>>40331167 (OP)the optics thing is so dumb. unfortunately it does matter since people just havvveeeee to generalize everyone...
like there have been a million incidents just like this one, done by cishet guys, but since "cishet white guy" is like the default person in the west apparently, anytime one of them does something it's an exception.
but if anyone who is a part of literally any minority does something wrong, suddenly now they are some representative of that group, it's stupid.
like people call us crazy or pedos etc etc etc but that's because any time they see one of us who is indeed crazy or a pedo, it stands out to them.
like, if someone sees a cishet white guy assault someone
>oh thats an insane assholebut if they see a tranny assault someone
>oh thats an insane TRANS assholelike idk if im explaining this properly but thats how people just naturally seem to think and I hate it