my self worth and esteem and hit an all time low ):
idk how to process this
i feel so used
i dont think i can trust and love someone romantically anymore

>>40275320 (OP)
i need to know if you're a passoid and how you feel about hons to know whether you deserve sympathy

>>40275320 (OP)
what happened exactly?

>>40275320 (OP)
>>40275320 (OP)
Damn that's fucking shit, I'm really sorry anon. Rely on your friends, it'll take a very long time but you'll be okay again eventually.

>>40275346
thanks for reminding me why i stopped coming on here lmaoooooo

>>40275350
he was dating the both of us at the same time
happen to run into the other girl and became friends and then found out we were dating the same guy
he just used the excuse he was busy with classes and studying so we wouldnt hang out as much
and i believed it
XDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

>>40275353
thanks <333

>>40275434
What did she have to say about it?

>>40275455
we became decent friends and we basically shit on him here and there
he hid it so well i cant even lie

>>40275480
if it makes you feel any better, you could argue he was cheating on a cis girl with a tranner (you) instead

>>40275497
we compared stories and found out he dated me a few month before dating her

if anything im trying so hard to cope and deny the fact that he cheated because im trans as if i feel like if i accept it my self worth is straight to hell ^_^_^_^_^_^_^_^

i hope all avoidants die

>>40275434
so you're a passoid that hates hons? got it
i'm sorry chasers let you feel you were any less of a man than the rest of us
and that your boyfriend isn't bisexual

>>40275527
he realised he could get real women

>>40275559
what compels u to be this weird lmaoooo
maybe this would actually hurt if i was ugly

>>40275527
A cheater is a cheater, you shouldn't fixate on the reason he might have had for it
I wish I could help you cheer up nona, you sound nice. Just don't give up on love forever because of this one incident, okay?

>>40275581
because why shouldnt i shit on someone who is hateful to us and is hurting
if you're not say it and i'll apologise rn and fuck off
also i'm not calling you ugly i'm saying passoids have deluded yourselves into thinking being able to imitate something makes you more of a woman than us

>>40275592
tyty <3 i rly appreciate it
i didnt rly have anyone to talk about the trans factor of it
so i rly appreciate the positive words

>>40275613
like i don't think passoids realise real women see you the way you see hons
and straight men that date trannies aren't actually straight
they're either bisexual, gay or incels who think they can't get real women
this is why your boyfriend dumped you when he realised he could do better. if you pass well enough to get straight men you're basically the plan B alternative. if they're genuinely attracted to passing trans women purely for their femininity and not because they're trans and exotic there's no reason they can't get that plus an actual functioning pussy from women

>>40275635
hope you get better

>>40275649
it's obvious by the way you dodge my question that you're an evil passoid and hate hons hence why i get to enjoy your thread
ur ex is fucking REAL pussy rn

>>40275669
hey i rly do mean this from a genuine place in my heart, and i dont mean to come off as sarcastic if i do

there's a lot of good things in life, and there's a lot of happiness to experience. life may have not been the best to you, but please try to quit this site, i promise it'll be worth it in the end <3

>>40275750
do you hate hons?? just say if you do or if you don't and i'll apologise
things have been a lot better for me recently, this website doesn't trigger me the way it used to and i rarely use it
but i still hate evil passoids
thanks though

>>40275802
the literal definition of a bitterhon omg please go outside (nta)

>>40275825
why would i pass up the opportunity to shit on a presumably evil passoid
i rarely go on this board regardless

>>40275832
usually it's us getting kicked while we're down

>>40275840
Sis, get over yourself. Just because your unhappy with life doesn't mean you should tear others down. Do better

>>40275613
By definition it does. People who pass are more valid as "real women" than weird off-putting hons. Detransition if you can't pass

>>40275832
you're actually the only hateful one in here and the fact that you can't see that is sad and disturbing

>>40276280
no i take it back this guy's also hateful
less than u tho
pls better yourself

>>40275434
eh, he'll come around

he'll marry the girl and text you in 10 years something like,
"man, I miss your asshole" as he tries to escape the household for a harmless night out of dumping cum in tranny butt

