>>40224840 (OP)if thats the most cringe moment of your life, then consider yourself lucky. i can think of like 10 more cringe than that off the top of my head, and those are just the ones that my brain hasnt forced me to forget cause they were too cringey
>>40224988much worse. literally if that was my cringiest memory, i could be like oh haha what a silly baby trans moment and then move on with my life, im nothing like that anymore.
>>40225023>>40224840 (OP)what else are you supposed to do?
>>40225053In that situation? You say, "sorry for any confusion, but im the one scheduled in, can you still see me? Im very anxious and i was hoping i would be treated ok"
>>40225023That sounds more like trauma than a cringe memory....
:(
>>40225292not everything is fucking trauma. getting molested at 15 is not a trauma. eating meat is not a trauma. watching a movie is not a trauma. trying to kill yourself and failing is not a trauma. embarassing shit cant be traumatizing. you know people are literally murdered every day? lol
>>40225292the other anon isnt me, but i dont think its trauma, ive had trauma but the difference is beating myself up about it (cringey memory) versus being very angry and on edge and upset and wanting to lash out to protect myself thinking about it (trauma)
>>40225329I've been raped and it wasn't even that traumatic
I can think of 10 worse things that have happened to me than being raped
>>40225373you only think that because you're a rapist
>>40224840 (OP)I've never been called sir by someone who was expecting a woman. I've had the opposite plenty of times tho. People see my name (boymoder) and expect a man but then I walk in and they see a woman.
>>40225329U seem traumatized by smth
>>40224840 (OP)>"I'm am a woman">their face whenI bet they did make a face. I would too. Saying "am" after "I'm". What are you, a retard? "I am am a woman"? Learn to speak English good.
>>40224840 (OP)The sooner trannies accept the world will never see them as women, the sooner you can move on with your life and make the best of it
>>40227819And I'm glad you see yourself that way. That doesn't mean the world is gonna see you that way or that you're entitled to be treated as one. im sorry that's the way it is. forget the world and focus on trying to live a happy life without the approval of other people
>>40227872but why can't we also advocate for the approval of other people?
Sometimes when my employer orders food, she speaks in first person and gives my name, like "I will go pick it up, my name is anon" or "I'll be waiting outside", she has a very feminine voice and often they just laugh or get shocked when they see me :(
>>40228055No one is nor should they be forced to accept you
>>40228836i agree. again, why can't we make our case for acceptance though? that's not the same as forcing
>>40228836Yes they should
It isn't acceptable to say that black people are genetically inferior, or go use the n word in public. Same with trans people, not acceptable to denigrate us either
>>40228128Wait what is this whole scenario?!
>>40229510Pick cotton for a century and then go to Vietnamese jungle to shoot guerrillas and we’ll talk