Thread 40170630

/Bigen/ - bisexual general - southern gothic edition

>QotT1 : What's your favorite color to wear in summer —and why is it black ?
>QotT2 : Who's the strangest person you've ever met or even just seen while out in the countryside ?

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FAQ:
>Am I bi if I like women and femboys/traps?
>Am I bi if there's this one member of the same-sex I'm desiring, but normally I like the opposite sex?
>Am I bi if I sexually like both sexes, but only interested in romance with one of them?
Yes, sexual attraction to both sexes is bisexuality.
>Do you love me, OP?
Maybe if life hadn't made a monster out of me I could love someone
>What's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?
Only difference is that our flag is prettier.
>Am I bi if i have periods where I feel only attracted to women and others where I feel only attracted to men?
This is known as the bi-cycle and many bisexuals experience it.
>Am I bi or am I 'prison gay' or porn addicted?
'Prison gay' is not a real thing and porn addiction does not alter your sexual orientation. You are bi.
>Am I bi or pan if I like trans people?
Both are able to be attracted to trans people.
>I think I might be bi but I can't tell. How can I be certain?
Just make a point to check out members of the sex you think you might be attracted to and see if anyone grabs your attention.
>Should I be harsh on myself?
You should be kind on yourself. Few people will do it for you

Resource for Bisexuals:
https://biresource.org/

>>40170630 (OP)
Bump.
Does you guys bi-cycle have any rhyme or reason?
Mine doesn't I can wake up wanting dick and feel weird about it in the evening.

Why are married guys such utter whores good god.

>>40170975
Years of sexual repression.
Maybe their partner doesn't care about them anymore. Maybe they are just whores.
Story?

>>40171005
Happened several times.
Most recently
>Get picked up in bar toilet already utterly drunk
>We drive to a secluded place, rub his crotch and he keeps thrusting against me like a teenage boy about to lose his virginity
>leans over and starts to DESPERATELY blow me
>Hums and moans and squeaks while I do my best to praise and pay and dote on him
>cum and he swallows trying to suck up every single drop
>after like three minutes come back to earth and pull down his pants to return the favor
>mfw the slut has dumped like a week worth of nut juice into his underwear just from choking on another man's cock
>mfw no fw

>>40171216
>Pay
*Pat
On that note JFC straight guys are so unbelievably touch starved.

>>40171216
>>40171224
So I'm not inclined to cheat, but when I'm single and sleeping around: if I've only been with women for a bit, I get extra excited for men, and if I've only been with men for a bit, I get extra excited for women.

Having a bit of a feels moment here maybe someone else can understand. I just miss my ex girlfriend. I'm male and she really let me just feed into the bi side of things with her to the point there was female encouraged male on male for me and I absolutely loved it but now I can't find anyone else like her who's willing to do the same things that me and her used to do. I put it out from the get go im situationally bisexual and when it comes down to wanting anything like that girls seem to get almost offended that I'm wanting it. They'll also say they're down when they're not and it's getting to be pretty disappointing. Going back to my ex isn't really an option but I'm just idk, feeling bummed I can't do the same things with anyone it feels like

>>40171726
Better to have loved and lost than not loved at all!
But in all seriousness anon, take your time, you were able to find one fujo gf, you'll be able to find another!

>>40171788
thanks anon. I'll keep trying its just difficult feeling like this man, maybe this is the only girl open-minded enough to do these things with. I live in bumfuck nowhere so my dating pool is small already, and finding someone in that dating pool willing to have sex with me and another guy is even smaller.

I've had a few meet ups with guys to jack off together but it's not the same.

>>40170630 (OP)
>QotT1
How Did You Know. Wtf. I’m wearing a black shirt rn.
>QotT2
I feel like theres two groups: benign strange and dangerous strange, and I’ve mostly met the latter. Like people who wound up killing their spouses or chasing down strangers with axes, that type. One benign town weirdo I’ve met was the bag lady though, she’d always walk the same few routes with a big plastic bag of smaller plastic bags. My hometown also had “the coin lady” and a few others.
>>40171726
Hey, nothing wrong with longing for the feeling of being understood. As for fujo adjacent bis we’re out here, so I wouldn’t give up so soon even if it feels like it’s hopeless. There is no point in staying with somebody who makes you feel bad for being yourself imo, that only feeds into the feeling of loneliness and having to hide

