how does one have sex with a cis lesbian if one is a tranny
getting the lesbian is not the issue just having sex is
like they want a woman not a tranny like me how do you fellow bi/les trannies deal with that

you dont

>>40255778 (OP)
I have no idea. I'm a cis lesbo myself and have never been with a transwoman but unless she had srs I wouldn't really know what to do desu
I guess it depends on how penis repulsed she is or willing to do anal ?

>>40255785
I know she has a strap on so ig anal would be an option but then it's a whole thing to get ready for it
and like I have a magic wand at home that is like the only way I can enjoy sexuality but it feels weird to need that idk

>>40255778 (OP)
eat her pussy then go home and cry about not having one while eating ice cream

>>40256081
that's probably how it's gonna go ngl

>>40255778 (OP)
You find a butch and perma bottom and/or you get really good with oral and learn to get off from how good you are making your partner feel.
Both work. But in my experience stone butches tend to make the best partners for mtfs.
t. trans lesbian that has exclusively had cisles partners.

>>40256337
I'm pretty good with oral and I do get off satisfying my partners but sex life being so one sided can't be healthy for a relationship right

>>40256425
>sex life being so one sided can't be healthy for a relationship right
It really depends on you and your partner.
Personally I have never had a problem. However I admit I have only ever dated butches, so things could be different if you are not into them.

Honestly, the sex itself is not even the most difficult part of being with a cisles as a mtf that has not had srs yet. Explaining to them basic trans things like bottom dysphoria is in my experience the hardest part. This is another reason I REALLY like stone butches as partners for mtfs, because they just fully understand 99% of it already and generally 'get' transness in a way I think most cis people really struggle with.

>>40256459
yeah I get that, fwiw the girl I'm seeing is pretty involved with the online queer community so she knows surprisingly much about trans stuff
we haven't had a proper talk about sex yet but it's clearly getting there, and I just really don't know what to do with myself, SRS is about half a year away still and I feel safe and accepted with her and I love to be touched by her but I really don't know if I have it in me to have sex - but I also really want to idk

>>40256491
I obviously do not know this girl, so my advice here is going to be pretty general.
But I would recommend that once sex does come up, find out if topping with a strap is something that she would be into. If so, then that is an easy way to handle things. Especially since you said are both into and good at oral already, so you do not need to worry about reciprocation.
If she is not into straps, then oral and getting off from how good you can make her feel is going to be your only real pathway here.

I promise you that as long as you explain your genital dysphoria before hand, then sex will be fine. Whatever form it takes.
In the past (when I have not been with stone butches), I have said that she should just pretend I'm like a barbie doll and I have nothing down there. So maybe that is something that could work for you when it comes to explaining this.

>>40256557
yeah that barbie doll thing might be a nice idea, thank you! really appreciate your thoughts

>>40256669
All good anon. I hope everything works out for you and her!
I'm a big advocate for t4c lesbian relationships, so I really like being able to share my experience and give advice.