>be me, aro/ace guy
>start talking to a girl that i met through a close friend of mine
>were really similar and both pretty weird
>fast forward a little
>we're best friends
>after a little bit, she tells me that shes into me
>i genuinely just want to be close to her, be her friend and be there for her and not date
>i say something like "uh- im not saying anything, but i want to wait... you know"
>she understands me and we keep being best friends like before, but she sometimes says stuff about being together and i have no clue if the stuff i say comes off as me being into her too
What do i do? I genuinely have no clue, shes like the perfect person, but i dont want to date her, i just wanna hang out with her and just... be. Its working but im just really unsure and i dont want to break her heart or something...

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> "uh- im not saying anything, but i want to wait... you know"

to me this sounds a bit like you saying you are maybe interested in the relationship, but just not yet

if that's not how you feel you might be leading her on. you could probably do with clarifying that you don't want to date next time she mentions being with you

>>40273369 (OP)
stop jacking off to furry porn and watch how quickly you stop being "aro/ace"

>>40273369 (OP)
I've genuinely never heard of a aro ace guy, are you a pooner or cis?

>>40273369 (OP)
>aro/ace guy
Fuck off back to tumblr

If you're trying to date and fuck you aren't ace my guy

>>40273369 (OP)
>aro/ace guy
Are you taking antidepressants or were you raped and are now traumatized?