>>40170630 (OP)
>QotT1 : What's your favorite color to wear in summer —and why is it black ?
It's not particularly my favorite color to wear (especially in the summer), I just have a lot of black shirts. I think my favorite is blue/turquoise, or orange.
>QotT2 : Who's the strangest person you've ever met or even just seen while out in the countryside ?
I don't really have any special people that come to mind rn, I can't really think at all desu

i havnt named my animal webms so im gambling with this one
lets hope its cute and or cool and not something else

>>40172152
Thanks anon. I'll try and keep searching

>>40172365
>QotT1 : What's your favorite color to wear in summer —and why is it black ?
for me it's either light blues or whites. My favorite summer attire tho is something floral patterned but not too obnoxious
>QotT2 : Who's the strangest person you've ever met or even just seen while out in the countryside ?
Oh boy. I live in the country so i have all manners of strange people around but the one that takes the cake for me would be this one guy I know who is basically an amateur storm chaser

>>40170630 (OP)
>QotT1 : What's your favorite color to wear in summer —and why is it black ?
Cause it makes look less fat
>QotT2 : Who's the strangest person you've ever met or even just seen while out in the countryside ?
I like hiking in the forest at night one time I just felt followed so I went out for the woods and back to the fields where I noticed a women walking after me when I screamed "wtf" at her she got angry at me and mumbled something like "wtf indeed" later found out it was the local metal I'll women.

>>40174148
In my village there was a bagel chaser (me)

be like the liver king
threaten joe rogan

>>40170630 (OP)
>>QotT1
Not just summer, I've worn almost exclusively black for about 10 years now. Black is the most comfortable color.
>>QotT2
I haven't met anyone weirder than urban crackheads. I'm familiar enough with the country folk to not be phased by them.

Saving Private Bump

>>40175838
threatening people is too gay
you either do what you gotta do or you shut up, nothing inbetween

>>40173400
i am that cat

>>40170630 (OP)
Am I bi if I'm only gay for BBC?

I saw like an actual bimbo milf at the store. like, definite middle aged with large, quite spherical, obviously fake boobs, no bra, thin crop top. like her nipples were so visible i could make out her piercings through her shirt. talk about leaning into the aesthetic

>>40180574
yes thats the most gay

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

A reminder that at 21 GMT we will choose the next 2 movies for movie night!
You can give your recommendation now by replying to this post

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>when will movie night take place?
its FRIDAY at 22 gmt

>where do we watch the movies?
on the Bigen Movie and Game Night Discord server:
https://discord.gg/5EesZxQs

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40180902
Nice. There was a woman like that at my last gym. She would wear heels and a leopard print top even when she worked out.

>>40180902
Milf bimbos are surprisingly common where I grew up so this was almost like reading a description of my old neighbour. Most of them seem to go to the gym and own wrinkly medium sized dogs with pink collars or handkerchiefs

Bump for milfs

>>40179336
challenge Joe Rogan to a fight and make him scared

bump for big dicked twinks

>>40182550
>>40183192
I wonder if they just get off from all the attention they get. they surely cant go into public like that without getting all sorts of looks. im sure they end up banging a lot of guys half their age too. really works out for them

>>40187252
this guy gets it

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

The poll is now open, no further recommendations will be accepted.
The voting will stop tomorrow at around 4 PM GMT, so be sure to vote before then!

Here is the link to the server:
https://discord.gg/5EesZxQs

>>40187655
shizo troon discord

>>40187778
iirc, its not a real discord server because theres no general chat going on
last time i checked it out its just people streaming games and movies and only vc with each other

>>40187558
Think so desu, but most of them seem more into men their own age than younger guys, especially the type of loud 40-50 year old roided guys with tribals who arent afraid of going back to jail

>>40187778
are you one of the nazis that got banned
did you simply not read the rules

>>40187822
I imagine that if youre a cougar in your 40s - 50s and you want to drain some 20something college cock, it probably helps to get massive bazongas. you may not look axactly like the girls he faps to, but you do have jugs the size of the women from his video games. thatll help get his attention

>>40187558
I LOVE TWINKS I LOVE TWINKS I LOVE TWINKS

>>40188969
this is so incredibly much more unattractive than just a regular flat woman in her 20s

>>40189895
>>40188969
Obviously not an appealing relationship partner because her look is too over-the-top, but I'd absolutely hit it just to see what it's like to play with those gigantic tits.
I think attractiveness is non-transitive, sometimes you want to try something exaggerated or unusual.

>>40189895
> just a regular flat woman in her 20s
you rang?

>>40189935
hello, federal agent

>>40189895
nah ill take the sweater zeppelins

I swear my first ex imprinted on me. My type is now just overweight hairy ginger men with thick beards. I can’t stop salivating.

