Demisexuality is a valid sexual orientation because most people just want casual meaningless sex. Do you have any idea how many "ENM" "Poly only!" "Here for a weekend need a good time hmu" "Couple looking for a playmate :)" "Just looking for a good time" profiles I had to sift through back when I bothered with dating apps? Don't lie and tell me demisexuality is "just normal human attraction" it's fucking not. Most of you are degenerate freaks who would fuck on the first date. I know because I've dated people who wanted to fuck on the first date. Even cis women who are supposedly the most prudish.
The advent of social media merging itself with reality has raped the consciousness of billions of people. Genuine connection and romance is almost entirely gone from this world. Here I am, a cis male, who people often accuse of being a sexual freak just by my very nature, begging for someone to just let me take it slow. I'm so fucking tired of everyone making everything hypersexual. Maybe demisexuality was "normal human attraction" over a decade ago, but it certainly isn't now.
I've been in a committed relation before. 6 years with the same partner and I never cheated once. Never even kissed someone else. And I was happy. I was overjoyed. I had eyes for no one else. Sounds alien to creatures like you, doesn't it? Maybe that's why I'm so disinterested in sex now. Sex with someone you genuinely care about, someone you've known for years, is completely incomparable to thoughtless fucking.

>>40232506 (OP)
Good post

>>40232506 (OP)
This but t4t

>>40232506 (OP)
Hoenstly I'm glad you see it that way. Sick of all the promiscuous stuff going on. If I may, you imply your 6 year relationship ended. May I ask what happened?

>>40233084
I cheated

>>40232506 (OP)
i'm a demisexual tranny, my relationships have all been quite long, and i'm always the one who gets dumped. never cheated... loyalty doesn't mean shit to people anymore, they are too monke-brained and just hump whatever comes along... i don't get it. sex is like this transcendent bonding act and they treat it like it just needs to be done, like taking a poop

>>40232506 (OP)
>>40233818

these post made me quite sad

I once believed in love, I once believed that "sex is like this transcendent bonding act."

I once believed that I was saving myself for the one and then that I had found them

But the heart is a fragile thing, it is easily cut and calloused; the more sensitive you are and the more of your heart you show the world the more the world will cut and pierce it, and giving away pieces of ones heart as gifts is a very stupid thing to do, a gift cannot be taken back once it has been given, and one cannot really know if they want the gift in the first place, or what they'll do with it.

I gave away too many pieces of my heart, and that which remains is so blackened and scarred that while I can mourn the tender innocence I once had I cannot revive it. I am hideous and broken.

Don't be like me. Never love or aspire to it. The world is a mercenary place and you should take what you can get. Nobody is coming to save or rescue you, nobody will ever love you for your "true self" and the longer you persist in that delusion the worse things will get and the more life will slip away that you can never get back.

>>40234646
i often think like that but i'm open to a bi goth girl changing my mind

>>40232506 (OP)
>Demisexuality is valid because hookup culture is more normalized but I still don't participate so I'm special
TLDR, it's the same excuse as always. Wanting a healthy sex life isn't orientation, you're not opressed.

>>40234664
>changing my mind
if you still have hope you are nowhere near thinking like me

>>40234646
I still believe in those things and I will take them to my grave.

>>40234814
nah, it's just that my craving for cuddles w my cute gf outweigh my existential dread

>>40234889
I want those too

[spoiler]god please someone save me....[/spoiler]

>>40233084
It was very sudden. The day before she paid for me to get a new piercing and was all excited for it, the day after she texted me in the morning saying she wanted someone "more independent". I didn't have a car at the time and she did (because her rich parents bought her one). I was going to college full time so I couldn't go get a job like she wanted me to. Still to this day so confused why she shelled out 120$ one day and dumped me the next.

>>40233818
I'm sorry to hear you've had a similar experience. I also despise the fact that sex has become such a "nothing" act to people. I've also never cheated and always been the one to be dumped. People are always surrounded by a cloud of irony and social media mindpoison that prevents them from truly bonding any more.
>>40234646
I've felt love before. True love. It slipped away from me, but I have felt it. It was here for a while, at least. Maybe it really is gone for good now.
>>40234770
Fuck off dipshit.

>>40235330
Why did my flag turn off

>>40232506 (OP)
demisexuality is a valid sexual orientation because demisexual people exist. You don't have to validate your existence by typing out three damn paragraphs anon

>>40235532
I just felt like ranting, really.

>>40232506 (OP)
i am transsexual not a demosexual

>>40232506 (OP)
> Demis try not to be puritanical tards challenge
I understand asexuals, but yall always scream “I’m so special, look at me”

>>40235223
you deserved it, i used to bang twinks and hoes in the back of a $1000 98 acura tl, its not about the car you drive just that you look like a baller driving it.

>>40239217
I have no interest in banging twinks and hoes, can you not read?
>>40238511
>doesn't deny being a whore
>doesn't deny most people are whores
And I'm not one. That's the distinction. Thank you for understanding!

>>40232506 (OP)
isn't demisexuality that you ONLY experience sexual attraction when there's an emotional connection? most people WANT a committed relationship but will take one night stands when they can get them and enjoy themselves when doing so. it's why so many modern romance stories in TV shows now are about hookups that evolve into relationships
but a demi person doesn't have that pathway on the table

>>40233353
>CLAIMS TO WANT GENUINE CONNECTION
>CHEATS

>>40239450
For me, I literally cannot get my dick up for someone unless there is that connection present. It's a non-starter for me. I have tried. And when I look at people, I don't really feel outright attracted to them. I can't remember the last time I just saw a picture of someone or saw someone out and about and thought they were hot. I might think they look nice or not nice, but that's more about how they present themselves (hair, fashion, etc.) than their actual physical looks. Once I do build that emotional connection for someone though, the sexual attraction is intense and my big fat cock will become diamonds for them. Male, female, tranny, cis, doesn't matter to me at all.

>>40239483
That wasn't me you brainless ape.

>>40239260
Good bait lol
You sound no different than Bible thumping christcucks, what’s next, advocating for conversion therapy?

>>40239621
>not wanting to fuck everyone that breathes makes one a christcuck
Galatians 4:16 I guess. I'm not advocating for anything other than demisexuality being recognized as a legitimate sexual orientation.

>>40232506 (OP)
absolutely based take OP, you're real for this one

>>40240228
The fact this retard is disagreeing with me is all I need to know I'm right. But thank you anon.

No they don't honestly

>>40232506 (OP)
You just have taste and potentially a low libido. Nothing about demisexuality makes you inherently LGBT.