>been crossdressing and on Grindr for a while
>set up to get fucked
>always chicken out

send help

>>40332012 (OP)
just get a boyfriend, one night stands are disgusting, sex is only fun if you have feeling for the other person

>>40332029
>boyfriend

too gay for me. i just want cock and bot the guy attached to it

>>40332012 (OP)
almost like sex with strangers isnt a good thing.

>>40332012 (OP)
It's pretty awesome ngl

>>40332039
mental illness

>>40332012 (OP)
Do you live in a country where it makes sense to chicken out ?

>>40332012 (OP)
dont judge yourself for wussin out. its okay and there's always gonna b more hard dick in the grinder app for u believe me . u take that dick when ur ready when u are comfy and when its a dude who passes the vibe checks you REALLY dont wanna rush into something when even your gut and nerves are throwing alarms,,, let alone into something you seriously cant navigate yourself outof because u ignored those alarms.. so dont feel bad for beingnervous about sex . also dont listen to these plain janes please. you seem socially adept enough to negotiate hookkup culture w hot dick but u need to respect when ur body is saying no i am not capable here. u are hot asf btw. brick., jelq., nut. smiley face

>>40332039
Make sure you don't absorb another men's semen then. It's cause your brain to crave him.

What happened to the post ?? I just read a post by someone saying OP shouldn't feel bad, is socially adept enough for Good Dick etc..

>>40332039
trans girls might want to fuck you

>>40332979
>>40332358 got deleted

>>40332029
just go to the boyfriend store and pick out your favorite one it’s so easy!!!

>>40333086
we'd probably prefer to *get* fucked by you, but eh

>>40332012 (OP)
Go t4t if you can, or at least other queer-acting folk, they'll be safer and you'll know they share some of your experiences.

>>40332012 (OP)
what's your location so i can send help (my penis)

>>40333131
ime queer folk are just as dangerous LOL.

theres tons of rapey transbians and trans folks in general. they try hiding and they do it well because police dont care about lgbt victims.

>>40332029
>>40333109
but i live in the middle of nowhere, there's no bf store near me, so how do i get a bf T~T

>>40332039
get in a t4t relationship you absolute fucking retard

>>40332012 (OP)
>always chicken out
I hate guys like you. So many flakes and fakes on Grindr.

>>40333109
where, please

>>40335483
Crossdressers are not reliable people.

>>40334815
Fuck drop disc I would pay to fly you out

>>40337133
no, its just dudes in general on Grindr. Im the little panty wearing cocksucker but Im serious about hooking up, meet when I say im going to meet. A lot of guys talk a great game but have no intention of meeting or just want to sext all the time or chciken out at the last second. its annoying AF

>>40332039
Adding this to my file of transgenderism=homophobia

>>40332039
It’s not gay if you dress up

>>40337168
Also a crossdresser. This is why I switched to only hosting. If I'm gonna get dressed up and one guy doesn't show up, I'll find another.

>>40337803
>only hosting.
for sure. its so much easier especially if im a dressing at all (never fully cd but still). married men love that I can host lol

>>40337892
Indeed. I only partially cd too, so if I went out dressed, I'd just put on sweatpants and a sweatshirt over it lol. But now only hosting. I deal with my outfit and warming up my butt, they deal with traveling!

>>40337912
>traveling
This is why I'm still an alone crossdressing virgin too, I live where every town is bumfuck miles from the next town, ironically I also live near a major city that's all but useless for alternative lifestyles.

I like the countryside but holy fuck does it take long to get anywhere, and my neighborhood becomes spoiled more and more by the encroaching city every. I have the worst of both worlds

>>40337912
getting ready is part of the joy. getting so clean and smooth, smelling so good, lots of selfplay. love to wear a plug starting a few hrs before just to get me in the right frame of mind all afternoon.

>>40338036
This triggers my PTSD from day after day spent shaving for hours and showering with my sweetest smelling scents and psyching myself up and then NOTHING EVER HAPPENING

>>40338078
yup. I get that. been there. it sucks. all the stars align and you can finally do it and then they flake. Its the worst. It really helps to have repeats as they are much less likely to flake. I sorta have a quiver of men who avail themselves to my charms on occasion