>>40190602
fine with me just leave me the twinks

id give my left nut for a cute twink bf

>>40170630 (OP)
> date woman
>> think about giving bjs all the time
> date man
>> think about a girl riding me all the time
i cannot win
captcha: S4T2T... hmmmm

>Exhausted by trannies, Autogynephile’s, Coomers, cone tits and prison gays, and racemixers?
>Want to be able scream nigger and tell a guy he’s cute?
>Or maybe you want be around dignified people who aren’t horrendously disgusting?
>Do you think Hitler was a swell guy?
>Would you rather have blacks and heebs take their leave of your country?
>Well then I’d say you’d probably be interested in our server!
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I took estrogen for a little while and it make me half gay lol

>>40188969
Insanely unattractive

am I bi if I like only androgynous-masc leaning enbies and men? I always wonder this.

>>40188969
Might attract some guys who are into the novelty of it yeah, but it’s probably going to be a different pool of young men than if they’d stayed smaller and not necessarily a larger pool either (just more up front about wanting to fuck).

>>40188969
fuck shes hot

>>40192561
take more and go all gay

>>40190602
I think something similar happened to me with dykes.

>go outside for a walk
>feel ok about looks prior to leaving
>end up walking by several groups of the most conventionally attractive 18-20 year olds because theres some sort of event in town
>go home feeling older and uglier than before
Not their fault but man I’d wish I’d had had a fair chance at partying and looking hot back when I was their age. Imagine all the dumb sex I could’ve had

>>40170630 (OP)
>qott1
Not my fault most of my clothes are black!
>qott2
Ran into some chick who claimed to be a medium when I was out exploring abandoned places. She seemed really off and not in a mentally ill way.

Decided to quit smoking and bought a tin of nicotine pouches. Popped one and got immediately nic sick. Not fun. Though I have a decent tolerance, maybe I just got unlucky. Supposed to do some work for uni but I think I'll take the rest of the day off and just chill and play some vidya.

>>40190602
Seems to be not that uncommon my first gf was a chubby emo chick and that is still the hottest thing to me.

I'm writing a story, would a guy who's just recently considering himself to be bisexual and isn't really a part of any queer community know what his hookup partner means if the partner asks "do you top or bottom?"

>>40197770
yeah because thats reasonably common knowledge and also fairly self explanatory

I'm going to learn how to cook so I can be a better wife (male) to my boy/girlfriend. I made a dish today and apart from complications with the rice I did fairly well.

>>40197982
Walking up behind your partner while they are cooking and pressing your body against them is unironically better than sex

love is a beautiful thing, do love anyone?

>>40198374
Assuming in a romantic context, then no, still picking up pieces and drinking.

>>40197770
Yes but he might not know the answer.

>>40197770
I feel like even the most boring het couple would know what that means

>>40197982
I like cooking but can barely muster the motivation to make simple stuff for myself. Every time I have the opportunity to cook for other people it's effortless and enjoyable.

>>40199082
Same, cooking for one person is just kinda depressing.

what're the odds I can find myself some ftfemboys at pride this weekend, /bigen/? My steady supply of manass has had me wanting some clit to suck now that my main ftm moved back to his hometown

>>40199250
>ftfemboys
So a girl?

>>40199345
Exactly senator, but the last time I slept with one by pure chance, I was unable to gauge how much they actually go outside to make this assessment on my own, so I turn to your brainrotted anons for some info

jobs are hard, just give me a million bucks

Note to self:
STOP TRYING TO GET INTO PEOPLE’S PANTS AND TRY TO JUST MAKE FRIENDS. SEX RUINS FRIENDSHIPS.

I’m making a new friend. We’re going to grab a beer at the lesbian bar. And I know that they wouldn’t be able to handle friends with benefits or anything casual like that so I shouldn’t pursue it. I’m just so horny. I went through having a whore phase to no sex (because people can’t handle being friends and sex) and I’ve not had sex in over a year. I know connecting with people is more important than trying to hook up with people only to have that connection fizzle out. I wish more afab were sexually aggressive like me, or I was attracted to amab people, and I didn’t have to worry about this crap. Ok. Rant over. Sorry for the kinda schizo post in our chill thread.

