Long distance relationships - /lgbt/ (#40184804) [Archived: 894 hours ago]

Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:38:25 PM No.40184804
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I'm in a long distance relationship and a bit worried it won't work out
heard lots of internet horror stories about how they were completely different in person, etc.
How have they worked out for you guys?
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:47:17 PM No.40184904
>>40184804 (OP)
It's like being single but worse.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:50:38 PM No.40184933
>>40184804 (OP)
close the distance ASAP
You've got no business being in one if that isn't the goal.
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:54:53 PM No.40184973
>>40184804 (OP)
i closed the difference from new york to finland, it's possible but not easy, i’ve been here 6 months now! :D
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mothanon
6/26/2025, 6:56:59 PM No.40184990
>>40184804 (OP)
i love my gf and were long distance ish (shes about 4 hours away from me) and ive never been happier with a relationship.

I also have seen long distance relationships work. You can do it nona i believe in you.
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 6:58:02 PM No.40184998
>>40184933
That is the goal. I'm trying to get into a position where I can without fucking up my stupid chungus life

>>40184973
That's very reassuring. I want to run away to Finland some day myself :3
Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:30:47 PM No.40185293
>>40184973
Did you guys meet on 4chan?
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:33:18 PM No.40185318
>>40185293
No
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:39:14 PM No.40185361
>>40185318
Where
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Anonymous
6/26/2025, 7:41:30 PM No.40185381
>>40185361
Technically Discord but we knew eachother on various other platforms for a long time before getting together,
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6/26/2025, 8:30:25 PM No.40185907
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>>40184804 (OP)
its been wonderful everytime for me; made it to living with 3 different ldr; the first 2 were from pso2; then i met my wife from here last year

we are very happy

she knew alot abt my life; beleifs; personality; etc from day 1 (1/15/24) from all my lengthy posting here; but i didnt know her at all yet; but even still we fell in love in just a few days; she upended her life and broke up with her fiancee and just over 2wk later she flew to meet me; much earlier than we expected; she couldnt bare to wait and got tickets without asking me; but it was no problem; i surprised her at the airport on 2/2/24; waiting for her when she wasnt expecting me

in our first weekend together she saw i am everything i say i am; and she was wonderful too and cried her eyes out while holding me i never imagined anyone could love like i do

she flew back and ended up coming back just 3 days later bc we couldnt stand being apart; i was getting dangerous heart palpitations by our 2nd evening apart and i almost went to the ER it was scary; but she was back in my arms the next evening and just about a week later was valentines; we had our first date; and she proposed to me (i had gotten a ring for her too- i could just feel everything was right and if she didnt propose i would; we didnt want to waste time waiting and seeing about what we were already absolutely certain of

after that she took a month of remote work so we could be together; and when she was supposed to go back she couldnt bring herself to get on the plane at the airport and came back home to me; then a week later she missed her flight and came back home to me; so finally after that i just went back with her even tho traving is very hard for me; and i got to meet her ex (who she still lived with; plus a roommate) who was very kind and gracious to me; she was happy for us and saw how close we had become so quickly

she is everything i dreamed of my whole life; and even more than that

we are so blessed )* <3