>>40276515
I am better. If the guy looks like a guy then clearly something is not working out. At that point I would just detransition. Nothing hateful about it. If you refuse to change things will stay the same. Maybe the path you are on is the wrong one. Thats always a possibility

>>40276507
Hopefully he stops being so resentful. That's a moid trait

>>40276554
>If you refuse to change things will stay the same.
o the horror
>I am better
yeah that's what I said
at least you think passoids are valid
that's 50% better than her immediately

>>40276581
I'll say "more valid" instead of valid. But that hardly matters who is or isnt a real woman if your so full of hatred you make others feel bad. It's sick to hold people in contempt for things they can't control

>>40275840
that's what you're doing rn holy shit get over yourself

>>40276632
I'm not a regular here but he has been doing this for a long time. I dont think changing his mind at this point is a possibility

>>40275320 (OP)
my ex cheated on me with a man believe me it can get worse
t. ranny

>>40275832
You rarely come here because you act like a dick to everyone because of the shape of your skull. Get a grip

>>40276619
yea it is

>>40275320 (OP)
oh no...anyway

>>40275480
u should just date her

>>40276678
Oof, usually it's a low-Kinsey bichud
Yours was a nearly full homo...

>>40275434
to be honest, I kinda start texting two girls, cis and trans, at the same time on groomcord
I got the tranny to buy a plane ticket and visit me, but now I just talk to the cis girl. The tranny told me to find someone better herself

>>40276266
eh i'm happier nowadays and i don't go on this board as much as i used to
that doesn't mean i suddenly forget how passing trans women treat me and ppl like me lol, even after i get ffs im not gonna suddenly forget
i dont think all passoids are evil anymore like i used to but OP pretty clearly has contempt for hons considering how he dodged my question
>>40276515
very telling that you choose to side with the people who want all hons to be forced into the closet lol. tells me a lot about the kind of people who think i'm wrong
>>40276657
ya i've been way mentally better than i used to be when i used this board a lot but passoids still suck
>>40276568
used to think this but i watched evangelion and asuka projects her negative emotions outward instead of inward like i do so i dont feel its malebrained anymore

>>40277241
>the people who want all hons to be forced into the closet lol.
the person you're harassing never said anything like that. if you see that somewhere you need help. that's schizophrenia and it's very serious

>>40277325
i'm not talking about OP i'm talking about your friend >>40276280
are you retarded?

>>40277344
i don't know anyone here

>>40277375
i'm calling him your friend because you seem to be very cordial with him and his opinions lol

>>40277392
that you can't understand the difference between civility and complete tacit agreement and speaks volumes.

>>40277448
that you'll be civil with people who want people like me dead speaks volumes on why your judgement isn't worth listening to

>>40277466
everyone opinion matters though! Everyone deserves a civil conversation and it lacks intellectual humility to think otherwise!

>>40277634
jamie ur such a weird faggot

>>40277241
>used to think this but i watched evangelion and asuka projects her negative emotions outward instead of inward like i do so i dont feel its malebrained anymore
>I watched an anime and i taught me that having an anger addiction is totally female bro!

>>40277241
>eh i'm happier nowadays and i don't go on this board as much as i used to
I doubt that, considering your conduct here today. you need some serious help

>>40277646
it's not female or male it's just a trait

>>40277241
>ya i've been way mentally better than i used to be when i used this board a lot but passoids still suck
you're just projecting your insecurities on other people. you can say you are mentally healthy all you want but you have to prove it with your actions

>>40277656
passoids need serious help tbhon

>>40277635
what are you talking about?

>>40277673
i mean most of the time my proof is just not being here

>>40277466
nobody wants you dead. nobody said that. nobody said anything remotely close to that. please seek medical help

>>40277687
ok well viewing the world as black and white is a sign of a disturbed mind. There are no passoids and hons. You are buying too much into 4chan bullshit

>>40277699
detransition and tell me how well it goes for you
that guy wants all hons to detransition/be forced to rep lmao.

