP)
keyword: had

>>40129407
fpbp

>>40129407
>>40129411
False. A girl is a girl even if they were born a boy
>>40129410
Still in one.

>>40129385 (OP)
It's not that hard bud. After her SRS, the relationship got even better
>has a relationship still

>>40129472
trans women are men, only homosexuals disagree

>>40129487
My girl has had hers for a couple of years now. Never touched a grickle. We're not the same.

>>40129385 (OP)
>>40129472
Don't you miss pussy?

>>40129494
I've had both cis and trans women. You haven't so therefore cannot grasp the concept.

>>40129509
She has one. Next Question.
I should also add that she's one of the hottest girls to ever grace this board.

Ultimately the entire board is really just down to this:

Attractive people
vs
Unattractive people

LGBT is a joke.

>>40129512
you like men more than women cuz ur gay
its ok to be gay and date men, you dont have to date men in dresses and pretend it isn't as gay

>>40129546
I like women. Trans women are women hence the name. Being with a trans woman is the exact same as being with a cis woman if you don't care about having kids. I've had the luxury of having a threesome with a cis and trans woman; only then will you ever really get that they're cut from the same cloth.

>>40129578
hot dogs are dogs
sea horses are horses

>>40129385 (OP)
why would you want to DATE trannies?
they're for quick fucks

>>40129582
A better analogy is if I bought a stock Acura vs an Accord fully customized to look and drive like an Acura. It might not actually be in Acura, but it sure as hell does look and drive like one! The can both get me from point A to point B
>>40129583
Because I can and its fun. All i'm doing is expanding my dating pool for finding a potential lover.

>>40129631
>expanding my dating pool for finding a potential lover.
Most cis women are turned off about men who have fucked men or trannies.

>>40129631
trans women are men
you are gay for liking them

>>40129654
My girl is stealth, so who's going to tell them im fucking around with trans women?
Most passing girls want to remain stealth.
>>40129655
You're gay for being a spectator and not getting you some trussy bruh

>>40129385 (OP)
has being with them made you less queerphobic overall? Would you say they taught you much, or did they mostly just want your approval as a straight guy? I would wanna be w a straight guy but probably a very gender deconstructionist one, bc gender standards are really cruel (to everyone but especially us)

Bonus question, what do trans girls not realize about what makes them attractive?

>>40129685
>My girl is stealth, so who's going to tell them im fucking around with trans women?
For women you're THE TRANNYFUCKER.

>>40129713
>has being with them made you less queerphobic overall?
I've never really been. I grew out of the queer bashing shit early. I don't care what others do in their private lives.
>Would you say they taught you much, or did they mostly just want your approval as a straight guy?
A little of both. They taught me a lot in terms of the fear of not passing and what exactly it takes to achieve that state of self acceptance needed in order to be happy. Yeah sure, I help validate her, but validation from men simply isn't enough for most girls.
>Bonus question, what do trans girls not realize about what makes them attractive?
a little extra weight, being "too thin", not having showered or shaving pubes/pits in a couple of days. Small things like the way they get excited about some goofy shit i dont really care about.
>For women you're THE TRANNYFUCKER.
They can't smell a trans woman on me because they smell just like cis women lmao

>>40129685
>nobody knows my boyfriend is gay

>>40129385 (OP)
How does her shit smell on your cock?

>>40129824
You'll never know how wrong you are until you take the leap.
>>40129837
I've never been frosted. Her shit smells as bad as everyone else's and just an FYI:
Women have dirtier asshole than trans women do.

>>40129896
>You'll never know how wrong you are until you take the leap.
im not self hating like you are
I don't need to tell myself I'm doing something straight and normal when I sex other men

>>40129802
Anon they know she's trans they are just being polite...

>>40129913
These girls identify and look like women. It's not self hating because I'm not attracted to men. Period. I don't like masculinity like you do. I'm a pure blooded gynephile, so we aren't the same bruv...
>>40129945
Nah, the only people who know are medical professionals and her family. I've been in a lot of crowded spaces with her in conservative areas and she's even done her own extensive tests; Successfully infiltrating conservative spaces.

>>40129385 (OP)
You're not straight.

>>40129896
>Women have dirtier asshole than trans women do.
The inverse has been true in my experience. Not that I particularly mind...

