>trans girl online constantly complains about not passing
>posts pic of herself
>she's actually a passoid
>still complains about not passing
>literally nothing anyone says to her will change her mind

I know brainworms are a bitch, for fuck's sake.

I feel attacked

>>40185917 (OP)
>carefully curated photo they feel confident enough to post
>actual objective reality

>>40185917 (OP)
tbf once you border on passing it's legitimately impossible to tell. let me give it to you from my perspective
>everyone who knows im trans tells me i pass
>people only gender me incorrectly once every few years
but
>i don't pass to myself in the mirror most of the time
>of course everyone who knows me wouldn't wanna make me sad
>i still do get misgendered every few years so maybe i'm just pity passing
>almost nobody actually has motive to be brutally honest
>passgen tells me i clocky pass or dont pass more than that i do
it's very hard to tell okay

>>40185917 (OP)
most of these troons have autistic male body language
doesn't matter how feminine looking they are if they walk round like some sperg

>>40185988
how do you fix this

>>40185977
I second this. It's very hard to tell unless you are 110% passing

>>40185988
this..

>>40185917 (OP)
I mean, it's mostly that people opinions online are not really meaningful and opinion of your friends, partners etc are not exactly trustworthy.
It took me like 2 years of not being misgendered by strangers and randoms in public to actually belive that things maybe, just maybe are not as tragic as I think they are. Never would call myself a passoid tho