>>40277658
EXCUSE ME, ITS MA'AM
GIVE ME YOUR CORPRATE NUMBER

yeah cuz freaking out at gamestop and being consumed by rage is a feminine thing to do. would you say that that guy who freaked out at gamestop acted in a masculine way or a feminine way? or would you ignore reality and say "well a woman could have done that!"

>>40277735
do karens lose female privileges?

>>40277677
you are using posts on 4chan to make a point. most posts here are satirical in nature and shouldn't be taken seriously

you'd feel even worse if it was a trans girl who was hotter prettier more feminine and more passing than you

>>40277739
you are such a lost cause. please, go ahead and watch the video for yourself. Do you think this is a hecking valid female just acting like a karen. or a man

https://youtu.be/0xfc0RDzruU?si=stXVpM3mwOhTFN6a

>>40277763
i think you would be calling her a man regardless of what she was doing anon
i've seen the gamestop video

>>40277763
like clockwork

>>40277773
i find it funny this guy thinks someone on this board haven't seen the gamestop video

>>40277771
what women is going to go up to the desk and say "give me your fucking corporate number". this is typical male behavior.
>>40277773
im the opposite of a tourist

>>40277792
>what women is going to go up to the desk and say "give me your fucking corporate number"
my mother

>>40277799
so this behavior is gender neutral? got it

>>40277715
fine, whatever. that's not the same thing but who cares because it also wasn't said by the person you're harassing

>>40277715
better than living life being viewed as a freak. but you do you, sis

>>40275320 (OP)
How did your ex look like

wtf did this become

>>40276801
we're lowkey rly similar to each other he has a type what can i say, great friend tho but would not date myself plus only into guys

>>40278003
wdym? he's like a decent looking guy wasian tall guy
he's objectively cute and good looking but i cant stand his face anymore ngl
also looks like a fuckboy lmaoooo

Damn, I feel sorry for you. Getting cheated on seems horrible (I haven't had the experience since I have never been in a relationship).

Hope you get into a better relationship.

>>40278003
lowkey forgot he had trans friends
being a bit schizo but
if ur one of them and show him this
fuck all of u lmaooo u were all in on it for sure

icl well played, u lied about everything so perfectly

actually tho if u ever read this fuck u but hope you change your ways and be better person or crash on ur bike idc

>>40278126
> we're lowkey rly similar to each other he has a type what can i say
Elaborate

>>40278441
we have similar personalities, interests, etc atleast from what i picked up
we both do/like cosplay, content creation, play games
we’re both the shy but confident type if ykwim, idk how to put it we just relate to each other here and there, she says the same things and reacts the same way i would. honestly scared me a bit at first

i dont wanna ramble abt this too much but idk what category we belong in but def the same one lol

>>40278505
Who have you cosplayed anon?

>>40278441
my friend said me but more bottom lmaooo

>>40278508
maybe sherlock

>>40278519
Fujoshi brained

>>40278513
You are more bottom compared to the cis friend? You seem sweet tho I like you and your way of typing

>>40278522
wait i misread lol i thought u asked if i cosplayed before
mbmb
my last ones were reze mai sakurajima makima

>>40278528
shes more bottom
i love teasing her she so easily flustered

>>40278538
Oh nice cosplay picks! You should do Misaki from NHK now that are you are cold stone femcel hehe. Also funny, confident / assertive trans woman I always find preferable

>>40278508
older ones were jett rin tohsaka, ahri, lux when i was in my league phase dont wanna say too much and get my socials doxxed sry

maybe wanna do matsuri natsuiro, carethiya, or chisa next idkk

>>40278528
ty for the compliment btw sry i have a thing where i forget to read the entire sentence bcz my adderall has worn off ngl

>>40278581
> rin tohsaka
I need you (jk), I love that VN so much. Anyway if you wanna talk more since you seem chill and fun I can give you my discord if not ok too

>>40278126
> also looks like a fuckboy lmaoooo
Got what you picked Ngl

>>40275320 (OP)
Cliché but true, if he did that he doesn't love you or her
You should team up and stomp his dick, for now
Take time for yourself and let him reap what he sowed, the ungrateful sperm bank
>>40277704
Agreed. Too many brainworms

