>>40290357 (OP)had an ex who went through my phone and all my social media and shit
she fucking sucked
cis girl tho
she left me cause i'm an abuser you see
whole town knows and i am generally reviled
anyway leave this nutjob before it's too late anon, idk if you've ever had a healthy relationship before but ive finally found myself in one and it's just night and day the difference when you and your girl are just growing together and stuff always feels safe compared to just being in a fucked unfixable situation with someone who's never gonna fix their attachment issues
genuinely just leave her, there's a girl out there for you who is wife material and when you find her you'll know and she'll know too
Don't waste any more of your time or this girl's time on something that is completely doomed