>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT
>MOVIE NIGHT
MOVIE NIGHT

Good evening !
Its finally time to start another Movie Night! Tonight selection is:

>Fritz The Cat (1973)
>beast of war 1988

Here is the link of the stream, don't be shy and come join us! the film will start at 22:10 GMT

>https://discord.gg/5EesZxQs

>what the hell is "movie night"
its a special night where bigen comes together to watch on Discord two movies chosen by the community

>i don't usually post on bigen/never took part in movie night, can i join?
Of course, movie night is open to anyone, just remember to mute yourself during the movies, be civil and have fun!

fyi: this is the list of every movie we watched so far:
https://pastebin.com/Bc8pqK9h

>>40200747
>I wish more afab were sexually aggressive like me, or I was attracted to amab people
Out of curiosity, do you consider yourself bi? Like you're into cis f and ftms?

If anyone here is a part of the book club can you let the other people know that discord locked me out of my account, but I’m working on it.

>>40200873
Yea like the person I’m meeting up with tonight is a pooner, but basically a dwarf.

kiss twinks love twinks look at twinks admire twinks rub twinks touch twinks stroke twinks suck on twinks

>>40202390
this

>>40182391
>country bakers make do

>>40190008
not a federal agent, just a tgirl online thats 5’11” and weighs 145 lbs

to whom it may concern, risky sexual activities and hard drug use are bad ways of coping with depression and stress. theyre both gonna fuck up your body and turn you into the crypt keeper. you need to get real help

>>40204665
do you still get erections

>>40204971
omg Karen you can't just ask people if they get erections

emergency bump

>>40204959
hug you anon

>>40171224
>JFC straight guys are so unbelievably touch starved
that's the life of the average straggot, unless you're from an extra touchy culture like brasil or idk
>tfw colleague's gf is friendly-handsy at party
>feel illegal
>still remember it weeks after
northern cultures got a lot of things right, but idk about touch deprivation for males

>>40204959
I managed to dodge the latter, and tests so far indicate I may have dodged some of the consequences of the former. And yeah.

>>40204971
unfortunately yes

I wish there was a way to skip the initial dating steps and just be at the FWB or relationship or whatever stage immediately

if someone luigis an oil guy ill give them a reacharound

I'm male and bisexual. I often wonder if I might be straight.
I want to befriend women, but not date them. I'm not very romantically interested in women. If anything, I might relate to the woman more in straight romantic media.
I want to date men, but sexually I'm not into them as much as I am into women. I find women more consistently attractive, and my sexual attraction towards them is more intense. In fact, many men are repulsive to me.
In real life, after all this time being alive (not very much time at all), I've had one and a half crushes. The one was earlier this month, on a girl I saw. But it felt platonic, not romantic. The half was about seven years ago; I was becoming really good friends with a boy, and sometimes I felt like it could be something more, but it wasn't really in any way an intense feeling.
Looking back, as an early teen I came out as bisexual to another boy I knew. He was weird, but beautiful. I hope there are more people like him.

>>40180902
>you now remember Kim Kardashian is 44 years old
Even at 50 that damn BBL ass of hers is still divine

>>40211680
I feel like I kind of know this feel. I’ve always been attracted to women more than men but yeah I definitely have more “bromance” with guys as opposed to romance with women. I feel like that’s why I like MMF so much. I get to be sexually involved with a woman and also use it as a situation to be sexually involved with a guy. If I had a perfect set up I’d prefer basically a poly triad of me and the other guy basically living together full time and the girl only coming around when we wanted to have sex. I like the emotional and relationship stability of a man but I like the sex with a woman, and a woman and man at the same time even more.

>>40189529
I want twinks to call me mommy

Nobody thinks I look attractive but I feel like I am so I'm just going to ignore my life experiences and just feel attractive. Maybe being confident will help me out.

>>40213699
It unironically will. Obviously smiling won't instantly turn someone into a model, but when yuo give off happy and confident vibes it definitely affects peoples' perception of you.

>>40213738
Hope you're right

>>40213699
>>40213738
I can confirm myself (as an autist whose social skills are an RNG). I went to some club and tried to mingle with people and everyone kind of ignored me. Then I realized I was wearing my winter jacket and it was out of place. Went to coat check and put it away, had a drink, came back, and ended up grinding with some girl for a bit and the befriending some random African guys for the evening. Same appearance, same person, same day, same people around, but I gave off a more inviting aura.

>>40213699
motherfucker have you seen the sorts of lewds that get posted on this website? you could look like freddy kreuger and it would still be SOMEBODYS dream to fuck you

i want to install grindr again to meet a femboy but last time I was on there it was only old men and I got too wigged out

come talk to these transgirls
https://discord.gg/BGGdRASS

>>40215413
It's been awhile since I've used it, but the secret to grindr is to ignore and/or block anyone you're not interested in.

>>40215462
NOIDONTTHINKSO