>>40278596
thanks for the offer but im ok for now, rly appreciate the gesture tho <333

>>40278618
lowkey on me i cant even lie so many red flags after 3 months but i just got blinded by the lovebombing
just never thought itd happen to me ig since my previous relationship ended on good terms :/

>>40278628
LOWKEY THINKING ABOUT EGGING HIS HOUSE AND SLASHING HIS BIKE
lmaooo
in game tho ofc

>>40276678
Damn I'm really not sure if that would hurt less or more. Probably less but I can see it going either way

>>40278645
Alright fair, just always hard to find similarly ADHD brained people in their typing everyone else just types two sentences rofl

>>40275320 (OP)
Wanna be pen pals

>>40278680
only if youll be my pen pal <333333

>>40278686
Yes :) You into physical letters or prefer digital ones?

>>40278697
mbbbb sryy i didnt actually mean it just felt like being flirty for fun, appreciate the thought tho

>>40278728
Foids… And you complain about playboys

>>40275320 (OP)
Where do you live I wanna test if I correctly recognised your typing style

>>40278742
uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
what if you go first
do ik u

>>40278748
Did you grow up in a white trash family

>>40278761
no sryyy wrong person

>>40275320 (OP)
How did you meet him

>>40278126
Why would an attractive man date a tranny long-term? He has countless better options than literally any tranny.

>>40278781
uhm we saw each other exchanged infos

>>40278782
omg why r so many of u so depressed cant u go be depressed elsewhere and not ruin the mood

cannot be bothered to spend energy on u ppl who think being trans is such a negative thing

like i used to let being trans hold me back when i was in middlr and highschcool and missed out on so many opportunities but like the moment u stop using it as an excuse and try to be ur best self i promise ur life will improve, like istg just forget youre trans ur life will be so much better

like all this hon passoid moid foid stuff is so weird everyone’s just people. if someones gonna judge u and belittle u on who u are like i wouldnt want to he near them even if im the ecact type of person theyd like

>>40278817
>Playboy asks you out because of looks, surprised the red flags ended up being true

>>40278817
like i get it its a privileged opinion but like fr step one to get ur life together is to accept being trans and ignore it and stop associating the negatives to it

its definitely harder for some than others but like u rly dont need to bring other ppl down yk

>>40278817
I'm not a tranny, and this applies to hons and passoids alike. Men obviously vastly prefer cis women, so if a guy has free access to cis women, there's not much tying him to you lol.

>>40278826
heyyy love bombing goes crazy ok he was actually like a perfect manipulator

>>40278841
*Rolling eyes*

>>40278838
omg can u ppl not be so superficial this has to he ragebait u cannot be seriously this online

if it helps im like 99% sure he was cheating on his cis ex with me and lied about her being a friend and whatever and i didnt catch on

but like i promise u with my life at the end of the day its who u are the matters the most in love

Fellow chasers, avoid whores like these like the PLAGUE.
>>40278855
You are the superficial one. There are plenty of loyal loving chasers out there, you're just going for some random hot guy who'd never date you long-term. If I met a tranny who told me your story I'd ghost in <200ms.

>>40278879
i honestly dont get what youre hating for? but i just think emotional intimacy matters
more than anything. the last thing id want is someone who’s love is conditional based on a body part yk. most decent guys are ok with it under the understanding youll get srs or that you need to accept that its not their preference, buuut if u disagree on anything i said thats ok im sure ur opinion is true for some ppl just not for me and my experiences

>>40278939
>0 successful relationship in sight
>"it's worked for me"
lol

>>40278951
yeah? im only looking for 1 success?
it has worked in my previous long term relationships? they just ended because of life circumstances, i dont get why youre making assumptions?
love doesnt always work out even if u love each other

im not rly understanding what ur trying to say, im just trying to say i disagree with you and we can just accept that we disagree. im just trying to give u the benefit of the doubt here

>>40278645
Based
>>40278879
Seek help or eat a bullet please

>>40279003
Have fun with your favorite sluts. I'll keep winning by myself.

>>40275320 (OP)
Sigh Americans …

enjoy it faggot lmao we don't give a fuck seethe