>>40129802
So I get the impression you're like kind of a normie straightie in terms of identity? That's cool I just wondered. It's kinds hard for me to see a typical straight guy as a good partner for a fully realized trans girl, but it's probably easier to b happy that way if you're really hot
What's a successful relationship mean to you?
Is there something about her mannerisms or fashion taste or anything that's attractive that cis women tend not to have?
U don't have to answer all these just curious bc you're a good sport

>>40129972
I am and I'm eating very well because of it.
>>40129973
>Not that I particularly mind...
I don't mind as much either if it's accidental or if im just super horny, but cis women don't expect to be touched there so dont pay as much attention to as as transgirls do

>>40129968
>These girls identify and look like women
you are as delusional as they are

>>40130018
You're fucking men, my dude.
Which is fine, but like, come on lmao

>>40130013
>What's a successful relationship mean to you?
A successful relationship is one where we have a clear goal in terms of a future and are actively working to achieve said goals.
>Is there something about her mannerisms or fashion taste or anything that's attractive that cis women tend not to have?
Not really. She dresses as well as a well dressed cis woman with a sense of style. She has some robotic mannerisms, but cis women can have similar. There's nothing that really stands out other than she's very kind and doesn't have an attitude.
>>40130027
>you are as delusional as they are
It's delusional to eat well? Whatever you say man...
>>40130036
They're women now and it's not hurting you any, so why do you care? Tell me how it affects your life.

>>40130089
it's delusional to have gay sex with other men and tell yourself you aren't gay and they look like a woman
it's ok to admit you are gay

>>40130089
It doesn't. I just find the mental gymnastics kind of fascinating. Like you're so ashamed of being gay, I guess, that you've convinced yourself a person with a penis isn't a man. Don't you find that pretty interesting?

>>40130106
there's enough people who want gay couples to larp as straight that it motivates these people to keep doing it
they don't exist in a vacuum, others want them to do it this way

>>40130089
>they're women now
They are most certainly not adult human females.

>>40130101
It sounds like you want me to be gay and that's all fine and dandy, but it's not how I swing. It's also not just me who thinks they she looks female. She's gone to conservative events and guys were hitting on her left and right lmao.
>>40130106
She doesn't has a penis she has a very expensive pussy. How can I be ashamed to be something that I'm not?
>>40130120
They are though. You just don't want to accept it.

>>40129385 (OP)
kek fucking trannies doesn’t make you straight. they’re just men who ingest female hormones and get breast transplants, might as well call yourself a faggot

>>40130159
>It sounds like you want me to be gay
you date the same sex, you are already, I want you to not be ashamed of being gay

>>40130159
>>40130106
This is fucking exhausting lol

>>40130159
>>40130165
This. Gay erasure's not cool, and there's nothing wrong with liking a bit of dick now and then.
Unfortunately, an excised dick does not a female make. Women are not dispenised men.

>How can I be ashamed to be something that I'm not?
That's what they call "internalized homophobia", my friend.

>>40130173
It is kind of funny though.

>>40130159
>She doesn't has a penis she has a very expensive pussy
Does it look like this?

>>40129578
Bless you

>>40129385 (OP)
how did u meet her? (and any others in the past?) and how tall is she?

>>40130173
we have to TALK about it to fix it, if everyone just goes yeah bro ur straight and ur dating a woman, it will never change!

>>40130206
It's impossible to rationalize with irrational people.

>>40130160
I've smashed trans women that look better than your crushes. I'm with one that looks like a posh white girl from the suburbs. Nothing gay about that in the slightest.
And if you're gay then whatever... Go be gay. Stop trying to convert me like this is Age of Empires.
>>40130179
It's not homophobia. I don't discredit your existence and I don't mind it either. Go be a fudge packer, butt pirate, booty bandit whatever. Just keep us out of the conversation. We aren't gay we're straight and if you were to try to pick us out of a line up of couples you couldn't even tell.
>>40130180
No. This person looks to have had the first phase of srs and hasn't had a revision to make it puffy and nice looking
>>40130183
Bless you too. I hope you find love from a good guy.
>>40130202
I met her here. She was a notorious trip. She's like 5'5/6/7/ about 2 inches shorter than me

>>40130206
Why so fixated on labels and morally righteous language though

>>40129385 (OP)
would I go on the left or right of that image

>>40130229
It is homophobia. You are two gay men larping as a straight couple out of fear you would be judged negatively if you were both openly gay.

>>40130180
this, this is concerning :o

>>40130229
I dunno man, you're getting awfully defensive.
Reminds me of when people bring up that transgenderism is more accepted in Middle Eastern countries because at least you're not gay. Is that what this is? You'll get stoned? Otherwise I'm not sure what the issue is with simply recognizing reality.

