What's your opinion on DDLG/CGL?

>>40170188 (OP)
Fembrained in comparison to abdl

>>40170199
What's the difference

>>40170199
I feel like DDLG is for traumatized mentally ill women, where as ABDL is for tramatized mentally ill men.

What your opinion on not cheating on your partner baka

>>40170188 (OP)
pedo shit

>>40170214
one focused on the 'i wanna act like a child (can be sexual or not)' the other wanna wear diapers while they play hoi4
>>40170216
Basically, tho ddlb/mdlb exists but is not that common

>>40170216
>I feel like DDLG is for traumatized mentally ill women
true
t. has daddy issues

mdlb better

>>40170188 (OP)
how does one get rid of wanting to be the little girl

>>40170188 (OP)
would love that dynamic, sadly im AGP and am only attracted to women, who I dont think will put up with that shit

>>40170267
Women aren't into that (sadly/

>>40170293
Ask yourself why

>>40170303
For me its:
1. Wanting to be hyperfeminine
2. wanting to receive unconditional love without having to prove im "good enough"
3. Wanting to feel like I can rely on someone else to take care of me

>>40170316
All ts just to cheat at the end of the day

>>40170303
Desire to be small.

>>40170188 (OP)
I'm fine with calling a guy daddy if he asks me to but everything else about ddlg weirds me the fuck out.

>>40170332
No… its more like they cheat on me after they realize I’m too much work

>>40170303
I’m a separate fag but I didn’t realize picrel to feel that visceral. I don’t really feel being a little girl is being hyperfeminine. I just want to receive unconditional love, feel protected and be told what to do. However I would appreciate if I could do house chores for them or make them feel happy and welcome at home.

>>40170392
That’s what they all say

>>40170188 (OP)
I could not give less of a shit what two consenting adults do. If every one is able to consent and is consenting I could not care less

>>40170413
I have the option to get angry at an internet argument, but instead I’ll just say it doesn’t feel nice to always be left out and left behind.

>>40170428
I’d never leave you behind cheating whore

>average ddlg hater

>>40170188 (OP)
>>40170414
seconding this

>>40170188 (OP)
I kinda like the dynamic but it depends on how far the little takes it. I like the cute clothes and doing cute things like bathing them or changing their clothes, but I'm not so much into watching cartoons or playing with toys with someone.

I also don't want it to be 24/7 because I want a partner I can depend on to do adult things sometimes.

>>40170199
they're often the same thing

>>40170472
no lol

>>40170188 (OP)
What to do with a bratty lg bottom?

>>40170188 (OP)
The gender of my partner doesn't matter much. I'm attracted to regressors and people who've been abused. I like comforting people, although sometimes I question what empathy actually means and whether I only like the positive attention it gets me. Doing vulnerable things for people like brushing their teeth or bathing them turns me on much more than penetration, and seeing people cry or hearing them say that being abused felt good gives me the biggest boner ever. I'm a sadist. Not into 24/7 stuff. Got OCD and C-PTSD and sometimes I just let the intrusive thoughts win. I've never told my partner or therapist any of this.

>>40170188 (OP)
i hate myself so much for how desperately i want it :(

also like, pooping in diapers and stuff like that is so unbelievably gross. that's way too far. i don't want any of that kinda stuff I just want someone to talk down to me treat me like I'm little...

>>40170188 (OP)
my gf (mtf) is into the whole ddlg thing and it feels nice to be called "daddy" and it is pretty cute to change her clothes and dress her and stuff. I know she was abused as a child and she didn't have a strong father figure in her life, so I kinda get that she's roleplaying that through me. It's not a 24/7 thing, mostly just a kink late at night when we're in bed, but I do find it kinda cute and I like being called daddy.

>>40170188 (OP)
I like cgl and abdl. I vastly perfer cgl though.

Me and my girlfriend have been doing cgl stuff recently (she even got me a paci) and its genuinely been some of the only things i look foward to anymore.

>>40171580
I hope someday I meet someone like you

>>40171580
i think thats very sweet of you anon. i have ocd and c-ptsd as well, but it manifested as being the little instead. someone who cares for me but also hurts my physically sometimes sounds like an ideal partner

>>40170188 (OP)
I'm a little girl and I need my Mommy!

>>40174225
Yeah. I'd still want sane boundaries like safewords but God, being someone's savior from the pain that I cause them and plastering them in cute little strawberry bandaids is the sexiest thing. They can really let out all of their feelings in a context like that. It hurts, but it's healing :3 and I can be myself around them too. Especially if they're short for an adult, or have weak and slender little limbs, or no ass, or little perky breasts... mmmm.

>>40175204
i think itd be very cathartic for me to be in a relationship like that. i hate that my mind associates abuse with love, but having someone hurt me, only to care for me and love me afterwards would be so healing for me. i also cut but having someone do it to me lovingly instead of me being alone and crying doing it would be so much better.
im in a similar boat as you that my girlfriend doesnt know any of this about me. i tried testing the waters a lil by asking what she thought about pacifiers and later asked about sadism/masochism stuff, but she acted weirded out both times, so that was the end of that.

Safe words are for losers

>>40171647
desperately need this >.<

>>40174225
>have ocd and c-ptsd as well, but it manifested as being the little instead. someone who cares for me but also hurts my physically sometimes sounds like an ideal partner
Is there a link between this cause I’m also in the same boat, I feel a lot of shame over it too

>>40176641
picrel looks really cozy desu. it'd be nice to do that with someone if one could see how much she enjoyed it. But what do I know, it's probably not that cool irl.

>>40176768
ive been in a relationship where i did that with someone and it was really cozy and it was everything i had imagined it would be. everything feels okay and safe for once in your life, everything that has been stressing you out you can let go of, all of the expectations of having to be strong for yourself and others fades to the background.
unfortunately he ended up going schizo about it a couple weeks later and was really mean to me about it, which ended up really hurting.

>>40176787
for clarification i was the one who was taken care of as the little

>>40176787
I wanna make someone feel this way :[

>>40176806
i wish i had someone to make me feel this way, maybe i should break up with my gf and find someone who will.

>>40176658
Based.
Consent is cringe