Thread 40256385

Do your parents support you being gay or trans?

>>40256385 (OP)
yes, my daddy makes me feel like a real woman every morning uwu

>>40256411
Porn brain moment

>>40256385 (OP)
My mom would try to be supportive and she was pretty gokd most of the time, but it was obviously reulectant and not what she wanted. Any time we got into an argument she would tell me how lucky I was that she didnt disown me like other trannies parents do

>>40256385 (OP)
Yes
Imagine not having a loving family... must suck :(

My parents to this day claim they have never noticed I was gay despite me being an obvious flamer, and claim they accept me while mostly my whole family shuns me.

I honestly feel like parents that try and pretend you're still cis are worse than parents that kick you out for being trans

It's like a complete denial of your being and it hurts. Parents that kick you out at least kinda acknowledge that what's happening is real even if they don't realize it

>>40256385 (OP)
my mom is supportive but its hard for her cause she just doesn't understand what its like to live with gender dsyphoria. My dad has threatened to kick me out if i try to start HRT and in the Ontario economy i just cannot afford that. So i have to silently suffer til i can afford to move out

>parents suspicious my entire teens and try to "prevent" me from being gay
>suddenly "ok" with it after Obergefell
>they still make offhanded comments about how buttsecks is gross or act suspicious when I'm around men

>troon out
>destroys my relationship with both of them
>they try to get me to quit E harder than they do my sister to quit opioids (overdosed twice)

I wish I repressed. Being gay ruined my life (friendwise) and being a tranny ruined my life (familywise). I'm engaged now and I can't even invite my family (or anyone, really) and they'll probably resent me more for that. I don't want to get called Birthname and He and Son. I wish I was at least bi or even a straight cis man so bad. Being a transbian would be nice no one's parents are disappointed at them for liking women.

>>40256499
We need to realize all fem gays were proto-trannies, the only distinction being development of coping strategies, but the progressive dogma and arguments that has led to gay acceptance is now permafrost

>>40256561
I wasn't even "fem" other than the stuff that I couldn't consciously control, like limp wrists, sitting "like that" and having a soft voice, because I wasn't allowed to dress how I wanted, etc. living under my parents' voice. I share more DNA with an AGP in this sense.

>>40256561
I dont want to be a woman i just want people to not be dicks to me cuz they can.

>>40256385 (OP)
No my dad knows I'm gay but he keeps mentioning that I should find a girl to date

>>40256385 (OP)
no lol, picrel literally happened to me
>family gathering with mom
>talking to grandma whose dementia has been getting worse
>"oh whos this young lady"
>'mom thats anon, he's still a boy'
>"always a jokester huh... I forgot you had a daughter, where is anon anyway?"

got beat for confusing my grandma after, whole thing was bittersweet :(

my mom took my hrt away when she found it, so i’m guessing not

>>40256385 (OP)
mom has done a 180 in the last year and is super supportive. I love her, she's amazing
dad is being a stick in the shit
>>40257676
Jesus I'm sorry, it feels icky to congratulate you but at least you got a silver lining in it

Kinda. She don't really understand it, but she accepts me.

>>40256385 (OP)
>dad
100% supports my medicalization and was very happy when i got hrt and surgery but refuses to use my name and pronouns
>mom
the opposite and she starts seething and crying on any medicalization
uses my name and pronouns though she's not happy about it and just does it out of shame because too many of our family friends kept going 'wow i didn't know you had a son' to her

>>40256677
>I wasn’t fem except for me being literally so fem
Anon I…

>>40256385 (OP)
>Do your parents support you being bi
No, they will find out when they read my manifesto after bombing the heritage foundation's headquarters (in minecraft)

>>40260266
That's not very fem please be for real

>>40261308
Having limp wrists and being soft spoken is the foundation of fem

>>40261360
No it's not. My dad was surprised I was gay

>>40256385 (OP)
my mom does, but my dad who haven't spoken to hasn't. He's made videos on YouTube saying he sees me differently because of me being a tranny.

And he occasionally vaguely mentions me in a negative light to his thousands of followers. He thinks because he hasn't spoken to me in 7-8 years, it's warped my brain into making me a weird "sissy"

Hes also mad I can't give his black ass grandchildren, even though we haven't spoken in YEARS. I'm not his livestock just because I came out of his balls.

He needs some serious therapy.

>>40256385 (OP)
they didn't at first, mostly i think they worried about me being a hon and destroying my life, but they're supportive now (that I pass and have a house/job)