how the fuck do you find a boyfriend as a tranny, i have so many friends who have boyfriends and are like super happy and shit but how the fuck did they do that?? most of them early into transition too. maybe i'm paranoid but my faggot ass will just die alone cause even if i "have time" i'm not gonna live long being all alone like this

>>40303689 (OP)
U find them through your niche autistic hobbies

>>40303689 (OP)
Idk but Nijiura maids mention

>>40303689 (OP)
their "boyfriends" are repressed trannies themselves

>>40303689 (OP)
I found my bf here. I posted a picture in passgen and he asked for my tag. It'll be 3 years this month.

>>40303701
this
also wya op

>>40304765
I should start with getting hobbies aside from shit games then ughhh

Czech republic dude idk if that's much help

>>40303689 (OP)
i think trannies are unlovable

a straight man wants a woman with a real vagina. a gay man wants to be the bottom.

if you are an amab, it is fundamentally impossible for you to achieve the same lifestyle as a woman and you must make compromises.

>>40304973
counter point, im a cis man that loves trannies and want to treat them like women and make them feel loved

>>40303809
unfortunately true, that or gender dysphoria is contagious

>>40303689 (OP)
go to the clerb

>>40303809
>>40305033
how many do i have to date without feeling the need to transition to be confirmed repression free?

>>40305091
Have you ever had tranny thoughts or been jealous of trannies? I think if you like trannies because you wouldn't mind being them that's the indication.

>>40303689 (OP)
I'll love you and help you live a long fulfilling life nona

>>40305031
counter point: youre not masc enough

>>40305116
no, i like trannies because their personality lines up well with mine and they more or less present feminine

>>40305172
(as in, theyre also autistic nerds)

>>40305031
What a rare sight...

>>40305124
Omg yay :3 Thank you

>>40305091

it took two post op long term relationships for me to fix me.

>>40305240
<3
disc?

>>40303689 (OP)
LOL. You have it easy, OP. Women are always the selectors, whether they are cis or trans. Just give one of your suitors a chance. It is significantly harder for a cis guy to find a trans girlfriend.

>>40305031
This anon gets it.

>>40304973 the emptiest fuck alive just posted!
Trans women got a clue what it is to struggle and they are very kind and wonderful usually, if you don't want one as your girlfriend cuz no vagina then you are really dumb, idk if you even believe that will make you happy lol?

>>40305628
Im a self hating tranner

>>40303689 (OP)
>i have so many friends who have boyfriends and are like super happy and shit but how the fuck did they do that??
Ask your friends!

>>40305461
moymoy6
:3

>>40306071
more like goygoy

>>40303809
I fucking wish I was meeting straight trans fems on the apps. Why do the eggs always get the trans women?

>>40306071
sent!

>how the fuck do you find a boyfriend as a tranny, i have so many friends who have boyfriends and are like super happy and shit but how the fuck did they do that?? most of them early into transition too. maybe i'm paranoid but my faggot ass will just die alone cause even if i "have time" i'm not gonna live long being all alone like this

>>40305486
Thank you that's actually really sweet to hear, though where tf am I supposed to find those suitors, I live in a shithole in the middle of europe
though I'll hope that you're right

>>40303689 (OP)
most stories i've read in here and other boards involve tranners meeting their bfs in vidya
lonely guys who play vidya are the most likely to be ok with dating a tranny.

>>40306780
>lonely guys who play vidya
Literally me. Where tf is my trans gf?

>>40303689 (OP)
Go to gay bar

need a tranner gf so bad

>>40306870
REAL

ima tranner who is pretty broken… after all the things ive experienced. But id play whatever vidya you wanted and do whatever you wanted if I liked you uhhh I like strong healthy guys who are slightly racist in a funny way

>>40306824
you have to transition first and then get with a fellow autistic shut in transbian

>>40307069
Where you at?

>>40303809
lol who is Ray and why is he sad

>>40307177
westcoast us

>>40307183
First time on /tttttttt/?

>>40307069
>strong healthy guys who are slightly racist in a funny way
Basically me

>>40307192
NTA, but same

>>40307208
kewl! uhhh what do I do now

>>40307201
no ive unfortunately been here for half a decade at least, just anonymously

>>40307215
My Discord is rockfactsrock. Add me if you want.

