I have a trans gf and every little thing she’s super insecure about doesn’t bother me at all and I still think she’s the most beautiful and amazing girl in the world. Is there any tips to getting her to be less bothered by the little things and see herself as beautiful beyond me just always telling her?

buy her clothes and shoes and take her to dinner

>>40313849 (OP)
oh my hollywood movies...

>>40313849 (OP)
same position actually and seeking the same info
I'm kind of a himbo cis guy and I love my trans girlfriend so so much I just want to hold her and make her happy all the time

>>40313849 (OP)
>>40314740
this and jewellery and perfume

please be real

>>40314740
>>40314848
Already done these things actually
>>40314839
based fellow trans girl dating cis guy. We need to love our trans queens/princesses and make sure they never frown!
>>40314850
idk why anybody would lie about dating a tranny. I guess some people could on here for clout.

do you have to pass to get a boyfriend like this

>>40315638
You only have to pass enough to your boyfriend that he sees you as a woman

>>40315508
nta but you could either be a tranny imagining her fantasy boyfriend or some troll trying to give trannies false hope. people dont love trannies, especially not enough to make this kind of thread about them. why tf would anyone love a tranny when cis women are right there?

cringe

>>40315944
>people dont love trannies, especially not enough to make this kind of thread about them
I love one specific tranny actually
>why tf would anyone love a tranny when cis women are right there?
no cis woman has ever shown me the kind of love and affection and genuine care that my trans gf does. Cis women simply could never understand me.

>>40315638
I planned to form a longterm relationship with a tranny from here that flew to me
They ended up being a cheating AGP and insecure BPD. You just have to be more so stable

>>40315971
>Cis women simply could never understand me.
ah ok, so its because youre both men. i suppose that makes sense, the only conceivable reason anyone could love a tranny is if they love men but are shy about it.

>>40316060
>youre both men
Both male socialized as kids, yes. So grew up with similar interests and ideals
>the only conceivable reason anyone could love a tranny is if they love men but are shy about it.
I love soft feminine bodies, prefer a woman who can connect with me (a cis male) emotionally, and also I have an aversion to vagina. But I would never date a cis man (or a trans man)

>>40313849 (OP)
good to know I'm not the only one wanting advice on this
my gf is gorgeous and it hurts so much to see her not recognize how beautiful she is, I just wanna hug her and make everything okay and help her be happy and safe
>>40315944
what an absolutely false statement. I love my trans gf with all my heart. I love her because of everything about her and who she is; she's a beautiful woman and if you think being trans makes you lesser then I can say with confidence that you're wrong.
>>40316060
are you so fucking stupid as to actually believe that or are you baiting

>>40316115
if you have an aversion to vagina, would you dump your gf if she wanted srs? wow im sure you love her a lot and arent just with her for her body...
>>40316158
you literally have to be gay to be attracted to a tranny. all of the hormones in the world cant change the skeleton of a man

>>40313849 (OP)
hug her and tell her that shes your precious girl and is worthy of you

maybe not a permanent solution but that would definitely fix me for a few hours.

>>40316263
>would you dump your gf if she wanted srs?
Certainly not, I wouldn't dump her over anything like that. I just prefer her penis to vagina, but if she wanted/had a vagina I'd still love her. That being said she isn't dysphoric about her penis and has no interest in srs so this is a moot point in my relationship.

>>40316319
I basically do exactly this with her. It does seem to help for sure.

>>40316263
okay, so you're baiting
good god if this is common here then it's no wonder so many of those who browse this board have such bad brainworms.

>>40313849 (OP)
>>40314839
you are not real people

>>40316598
im not baiting retard what did i say that was bait? you have to be either retarded or gay to actually care about a tranny. (i am a tranny so i would know)

>>40316690
>male skeleton
>trans women are men
you're either baiting or so brainwormed that I pity you.
I know why I love my trans gf, and it's not for the reasons you say. I love her because she is a beautiful woman and she is genuinely adorable. All her little personality traits, how she reacts to certain scenarios, how much she cares about me, both the interests we share and the ones we don't, the moments we've shared together
all of those and more are why I love and care about her. I'm sorry you're unwilling to believe that.

>>40316877
lol ok yeah you arent real

>>40316877
godspeed anon. I feel exactly the same about my gf. I wish you two a long happy relationship.

>>40316877
>>40317070
samefagging ass get lost

>>40316158
>>40314839
>>40313849 (OP)
I Love actual chasers who are respectful and want to try treat their gf's right you guys are what other chasers should strive to be!

some things that could help:

>buy her clothes she will enjoy maybe sit down with her and look at clothes and affirm that she would look cute in it if she gets all brainwormy about it (not recommended with underwear/swimwear)

>affirm her regularly important here is to not make it repetitive and stale don't always use the same words or like short sentences that can long term lead to sadness too since the repetitiveness can make us feel like we aren't heard properly it can also lead to frustration so be a little creative and sometimes write a bigger text it does help!

>give her a choice! what do i mean by it? if she is down ask her what she needs!!! does she need distraction? space? does she wanna talk about it? or does she need comfort being direct shows her that you really care that you want to do the right thing and if she tells you she needs space respect it! this one is prob the most important in my opinion

>if she is affected by the brainworms try to get her to use 4chan less... it's quite brainworm inducing and if she really can't quit be there try to show her the more positive threads encourage her to positivity post and give other ppl hope and help them! it rubs off just like the bad stuff does

>make her feel loved just be there women esp trans women who are insecure often get cold when someone tries to be nice and caring since many are not used to it they will think its fake or you just wanna take advantage being there for someone can take lots of time and effort and it's not always gonna be rewarding and she might lash out its good to know that dont give up on her if you love her its hard for her esp but it will be hard on you too always be there

I hope this helps you chaser anons <3 the girls are lucky to have someone who loves them not just someone who dont care

>>40315944
Cis women have no soul and they fuck dogs

>>40317157
oh my god this makes trannies sound like the neediest motherfuckers on the planet like why would anyone bother

>>40317186
bait used to be believable im just here sipping my tea trying to make anons and their nonas happy

>>40313849 (OP)
one day she'll cheat on you because of it. Low self esteem is the #1 cause of infidelity.

