i was talking to my cis lesbian friend recently and she mentioned she was becoming a tea guy and so i asked her what kind of tea she's been drinking and she never responded. did she mean to say she's becoming a trans guy or am i overthinking it and she's just really into drinking tea. she has always seemed very skeptical of gender discourse nonsense but i have never heard of anyone referring to themselves as a tea guy before and i am very perplexed.