>>40303927
Awwww that's so sweet
Happy for you nona
>>40306129
Straight transfem here
Most of my friends and I stay off the apps because guys will go apeshit in your DM's when they "find out" you're trans even if you're kind of clocky and you have it in your bio
I think most of the like long term TransF+CisM couples I know met IRL
I'm forever alone though because I'm scared of guys who approach me

>>40307241
>I think most of the like long term TransF+CisM couples I know met IRL
But how?? Where???

>>40307383
Let's see, one couple in a tabletop gaming group, two couples in college, one in church if you would believe it, one in high school, one couple from a discord focused on local IRL meetups, etc.
If you're asking where people find me (or people like me), I've gotten hit on here, in bars, on Uber rides, and by one weird dude in a taco bell drive-through who made me sit and wait for my food, then personally dumped his heart out to me. It was off-putting, but very sweet.

>>40307703
>tabletop gaming group
I could try that
>in college
Too late for that
>in church
My church is full of old people
>in high school
Way too late for that
>discord focused on local IRL meetups
I could try that, I guess. Not sure where to find these, though.

So I guess I'm entirely out of chances, then

>>40307703
>tabletop gaming group
I could try that
>in college
Too late for that
>in church
My church is full of old people
>in high school
Way too late for that
>discord focused on local IRL meetups
I could try that, I guess. Not sure where to find these, though.

So I guess I'm not entirely out of chances, then

>>40307799
You just identified two ways you could find someone. My closest big city has a big tabletop gaming discord and a big like meetups discord that isn't super hard to find
They are even easier to find if you join a "queer tabletop" or "queer meetups" discord, but you can't exactly join those as a cishet guy if you're not bi or nonbinary.

>>40306824
play tf2 or league or legends or overwatch. tons of trannies play those

>>40303689 (OP)
met my bf on grindr, hes incredible. hes ftm tho so if thats not ur thing, grindr is a bad place. cis men on grindr do not equal trans men on grindr. not at all.

>>40307703
can u elaborate on the taco dude what kind of stuff did he say?

>>40303689 (OP)
thank you for reminding me this mix exists im now going to listen to it

>>40303689 (OP)
>how the fuck do you find a boyfriend as a tranny
live in a city of 3 million+ people and win chances equivalent to the lottery to find the one person in the city who you vibe with who isnt an insane psychopath, or a repper whos waiting to use you as a transition coach

>get showered in compliments by everyone online
>have people literally offer to buy me plane tickets to fly me over to meet them (took a few of them up on the offer, nice vacations)
>make friends easily, large long-term friend groups formed from various places
>...
>single for the past 13 years
>zero dates with local people (ldr is torture)
by every metric imaginable i should have an easy time finding a boyfriend, and have been trying for years and years and nothing ever happens

>>40303689 (OP)
I kinda just fell into a relationship. I posted my discord online just looking for people to talk about writing and game design and a guy that lived barely 20 minutes away happened to add me and have similar interests so we ended up going on a date and have been together since.

>>40311045
r u open to ftm's, nona?

>>40311064
if i met a stealth ftm and we started dating and hit it off i wouldnt mind, but it's kind of a big hindrance for me. sorry.
if we're being realistic you're probably too far away either way so its kinda difficult to entertain the thought of finding someone online

>>40311076
oh, im not ftm, im mtf. im dating a stealth ftm, and its been really really great. hes as much of a man/boy i could ever ask for, and i kinda hate dick after my SA so its nice being with someone without one :) just sayin, keep ur options open. alot of trannies are completly closed off to tboys and i think theyre missing out on some rlly good peeps.

i must say tho, finding actually malebrained ones who pass well is pretty hard :/ i lucked out

>>40303689 (OP)
>how the fuck do you find a boyfriend as a tranny

You don't retard your a pump and dump for bi/pan dudes LMFAO (and rightfully too since your all fucking annoying ex. >>40303809 and only useful as a mid tier fleshlight)

>>40306231
>middle of europe
hi

>>40311754
Stats?

>>40311808
none that are good

>>40311844
fishing lvl?

>>40311858
it was maybe 10 at best... I couldn't get into OSRS and quit after getting like 30 wood cutting
What's yours?