my boobs are big enough now that i can see them under my hoodie. i'm worried i'm gonna look like a freak boymoding

transitioning is so overwhelming i'm 6/7 months in now

>>40265611 (OP)
>masturbate when I feel bad
I have pavolved myself into getting horny when I cry

>>40265633

>>40265611 (OP)
proof?

>>40265633
i did the opposite. older women make me feel safe enough to cry, but they're also hot.

>>40265633
does it work

>>40265611 (OP)
Sports Bra, Sports Bra, Sports Bra!

>>40265708
i guess i should get one >_<

>>40265708
does anyone have any tips for choosing a sports bra? i already have a normal bra but it's too tight so i don't really wear it

>>40265729
>>40265793
Go measure your bust and underbust.
You know what you're looking for in a bra, I assume minimum visibility? A bra ironically will make it easier to wear tshirts, not die in hoodies all summer.

>>40265821
i measured and apparently i'm a 38B which feels ridiculous because i can barely even cup them in my hands, and i don't even have a cleavage yet T_T i have to squish them for them to touch

now that i think about it, it would feel nice if a bra could make me look more feminine

>>40265853
whats ur bmi? its not actually that relevant but id like to know

>>40265611 (OP)
67!!!!!!!!!!!!

>>40265853
What size is the bra you have I should have sked that. What issues were you having with it: tightness in the band straps or both. Is it pullover or clip back?

You can get bras for both. Boymoding and girlmoding. What do you wear for tops while boymoding?

>>40265865
my bmi was 21, but i think i've gained weight since i started hrt (ass and chest at least). i'm tall if that's relevant

>>40265611 (OP)
have fun getting awkwardly she/herd at work by confused workmates, nonny. been there.

>>40265931
my current bra is 36A. i meant to say 36B not 38B!! but the tightness isn't in the cups, it just feels snug in general. it's a clip back, i use the loosest hooks

i also have a second bra i forgot to mention that's also 36A, but it's way too tight on the shoulder straps specifically, not the band

maybe i'll just go up to a 37 desu that might fix it. i know places i could get a fitting done but i'm anxious T_T

>>40266072
i have literally no idea why that says desu. i meant to say 37 band.

>>40266072
>i know places i could get a fitting done but i'm anxious T_T
Any specific stores who advertises to mtf? That's really cool if you have that resource close to home.
Based on what you're saying you could roll with a 38 in some brands, 36 in others, welcome to bras.
That converts to a size M or L in sports bras I think? The sizing charts for the sports bras just tell you what to get from your band and cup size.

>>40265611 (OP)
I'm so serious, you need to just come out and have confidence in yourself.
It wont get easier the longer you are on HRT.

>>40266218
>It wont get easier the longer you are on HRT.

everyone knows i'm trans, and to be honest i'm not even boymoding anymore because i got some bangs. i just dress in a hoodie and try and hide my chest

the thing is, no one ever calls me a woman, and it makes me feel like if my chest is visible people will think i look gross T_T

>>40266384
you're just delaying the inevitable then, and the longer you wait, the harder it is.
You have to learn to be comfortable with your own body.
That doesn't mean you can't wear a hoodie and sports bra, but if you care about passing, feeling confident in your own skin is really the secret.

>>40266435
i guess you're right. time to wear a bra in public...

lucky tho
5 years boymoding and i remained as flat as doodle bob

>>40265611 (OP)
No one gives a shit about males with gyno besides the odd impolite stare. Stop constructing this porn-induced fantasy narrative in your head where everyone will think you’re a girl tee-hee if they see your A cup breast buds and it’s super super important to hide them.

>>40265853
>i'm a 38B
>38
How big is your underbust jesus christ

>>40267706
nobodys buying this in 2025. theyre gonna take one look at you and go "oh" unless youre 13 and fat

>>40267723
36 inches... it's the tall lanky trans woman curse. at least i look really skinny

>>40267978
I feel sorry for you

>>40265611 (OP)
getta binder

>>40267978
this picture makes me wanna kms.

>>40268228
yeah me too, i get so dysphoric from shoes too T_T

>>40267978
I'm 5'10.5 and also have a 36 band... thougbeit my feet are a a womens 10 and I try to keep good posture because of my shoulders and the model walk

I'm 5ft11 with a 32" underbust. am I redeemable?

No one will notice. Some cis Men have boobs. If ur worried just tell them it was side effect of a hair loss drug or something

>>40268343
it seems to be a fairly average measurement for trannies our size

btw when you boymode with a sports bra everybody notices, they just wont say anything
t. 2y girlmoder

>>40265633
terrible, terrible idea. eventually you will start associating feeling bad with being horny, which opens a floodgate of awful fetishes and wants

>>40268481
nobody notices, groomer freak

>>40265633
terrible, terrible idea. eventually you will start associating feeling bad with being horny, which opens a floodgate of awful fetishes and fantasies

>>40268686
see >>40267748
gincel creep

>>40268481
>>40268686
Highly depends on what you wear but I mean I've worn a white tshirt and white sports bra and people just don't look at me that close

>>40265611 (OP)
what the fuck did you expect from taking hormones
you obviously need to just transition now if there's been such effective physical changes to your body

>>40268481
fuck you fuck you fuck you
I just started wearing sports bras and thought I was able to hide them well.
I don't need this brainworm.

