You can tell someone is projecting and genuinely upset when their insult is a comparison. I'm pretty sure I'm on the money with this and I can't unsee it. For example 'You'll never be better than cis women' note the projection isn't the direct opposite of the insult; there's just an insecurity inside the insult like the aggressor feeling inferior to a group though the group isn't cis women.

My observation hasn't missed so far because targeting insecurities is a convergent, deductive process: removing irrelevancies,
and blaming people is an inductive, divergent process: finding excuses.

So instead of an insult that gets to the point it lingers on the subconscious need to excuse the aggressor's own insecurity as well as the victim's.

Again, the first example, who says the victim, in this case a mtf, needs to be better than cis women? What if they just want to be better than themselves?

If the aggressor thought process was deductive instead of inductive they would ask those questions and the insult would fall flat to them if the goal was to arrive at the truth of the victim's insecurities.

There are obviously a few contexts where this isn't the case like joking around.

Why am I posting this here? (you) are fascinating I have not seen a more hateful community besides kiwifarms and want to see how you react if at all.

I don't get it

>>40162727 (OP)
>I have not seen a more hateful community besides kiwifarms
Then you have not been looking much

can you explain this like a normal person instead of whatever you did please

>>40162740
I done tried my hardest get up off the percs I took a sub but it aint hittin

>>40162758

You can tell someone is projecting when they compare you to something instead of simply telling you what's wrong with you. Because if they don't look outside of you to find flaws in you, their reason for insulting you, which has nothing to do with you, isn't quelled.

>>40162800
why do you think thats the case. i don't follow your reasoning at all. i don't think the reason you insult someone is to find flaws in them

>>40162810

> i don't think the reason you insult someone is to find flaws in them

I agree actually, it is usually to cover insecurities. It's just that people will lie about that. What is the number one response when you ask someone why they insulted you. 'Heh, it's just the truth, kiddo' or some derivative of that phrase. They are not simply telling you what's wrong with you, the thought process and how that is expressed looks very different, even if you are a mean person.

Arent you taking things a little too seriously