I have an online friend that I'm pretty sure was abused by her narcissistic mother. She has completely bought into the idea that her mother was the victim and she was the only perpetrator. Somehow everyone they've spoken with says that her mother was a good loving and caring mother, but this seems very suspicious to me. I don't really want to go into the details, but if someone has dealt with something similar then I'd really appreciate some advice.
Posting this here because we're both trans women and I'm not really sure where else to ask...

>>40307522 (OP)
Is her mother actually a narc or are you just describing her that way

>>40307567
It seems that way to me from what I've heard, but I could be wrong.

>>40307604
Don't attribute abuse as coming from a specific personality disorder thats fucked up just say they are an asshole or smth