>>40265853
bra sizes lie, cup/band size is a fucking meme
nothing but trying on bras in a store will tell you your size, and your size will change between brands and manufacturers

take me for example:
>37in ob
>32in ub
>5in difference so should be 32DD
>what actually fits is 30C/32B

odds are if you have a 2in difference between your underbust and overbust you do not have breasts large enough to be made bras for. maybe like a 36A/36AA
and they most certainly will not be visible under your hoodie, or be distinguishable from just regular pec muscles or slight moobs from being chubby

>>40268779
>tshirt
that fundamentally goes against the idea of boymoding, not to mention most trannies have self harm scars they have to hide with long sleeves anyways

>>40268803
Context? Where do you wear them? School, work?

>>40268837
yeah a tshirt is clearly an extremely feminine piece of clothing and young male adults would never wear tshirts...
also don't sh trannies, it's a huge red flag for the people you'll want to be in relationships with later on

>>40268840
I wear them to work and when I go out. Basically whenever I'm in public.
At work they are under a navy singlet, black work shirt and black suit jacket.
Just going out they are normally just under a band shirt and an open flannel.

Obviously the bra does not make my breasts invisible. But I was counting on them making the size of them seem smaller (could be written off as bad gyno) without it being obvious that I was wearing a bra.
I had only just gotten confident wearing them in public damn it.

>>40268851
>sh is a red flag
wounds are, scars arent
as long as you stop and let it heal it shows you had the strength of character to tackle your problems, and anyone who doesn't respect that is a profound retard who you shouldnt consider as a dating partner in the first place

>>40268874
That's a lot of layers. That's overkill even you will draw more attention just being that overdressed in summer.

The thing that really will kill you as a boymoder is boymoding to college. People will sit behind you and will see the sports bra lines.

>>40268880
yes that may be true in theory, but let's face it the majority of people who see self harm scars will assume you're a red flag in some sense.
This includes when trying to get a job, in court, romance, friendship, trying to buy real estate, family, etc...
You're just completely unnecessarily and permanently outing yourself as a loon when you could be doing drugs to cope instead which leave much fewer permanent traces.

>>40268893
>overdressed in summer
It's winter where I live.
>People will sit behind you and will see the sports bra lines
I work in an office and my back to facing the corridor. I have people walking past me with my back to them all day.
Kill me.

>>40268851
it shows you don't care about hiding anything at all, you want to be found out if you don't wear longsleeves
self harming is a natural part of being trans. trannies are freaks of nature and will likely never experience real and loving relationships, it falls on them to not waste the time of anyone normal so having scars is a good way to show tha

>>40269269
> self harming is a natural part of being trans. trannies are freaks of nature and will likely never experience real and loving relationships, it falls on them to not waste the time of anyone normal so having scars is a good way to show tha
see this part
> will likely never experience real and loving relationships
actually becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy once we accept your whole paragraph as correct.
i don't think this is the case at all.

>>40268893
>The thing that really will kill you as a boymoder is boymoding to college. People will sit behind you and will see the sports bra lines.
hikineet dropouts rise up

>>40269489
I know you don't, but that doesn't change reality. Sorry. I don't like it either

>>40265611 (OP)
if you really want to hide them and not come out, stuff, here is my manmoder's guide for hiding it:
>patterns, tie-die, textured material, stripes, etc
>binder
>sports bra if small boobs and not worried about bra line
>trans tape for binding (make sure to take it off carefully with oil because it can fuck up your skin)
>loose button downs with breast pockets
>adhesive nipple covers

recently, it's been hot as hell this summer so I gave up a lot of the time and just wear loose breezy button downs with obvious breasts poking through and no one says anything or seems to notice though, so I think we are all being neurotic. my boobs aren't small either.

>>40269850
do you have any recommendations for baggy clothing besides hoodies? they can get a little sleazy at times

>>40268874
>>40269269
get off the Internet you children.

You kids don't even cut for sincere reasons, you're all posers cutting because you saw it on a gay tv show and thought it would make you more interesting

>>40270201
if you end up cutting yourself for poser reasons that means you deserve to be part of the group of freaks

>>40270281
I don't welcome them

>>40270354
that's even better, then they have their own group of people that hurt themselves for no reason. they deserve it

>>40270201
its the only thing that calms me down when i spiral

>>40270371
lol. call me crazy but slicing up your arm beause you think it's cool enough to show people is way more retarded than taking cross sex hormones

>>40270397
>and then I take pictures of it, share it with children, and talk about it for hours

>>40270414
i dont do any of that, i only talk about it sometimes but i avoid it because id rather not. nobody in my life knows about it

>>40270426
>I'm supposed to validate your attention seeking
Fuck off and do it deeper then

>>40270438
no youre right, sorry for bringing it up