>>40317157
>>40317186
yeah this is way too much. you're expecting chasers to baby their girlfriends.

>>40317157
>>40317186
>>40317402
This is literally already how I treat my gf. Why would you not inherently treat her like this? Like are guys just mean to their trans gfs or something? You should be treating her like your princess and babying her and giving her love and affection and make her feel important to you.

>>40317460
many chasers are look at this thread anon none of these idiots deserves a gf besides the respectful ones. they often see us as like sex objects its sadly the truth thats why im happy when someone like op comes around... gives me hope that there good chasers you are a good bf anon i didn't mean to say baby her 24/7 mostly just be there if she needs it... i'm sorry i couldn't help too much if i can think of something else ill let the thread know stay awesome anon your gf loves you i'm sure of it

>>40317308
>>40317460
you are literally larping. most people have lives and they arent gonna do this all the time, especially when they can have a cis women who won't be as mentally ill. the only way your attitudes would even remotely make sense is if your (totally real) gfs are 5'3 feminine hyper-passoids and you just havent changed your mind on the having bio kids thing yet. stfu and write a greentext or something instead.

>>40317460
it shouldn't be expected for you to take your girlfriend's anger in stride and respond with love and understanding. that's advice you'd give a parent with an angry toddler.
constantly giving affirmations and trying to come up with new formulations so it doesn't get stale... it sounds incredibly unequal, more like worship.
even if all this was mutual, it sounds like an incredibly intense relationship.
>>40317496
lol, want to give some advice on how trans people can be better girlfriends while you at it?

>>40317530
>lol, want to give some advice on how trans people can be better girlfriends while you at it?
I can do that too sure but it pretty much is the same in reverse be there for your fucking boyfriend when he needs it? you think this is a one way street? like i take care of my boyfriend when he needs it i get him nice things try to treat him well and with respect ask about his needs and wants? like what are you even on about you sound like the most miserable incel one day you will be happy and i will be happy for you everyone deserves to be happy

>>40317518
I'm literally not a man first of all im a tranny if you couldn't tell and i never claimed anyone is like this all the time and i will never shut up esp for you since you really need some positivity in your life like take a walk drink some water and maybe try to be a better person its hard in this world im aware but you can do it

>>40317581
>miserable incel one day you'll
you're the only one mad here though. you just sound high maintenance.

>>40317157
thx for the advice! I'm trying most of these already, but hearing someone confirm that what I'm doing can help is really nice. It's a shame how many of those on this board seemingly cant believe that they can be loved, you're all more lovely than you know. Hopefully one day you find someone who loves you as much as I love my gf.
>>40317518
you seem to be under the delusion that relationships are value transactions where the only reason to love someone is for what they can do for you. I'm sorry you see it that way, that sounds like a sad way to live.
you and >>40317530 are right that its not like that all the time, and it's never going to be, but the point is to try to strive for those as an ideal. Relationships are gonna have moments where things aren't perfect, that's just the nature of being human. That doesn't mean we shouldn't try, though.
>>40317581 has the right of it; y'all are miserable and for what? What do you get out of believing that you're unlovable?

>>40317518
>the only way your attitudes would even remotely make sense is if your (totally real) gfs are 5'3 feminine hyper-passoids
Again, I don't see what you're getting at here. Plenty of guys dating cis women who aren't 10/10 gigastacies and still treat them well. I don't get why applying that same level of respect when dating a trans woman seems so foreign. I'm almost 30 and I genuinely have no interest in having biological children and the love of my life happened to be a trans woman.

>>40317581
then you were the wrong anon sorry (although your bias makes more sense)
>>40317659
literally everyone is in a relationship so they can gain something from it though, are you kidding? or are you so delusional that you think people only enter relationships purely for the other person? its just not how reality works, and its good for people to know how reality works so they dont get tripped up by bait threads like this
>>40317672
>Plenty of guys dating cis women
yeah there it is. fundamental difference, because most guys are not gay or misogynistic enough to swear off actual women. i appreciate your anecdotal input tho

>>40317659
both of you contrasted doing these things with 'not caring' or 'being mean', as if there's no middle ground. if it's an ideal that's fine, but it shouldn't be expected, and if it does happen it obviously needs to go both ways or else your relationship is going to be unhealthy. it's just as important to be able to put your foot down and demand respect and reciprocation. and again, even if it's reciprocal not all relationships need to be this intense and loveydovey to work desu.
but apparently i'm miserable for saying these extremely obvious, reasonable things lol
and desu they can backpedal about how both people should do it, but the post was about how chasers are all so terrible but these people give her hope. that's the context i was initially responding to, her putting the onus on chasers.

>>40317860
honestly I'm just bad at conveying what I mean if you took me as saying that it shouldn't be reciprocal or that there's no middle ground.
Being clear, I agree that it should be reciprocal not all relationships need to be that to work. I apologize for misinterpreting your initial post. My intent was not to call you specifically miserable, but rather to say those who believe a trans person is unlovable or worth less than a cis woman are.

I guess I should have made this explicit: I'm not a chaser, like >>40317672 the love of my life just happened to be a trans woman.