Anyways, make sure you keep your mind spry. Wouldn't want to sprain a neuron with all those gymnastics you're performing.

>>40130233
because admitting you are gay shows women you are not afraid to defy them

>>40130229
fuckk another reason to hate being 5'11
do u know when she started transitioning tho? and what surgeries besides srs has she gotten?

It's ok to be gay let's rejoice with the boys in the gay way!

>>40129385 (OP)
>straight guy
Dropped your buttplug there sis.

>>40130244
>"why do straight trannies and their bfs act so homophobic"
because you all can't leave us alone you can't help but force us into your box. i wasn't homophobic when i transitioned but i became homophobic after having to fight "why cant you just be gay hey you know you and every man you date will be gay because you're a man"
optics cuts both ways

>>40130312
im sorry you got bullied out of being gay

>>40130242
Not enough to say. You could potential go on the right depending on resources, but not ugly to be deserving of the left. That said, I wouldn't date you.
>>40130244
It's not an act.
>>40130257
It's not defensiveness as I'm explaining after being asked "why". It's your brain projecting your own defensiveness as to you feeling like I need to justify smashing trussy and how it's not straight. We're happy over here, can you say the same?
>>40130286
I dated a girl who was 6' before and she was fine. It's all proportions, posture, mannerisms, ect.
She officially started at like 18. She's had other modest surgeries like a BBL, Breasts, FFS, VFS.
>>40130302
You mad salty dookie dick

>>40130325
>can you say the same?
Yup. I'm not lying to myself. Shit's pretty good. Thanks for asking, self-hating homophobic gay boy.

>>40130325
>I wouldn't date you
you're not the first man to tell me that ;_;

>>40130325
> modest surgeries like a BBL, Breasts, FFS, VFS
> modest surgeries
dude she had the whole package lmfao

>>40130325
>It's not an act.
society believe gay people are choosing to be gay, and, especially, that effeminate gay men are acting that way on purpose, thus transgenderism was born, as a response to these beliefs, where you align yourselves with heterosexuals, where masc gay men can claim to like women, and fem gay men can claim they are not acting, because nobody scrutinizes the behavior of women nearly as closely as that of flamers

im sorry your family is homophobic

>>40130324
i didn't, you all just tried to bully me into being gay

>>40130261
That's not the part I meant but I mean yea u shouldn't be scared of gayness ig

>>40130379
given how hated gays are, I feel trying to bully someone into being gay is a pretty minimal crime

>>40130229
>I met her here. She was a notorious trip.
Who is it then?

>>40130229
I got attention from men when I was a twink. Started taking the 'mones & wearing dresses and now lesbians give me the eye...

I'm going to miss dating gaybois.

>>40130379
the question is more why you let the bullies get to you in the first place imo? cope and seethe by calling me gay all day long idc

>>40130420
idk ive never been good at not caring what people think. at the time this stuff happened to me i was like 17 and didn't really have a support network so it didn't feel silly it felt like how all of society was gonna see me forever

>>40130325
yeah thats a lot of surgeries but her starting at 18 does make me feel better (started at 19)
either way im glad there are men out there like you and i hope you two have a happy lasting relationship! <3

>>40130456
ah fair I'm sorry for you...
I was born with comical levels of confidence so I was flaming around in the most conservative places all my life and making bullies cry since I was four.

>>40130344
Then be happy and be gay. I'm over here enjoying the straight life.

assigned male at birth plus another assigned male at birth equals homosexuality

>>40130354
Sorry it's nothing personal. You're just not far along enough for me to consider. Don't let something subjective like that discourage you though.

>>40130355
She's had it all and then some. Always looking for things to improve on; not just physically. That's what I love about her. I don't have to worry about her getting fat and bloated and ugly.
>>40130357
lol What?
>>40130411
It's funnier when people try to figure it out and then once they find out who it is they have a nice hearty laugh about it.
>>40130416
Date who you want and just have fun.

>>40130835
I am, but I miss the penis. It's been a very long time.

>>40130835
>once they find out who it is they have a nice hearty laugh about it.
Lagolaf? Vampchan? Degen?

>>40131100
>I miss the penis
that's crazy desu

>>40130484
im happy you didn't waste time worrying about what people think, good on you

>>40131122
You’re gettin awfully close

>>40131575
Hmmm...those are just the first 3 that came to mind. Can't remember all the tripfags around this place. Can I get a hint?

