>>40158400I get that it's the lack of understanding of violence you face as a male
In this day and age most girls especially if youre born average or above average like OP they can be around the most savage men and still control them with the tip of their fingers because of legal repercussions. I see too many girls play with fire just to flirt with it.
The same kind of men, around another male, homicide, homophobia, and violence is as present as air. As a male you learn to navigate these dangerous spaces in different ways from the girls. I almost got killed several times for being a fag. Im not sleeping right now because I live next door to a homophobic giant murderous nigger who given at any moment will and can gang up on me with his friends semi rape me and kill me for being born male.