how does it biologically benefit me to fall in love with straight men who cant love me back

>>40309110 (OP)
Straight men (tops) are competitors. In times of plenty if everyone was a straight man social cohesion would be impossible. It is for the good of the tribe that a certain amount of AMABs are lobottomized in the womb via estrogen so that those males may contribute (bussy) without being in competition.
Look up the Mouse Utopia experiment to learn more.

>>40309166
>may contribute (bussy)
how about a job and learning to fuckin' cook

>>40309110 (OP)
>biologically benefit
Spooked.
NATURE IS NOT SENTIENT. It is a system of chemical and physical processes that over long periods of time lead to certain patterns. "Nature" does not give a FUCK about whether something benefits you in the moment to moment. Whether you suffer or die in the small blip of your life is of no concern to unthinking natural phenomena happening over billions of years. Get that shit out of your mind.

>>40309308
That too, the point is that it allows them to provide value without being in competition with men.