would you date/hook up with a cutter tranny. like i dont cut but my friend is seeing a tranny with a fair bit of cuts on her legs.

is that a major red flag for yall?

>>40144073 (OP)
ive never had it be a deal breaker for the people ive dated and its never been a deal breaker for me.

>>40144073 (OP)
No more than mental illness, which is part of the tranny package to begin with. Be healthy anon.

I've been with like 12 people and none of them seemed put off by it

>>40144073 (OP)
i could if they weren't cutting anymore, i couldn't be with someone you was actively hurting themselves again. i think it'd be the same for me because i self harm actively by doing drugs and i don't think people would want to deal with my problems

>>40144499
Yikes

>>40144073 (OP)
most trannies cut thats just standard issue to me desu. It wouldnt bother me if they were trying to stop.

Why can’t I stop visualizing myself cutting open my arm? I don’t want to be a cutter, I just can’t stop imagining it, and when I have a sudden bad memory or thought I imitate the motion of cutting with my hand. I also say stuff like “I’m gonna kms” when I don’t want to and I don’t even fantasize about it, but it’s like my voice just comes out and says it :(

>>40144073 (OP)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6ity2Lmr-k

>>40144073 (OP)
well would you be comfortable around this on my arms?

>>40144073 (OP)
yeah cause i am an elevated risk person. and get PHQ-9'd every week.
and i cant be around sh people or drug addicts etc.
for my own safety cause im fucking tapped.


a boy i dated recently had a bunch of chicken scratch scars on his arms
and was talking about suicide things on 1st date, and knew that i couldnt continue.
cause we'd potentially hurt eachother to go further.

i used to fuck a hot girl that would cut herself if i wouldnt drive like a fucking hour to go fuck her.
and she'd call me like 30+ times a night. and then send pics of her cutting herself.

never again. i cant deal with that shit.
also i got her pregnent twice and she got rid of both of them.

so yeah im not dealing with cutters or people around drugs.

>>40145857
are you just retarded or something

>>40145832
i wouldnt be xoxo

>>40145876

>>40145857
omg need a girl like thatt

>>40145872
something worse and yeah. in alot of ways i think so. retarded is a great description.

i got like a 30 minute psych eval recently and the dude gave me "autism" "depression" "social anxiety disorder"
and i didnt even get into it..
it would've kept stacking problems.

but i was satisfied with that for 30 minutes with a psycj.

if i catch you cutting you'll catch these fists.

>>40144073 (OP)
I've ghosted over it the times

>>40145907
horse anon, you've changed

>>40144073 (OP)
It was a red flag, but I did date somebody with a TON of scars (though all old and healed/starting to fade) for a brief time despite how much of a red flag it was for me and she was actually really fun and friendly with most of that stuff being in her past, so to speak. It even got to the point I trusted her around tools she could easily hurt or kill herself with instantly because of how stable and healthy things had been. However we were only able to live together for a few months at a time as she was foreign to my country and I was burning a lot of money to keep her here. The moment we had to split up for the first time the separation anxiety sent her into what seemed to be one of the worst self-destructive mental health spirals of her life. I actually lost contact with her and only had tabs on her from her friends that lived nearby that reached out to me, at least until she drove them out of her life with her extreme behavior. I have no idea where she is now and only know she is alive because she occasionally reaches out to my current partner (never me) to harass them. It's sad but while it is IS a huge red flag it is not necessarily something that cannot be dealt with in the right environment with the right group of people as a social circle. When we lived together it was fine to great mentally most of the time, she was just on a very thin foundation that shattered the moment she no longer had anyone to care for her irl. I don't hate her or regret my time with her, but I do feel awful that the only way she would have been okay is if I had the infinite money to keep her in a safe and friendly environment at all times.

>>40145798
Sounds possibly like ocd, not sure. Maybe look into it.

>>40148381
Its normal wym?

>>40144073 (OP)
why should it be a red flag?

everyone loves their red flags so much

>>40149189
emotional instability and self harm proves a person struggles with rational thought and actions. its no different than drug addiction.

>>40148381
People have told me I might have OCD for other stuff so maybe

>>40146667
so based, if my bf beat me up every time i felt like cutting id never do it again

>>40144073 (OP)
it's over for shfags

>>40151048
Double damaged goods not just an unironic tranny, an unironic tranny that cuts

>>40144073 (OP)
if anything i'd be a bit more inclined to like you because i know you had gone through similar things to me