... But i feel like it won't work out because of our opinions on the matter

Like, i don't care if he's a dude or a girl really, but i deadass can't look in his eyes and see a proper men

And he knows that, i think he doesn't care all that much after all, we talked about it

But in a way, to me, transgenders, the whole world of mental problems related to gender issues and so on, it just feels impossible to understand for me

But one thing i know for sure, is that i might be able to hurt him, already daily i joke about the fact that he's a woman behind that mask he has

It's all fun and games but as much as we laugh about it, i'm not sure it'll make him accept reality in any shape or form

And me, well, i don't think i can change my point of view on the matter, and gender, let's be honest, is a relevant topic in any facet of life, we just can't escape it nor ignore it

I mean, sure, we're trying to make it work, and we're both madly in love with eachother, but is it truly over in advance or shall i stay hopeful he would just continue not to care for the years to come ?

Tl:Dr i'm with a FtM but i can't see him as a man and i'm afraid that will hurt him on the long run

>>40328267 (OP)
being a gayden is so fucking cucked

>>40328267 (OP)
there is nothing but pain for androphilic ftms

>>40328356
>>40328328

Honestly he'd be a MtF that's be the same shit, i don't know why y'all try to turn this topic into FtM bashing or something

>>40328375
What ftm bashing? Its a ftm with a cisman who doesnt actually see him as a man, that happens alot and sucks for the ftm. I can hardly understand your post

>>40328375
esl spotted

>>40328399

Read again

>>40328267 (OP)
If you fundamentally cannot at all understand trans people and you insult (misgender) him to his face he should kill you with hammers tbdesu

>>40328685
I never misgendered him although it really is about respect more than anything else

On a technically level, he's still a girl in my eyes, in a way

>>40328780
>daily i joke about the fact that he's a woman behind that mask he has
tcd

How you feel is how men feel about calling you a woman

>>40328323
>i'm afraid that will hurt him on the long run
obviously it will. it most likely already is. and you know that. stop being a fag

>>40328267 (OP)
Easiest fix of all time: Try harder to see him as a man because he is a man you retard.

extremely odd to be dating a trans dude when you dont even understand what his deal is. was this just the easiest pussy available? lol

>>40330353
Well i just thought it would be easier than this, to be honest

>>40330201
It's not easy because that's just how it is

>>40328267 (OP)
Probably won't work but have fun while it lasts

Bump

>>40330201
>reality is false! affirm xer delusions!
cringe

>>40328839
no it isn't and you know it

>>40328267 (OP)

Don't worry, he is absolutely really an actual man, he's not wearing a mask, it's not an act, there's no secret girl woman underneath it all for you to connect to or unlock. This isn't a game or fantasy. The reality is that's a dude. You don't fucking love him, you don't know anything about him, you just project what you want him to be and mock him for seeing himself differently than you do. He doesn't love you either, he likes you and sees your potential, but once this goes on long enough and he realizes this isn't a phase for you and you will always think he's wrong about what he is, he'll be disgusted by you and leave for some one who isn't just pretending

You'll leave him or he'll leave you it's already over, move on

send him my way instead

>>40334070
to real people all trans people are men