When I first started dating my trans gf I was somewhat paranoid of people I knew finding out. I was in a new city and I didn't know anyone there, so I did not mind going on dates with her. I did however insist on no pictures being taken which is what I really regret. I lied and told her it's because I really don't like having photos taken of me. I was worried people back home would see the pictures. Hard to describe how much of a piece of shit I feel like. It's been on my mind constantly and I'm considering telling my gf

>>40246083 (OP)
Don't tell her, just take pictures now.

>>40246098
This. It will break her heart. Just tell her you went through some personal growth on your own and decided to get over your personal fear, which is the truth

>>40246083 (OP)
Its possible she already knows anyway. We aren't idiots.

>>40246098
This is only reasonable path forward