Thread 40177032

do u guys think its possible to meet someone you actually love on this board.? i know i could pick up some chaser any day but like i dont know where else i would look for an actual e-relationship because im not active on any social media really i just post here. this thread is not like for that purpose, its just a question. i just cant take it anymore

>>40177032 (OP)
I didn't think it was possible, I always thought this board was full of degenerate coomers and then I met a boymoder on here who was looking for someone to talk to and potentially date/fuck, we chatted and played games online for about 2-3 months straight almost every day after I finished worked, she was the most interesting, smart, beautiful, caring nerd I've ever spoken to, eventually I visited and met up with her and now we're celebrating our 2 year anniversary today, I never expected to find the perfect gf at all nevermind on this board, so ya it's 100% possible

To add I've dated multiple guys and girls before her and none were even close to being as beautiful, caring, loving and interesting as her, kinda an miracle desu

>>40177032 (OP)
both of the long term relationships ive been in have been from 4chan, i closed the gap with one and regularly met with the other. i was genuinely in love with the second person, but in retrospect i think he just wanted someone to have around when he felt lonely until he was happy with himself.
ive come to accept this is just the place where im going to find love, there arent enough people around me who like my niche who i like as well, and even then connecting with normies seems like an impossible task.
it helps that i live on the west coast US

its possible just cherish the good ones. they come but you have to take the chance when you have it or else you end up regretful and sad like me :p

>do u guys think its possible to meet someone you actually love on this board.
Probably idk, I just like to talk casually on /chasergen/ about stuff.

>>40177079
Geez I wish I could be in your shoes, I'm terrified of getting into a relationship of asking women (both cis and trans) out both irl and on the net.

>>40177032 (OP)
i did. miss em like hell. my fault things ended but maybe a little on their end too. i hope to talk to them again one day but they made it clear they don't want to hear from me for a while.

>>40177032 (OP)
Well, my ex online bf did use 4chan (still does), idk if he uses this board much and we didn't actually MEET here but all I'm saying is we were two 4chan users genuinely in love (while it lasted anyway) so yeah its probably possible. But the most likely scenario is ur gonna meet a gross and mentally ill guy and since ur also mentally ill urself that combination will only end up in bad things (as it did with my relationship, tho it was screwed from the start because i was 17 and he was 23, but thats a whole other thing)

>>40177032 (OP)
no. meeting people online is stupid, it's not the 2000s or early 2010s anymore. People don't like each other and community has long since died.

If you have a bf/gf in the present day, be prepared to break up with them. Long-term Modern relationships are a myth, and only a fool would chase something like that.

You don't need partners or friends to be happy. society has lied to you.

>>40177079
>we're celebrating our 2 year anniversary today
larp spotted. love is impossible. :c

>>40177032 (OP)
Maybe but every person I grew a connection with ended up living on the other side of the world. The logistics of us being together was realistically a nightmare. I kinda just stopped trying

>>40177670
Not a larp, it's always possible lil boymoder never give up

>>40178065
Yeah, I feel you. I'm from Canada and EVERY transwomen that I get close to ends up being from Europe. It gives me a bit more incentive to find out how I get my duel citizenship (for Ireland, witch is apart of the EU)

I was talking to a cute trans woman 2 states away for a while but I got insecure because she was a high achiever and incredibly cultured and talented and I'm a loser with just a bachelor's degree and only enough knowledge to fake being cultured, I was scared she was going to meet me and be like wtf why am I talking to this loser so I kinda stopped responding to her and I still am angry at myself for handling it that way

>>40178169
Yeah fr, and my last partner was from Canada as well. Good luck to you

>>40177032 (OP)
i actually met my gf on a fetish post on this very board! Were long distance but close enough that i can see her on weekends and days where im free.

>>40178207
same except i was talking to a hot bi dude. he came to see me and seemed to like me, treated me like a person more than any other guys ive talked to. talked to him for quite a while but i ghosted cause i was a loser with a pizza job and im kinda bottom of the barrel looks wise and i think he was talking to multiple tranners and i got paranoid. he was in college and doing pretty top end stuff. i also regret it and still think about it everyday

>>40177032 (OP)
>do u guys think its possible to meet someone you actually love on this board.?
No, you should date anyone on 4chan let alone a bizarre fetishized that don't even see you as a human.

Go meet people in real life or use a normies app like tinder

>>40178438
Ha, so that happens to women too. I still feel terrible and just seeing the Discord logo makes my heart hurt physically but I'm glad I'm not the only retard who did this.

>>40178470
fuck same, been thinking about texting him so much lately but idk i still have feeling and he has a gf now. our last convo was bittersweet. said he still wished to talk but i declined cause i still idolize him in my head too much. but yeh it happens. insecurity is a soul sucking attribute

>>40178547
I never even gave a hint, I just stopped responding, which is shitty and childish. I hope she never thinks about me and isn't coming to this fucked up site anymore. It's been over 2 years. I shouldn't think about her at this point at all.

I think trying to develop something in person makes it easier because you see the person all the time or at least regularly so you don't get to build up these demons in your head.

>>40178207
>>40178547
>>40178650
i hate insecurityfags, let me love you you fucking retard

>>40177032 (OP)
I thought it was. Met a boymoder on here. Dated for 4 years, she got ffs then left me.

>>40178694
you're a creep

>>40178694
i started looking like a woman instead of an underage boy and my bf left me

>>40178694
Same kinda, she already had ffs and wanted a more put together dude.. Or something like that. Its been 8 months since our break up (5 month long relationship) and it still hurts I just wanted to build myself up with someone who cares after getting out the gutter.. We were in love but had our issues. Even if she came back idk if I could look at her the same despite still having her on my mind

For other people, probably. I won't because I cant stand being around other males and real women aren't the majority here.

>>40177032 (OP)
Well, my first long-term relationship was with someone I met on 4chan. And I'm currently talking to a girl I met on this board and I'm really looking forward to meeting her IRL. I really like her.

I really tried, and these strictly online relationships don’t work as someone not living in the US nor Europe.

>>40179021
are you from the west coast?

>>40179051
No, I'm from Europe

>>40179090
oh thank god i thought you were my ex for a second. he cant be happy if im not with him

i wanted to be her man but i was his girl
she said she wanted a man and left me
she never knew i was always her man
and she was my girl

>>40179174
Well I'm a girl so you can rest assured your ex didn't move to Europe and is now dating someone

Bump. I wanna find a bf that won’t abandon me :>

>>40177032 (OP)
>do u guys think its possible to meet someone you actually love on this board?
No. You're all whores. I hate you.

>>40179659
how do you feel abt cis men on hrt

>>40179695
(Sigh) no love for trannies from cishets huh. Anyways I think I have to know your stance on tranners in the first place, and how you fit in.

>>40179717
i think they're cool people generally and odd in a way i relate too often. i just take hrt bc if i don't i have to deal with persistent dpdr and my intrusive thoughts get way scarier. i also transitioned socially completely but i'm realizing that part was maybe a mistake. i also look like a girl. generally cispass but i'm going to get a haircut soon that might help with that.

>>40179659
Where are you at?

yes but ldrs never work out, especially when you're both super underage and have controlling parents.

>>40179828
Not in the US or Europe, sorry.