Are the dating prospects of transgender women really that bad?

That's what I've been told. Do you have any stories to share?

>>40269607 (OP)
it’s pretty bad if you like men. transbian relationships are really bad too. in the end it depends on how well you pass and if you play it smart and filter out people who just want to use you for sex.

>>40269607 (OP)
It depends entirely on how passable you are. It’s worse the less passable you are.

>>40269607 (OP)
depends how well you pass don't think it's been said often enough
fwiw I met my cis gf through a queer speed dating event and she's great and a very cute bi guy was also interested so I'd recommend getting involved in queer events but ymmv ofc

>>40269607 (OP)
As far as I can tell, it's a mixed bag. Some people do the whole "polycule and fuck everyone" thing. Personally, my gender has absolutely nothing to do with my love life. My love and affection, hell even just my *attention* is a rare and special thing that 99.9999% of people will never earn. That was true in the past and it's true now, and it will always be true because that's how my brain is wired.

it’s rough even for passoids

Men who are open to dating trans women quickly learn that prostitution is rampant and most trans women aren't interested in or capable of what most cishets would consider a "normal relationship"

This creates a vicious cycle where men who aren't into that are driven into avoiding trans women like the plague, so the men who remain are the kind of men who approach women as sex workers first and foremost. Which presumably drives even more trans women into prostitution because if they're going to be seen as hookers they might as well make some money.

>>40269772
what kind of queer events?

>>40270010
>Men who are open to dating trans women quickly learn that prostitution is rampant and most trans women aren't interested in or capable of what most cishets would consider a "normal relationship"
TRVKE
trannies are not relationship material

>>40269607 (OP)
literally no one has showed interest in me since coming out

>>40269607 (OP)
i can get food in exchange for sex or a bj

>>40269607 (OP)
they're very good actually, it's just that 99% of trannies cannot handle long-term relationships. they will inevitably schizo out and blow up the relationship because their brainworms told them to. there are a tiny minority of trans girls who can actually functional well in proper committed relationships but they are vanishingly rare. all the rest just get used by men or get used by men (estrogenized) over and over again.

>>40270475
i'm one of the stable ones for sure!

>>40270483
if you were you wouldn't be on this website, you'd already have a partner you met somewhere else.

>>40270489
I have a stable relationship and still come here. Met my bf here actually.

>>40270489
just because i deserve abuse doesn't mean i'm unstable

>>40270542
uh huh
>>40270536
i'm going to fuck your bf in the ass with my big hairy cock and make him gay and he's gonna break up with you. then what, smartass?

>>40269607 (OP)
my experience has been good really (as a trans woman dating men)
a lot of guys want to date trans women and yeah, you need to filter through some bullshit, but so does everyone
i don't have any particularly awful experiences that stand out from those of other women

>>40270475
what kind of long term relationship you could even have with a trans woman as a man? You just gonna get old together and then other one dies and you are all alone?
only trans people worth dating are those who you can have a family with

>>40270584
>You just gonna get old together and then other one dies and you are all alone?
do you think that's unique to trans people or something? do you think every cis couple has a kid?

>>40270564

>>40270564
You really need to get a job. This isn’t a productive use of your time.

>>40269607 (OP)
if you’re hot, into trans women, not giga autistic, and have a job, they’re actually pretty good in my experience

>>40270584
You’re on 4chan. The odds that youre gonna make a good parent whose kids will even want to talk to you when you’re old, let alone the chance that you’ll ever become a parent at all, are already virtually zero. Dating a tranny is the least of your roadblocks my dude

>>40270617
i do have a job

>>40270658
Better get back to it, flip those burgers

people tend to forget that location matters

>>40270666
i dont flip burgers. go drink another monster ultra zero sugar

>>40270456
what does that have to do with dating?

>>40270584
Yes
Only date PLAPPABLE (see: not much T) poonpoons for a chance of babies

>>40270235
just any really look at local lgbt organizations they usually have like monthly meetups or karaoke nights or whatever and just go there and meet people, yes there will be a few weirdos and theyfabs and whatnot but also normal people who are willing to date you and treat you like a human being

>>40272041
thats dating to me. being ugly i dont really expect people to take me out and be seen with me.

>>40271388
Whatever you say burger bitch

>>40269607 (OP)
Dating prospects while you're a cis man
>Gold diggers
>Women who want kids and want to tie you down as a provider
>Twinks, older men and flamer Hsts types
>Valid as HECK neurodivergent they theyfabs who will destroy you slowly
Dating prospects as a tranny
>All of the above minus women who want kids and gold diggers
>Other kinds of men not listed above
>Transbians
>Open minded cisles and bi girls
>Weird artistic types
Basically the dating pool is wider. If you don't want to end up in a poly situation make sure that's a clear boundary and do not settle for it what so ever. You will be taken advantage of in ways different to how men are taken advantage of and you're more vulnerable in ways you weren't before. All in all it's a stark improvement for me. I'm actually happy in my love life now and I was miserable before even though I was successful.

>>40274833
trannies only think their dating prospects are worse because they can't tie down chad

>>40274979
Skill issue honestly

>>40274979
>trannies only think their dating prospects are worse because they can't tie down chad
Well yeah.

>>40274979
i wonder what the chasers who cry about chad think of hons

>>40269607 (OP)
everyone's dating prospects are awful, to be fair

>>40269607 (OP)
IT CAN WORK OUT!
ive been with my bf for 7 years and we're still going strong, probably going to get married in the next year or two

>>40269607 (OP)
if youre hot and pre-op you will have an army of chasers to pick from
if you get srs you will have to compete with cis females but also your dating pool will significantly expand

>>40270456
wya?