How come you see transbian couples all the time but you never see two nerdy long haired cis gays together.

I don't want to be pegged as nerdy, but I'm definitely not athletic in the traditional sense, but I would FUCKING LOVE another long haired fem to date.
Problem is most gays here are super mega gender conforming and have short hair (only trannies are allowed to have long hair which I find endless kekworthy), and I don't have any interest in computer programming or video games and want to find a guy who is like-minded in that particular regard.

I see a lot of interracial gay couples here - both with short hair - and it's always really disheartening knowing whites have to settle just to not be alone.

I...don't know