>>40129532
Not just that but all the people on the right side are also porn stars so this is really just unattractive people vs pornstars lmao

>>40130089
>so why do you care? Tell me how it affects your life.
I always love this retarded take.
Especially when THEY are the ones that START THE THREAD.

>>40132397
It’s only retarded because you’re insecure and ya dont know exactly why you’re so upset about it. Just let me enjoy my trussy in peace.

>>40132153
She’s of that era. If I give you too much of a hint she’s easy to identify

>>40129385 (OP)
why are cis men like you so scary to be around?

>>40132516
No.
It's retarded because you open up with "Hey, <insert thing that is factually false>.
Ask me anything.
And then you get annoyed when people say "Umm. <factually false thing> is actually factually false".

>>40132546
What’s so scary about me exactly?
>>40132557
Im not annoyed im laughing at your reasoning.

>>40132535
I can't think of anyone else then. I've been on and off this board for like 10 years but never followed trip drama too much.

>>40132787
>What’s so scary about me exactly?

Cis Men seem to only think with their cocks, and get extremely angry at the site of anything queer. Testosterone makes you guys violent, so if I even say the wrong thing, your little man brain will get irritated and hurt me.

>>40132787
You do sure seem to be annoyed that people aren't validating your homosexual activity as heterosexual.
Just take a deep breath and repeat after me.
It's ok to be gay

>>40132933
It’s not super important. Someone will eventually figure it out.
>>40132958
I’ve known her for about 5 years now. If I were going to beat her she would have left me by now. She’s not hopeless like a lot of the girls here.

>>40132978
Im straight. You’re not converting me bro

>>40133024
I don't believe you know what straight means.

So much repressed bisexuality in this thread.
Stop with your internalized biphobia and admit you're not straight.

>>40133061
Ive got nothing against them. Not bi tho

>>40129385 (OP)
Ok I'll bite. I'm a post op tranny, 8 yrs hrt. Is a good BA a requirement to be cute? Srsly considering it...

Also tell me how you deal with her past etc, I don't tell guys I'm with that I'm trans but serious relationships scare me for this reason. Do you see yourself marrying her?

>>40133266
> Is a good BA a requirement to be cute? Srsly considering it...
I like hers, but id say that if you already have nice looking hrtitties it’s not necessary. Im ass guy so my opinion is bias. Always stick to something that’s proportionate to the rest of you though.
> tell me how you deal with her past etc, I don't tell guys I'm with that I'm trans
I met her here, so she was already pretty far into her transition. You’ll need to elaborate on that question though.
> Do you see yourself marrying her?
We’re practically best friends at this point, and it’d be goofy if I didnt.

>>40133373
Cute, wishing the best for you two

I didn't realise you'd met on here, how about your family? I mean what do they think of her?

A lot of the guys I find myself with are very family oriented and homophobic, I just wonder what someone would say about my past or why I have no old photos to family even if he accepts me for being trans. I'm practically a blank slate with life starting at 16. I hope that makes some sense

>>40133440
Thanks!
>how about your family? I mean what do they think of her?
We're just about there. She'll be meeting them as soon as this holiday season. She's stealth, so there won't be any issues im sure. If there is they don't need to worry about it because im the one marrying her.
>A lot of the guys I find myself with are very family oriented and homophobic, I just wonder what someone would say about my past or why I have no old photos to family even if he accepts me for being trans.
The one person who would have gone that far is gone. I have no worries about it though because she does have some older photos where she still looks feminine. Just use the tomboy phase card.

>>40133526
That's amazing anon, I'm jealous as hell lol

Out of curiosity, are you open to adoption or what are you planning?

Sorry if I'm annoying with all thése questions, I just feel like everyone else here is sort of insane. It's hard to find stealth girls in the real world too

Anyway, I hope to one day find something like you two have :)

>>40133627
>are you open to adoption or what are you planning?
I'm open to it if that's what she wants to do. When it comes to kinds I've had a lot of experience with family members and their children; I'm pretty good with them.
>Sorry if I'm annoying with all thése questions, I just feel like everyone else here is sort of insane.
It's fine I don't mind sharing. Yeah she was pretty crazy herself, but she's calming down a lot.
>I hope to one day find something like you two have :)
Keep looking is all I can really say. Taking the initiative isn't a bad thing if you really want happiness.