hi chaser here. Should I tell my tranny gf I took estrogen for 16 months between 2021-2022 and still occasionally want to be a woman? we’ve been going out for 3 months feels like an odd thing to bring up now and I don’t want her to dump me over it

>>40239850 (OP)
Don’t tell her she’s gonna leave you but why did you stop taking estrogen in the first place after such a long time

>>40239964
bc I realized I was just agp or agamp and never had dysphoria

>>40239974
Agps do have dysphoria hsts dont have dysphoria simple but besides that, that’s not a good reason to halt all transition and obviously it wasn’t since you still want to be a woman

>>40240023
definitely not all agps have dysphoria and my agp isn’t that severe, its very obviously linked to sex drive bc it went away on hrt, and again I only feel that way occasionally, most of the time I’m happy being male

>>40239850 (OP)
i wouldnt tell her because it makes you sound like a repper (which you might be) but as long as you NEVER EVER EVER EVER transition youre ok

i'm a chaser and what i do is tell them i did that long before we start dating. i find most of them actually seem to take it surprisingly well if they know ahead of time. i think if they only find out later on it's going to be really bad

>>40239850 (OP)
You should be honest with her bro

>>40239850 (OP)
lmaoooo wtf are u me
I also took estrogen for about that long around 2021-2022 and then detrans'd
i just started retrans'ing recently tho. hope you don't end up like me..

>>40240211
why did u detrans and retrans

>>40240247
>detrans
i thought the transition was doing literally nothing. everytime i looked in the mirror i felt like i looked the same as d1.
>retrans
dysphoria was getting worse again despite being pretty okay until recently. also found my old pictures from during the transition and realized i must've just been retarded because i looked waaaay better than i thought i did.
so brainworms and retardation

>>40240278
hm I was kinda the opposite after being on hrt for a while I looked back at my pre hrt pics and realized I didn’t actually look as masculine as I thought

no

>>40239850 (OP)

>>40239850 (OP)
if you're serious about this person you absolutely should tell them, the sooner the better

>>40243081
why is this person, like, ruining my whole fucking shtick? ffs....