>friend periodically invites me to hang out with them
>always turn down last minute because I don't want them to know I'm a tranny
>Ashamed of myself so I never go outside or openly say I'm trans.

Is there a way to stop feeling ashamed of being a tranny

the only way out is through girl. you can't get over this one in your head, you get over it by living your life and finding out other people think you're lovely and not disgusting, like you think of yourself. you have to work through the shame by feeling it but living life anyway. that is showing yourself a lot of love and that is the cure desu

>>40349644
damn well said

>>40349644
>you get over it by living your life and finding out other people think you're lovely and not disgusting
not op but i tried living my life but people thought i was disgusting and very not lovely

>>40349674
why did people think you were disgusting

>>40349674
wrong crowd clearly, happens more often than not

>>40349704
its not like they told me to my face why, but im capable of reading faces and body language cause i dont have autism
>>40349806
i guess but i live in tranny mecca so im not sure where the right crowd is if not here

>>40349852
oh say less this post says more between the lines than you could possibly say deliberately.

>>40349875
if youre trying to imply im disgusting clearly others think that as well, i didnt have these issues when i was a boymoder and no one knew i was trans

>>40349898
no i mean you came across as confrontational and defensive. i just asked you why because i didn't want to make assumptions and i thought i might have advice for you. you read it as idk what even. your reply to me was agro and i bet you were a bit uncomfortable to those people too if you get so stuck in your head so quickly. combined with the way you assume others think you disgusting i think you probably have really low self esteem and deal with that by being sort of socially weird. i don't think you're disgusting i just thought your post was standoffish

>>40349916
its 4chan get over yourself im obviously not this way irl
youre right i have low self esteem but you would as well if you had to look like me

>>40349936
>get over yourself
>you did read me for filth tho
lol

>>40349852
they're just shit ppl, was my first guess regardless

>>40349628 (OP)
kill yourself you stupid bitch.

>>40350558
nah

the only way to transcend your trannyhood is to be visibly, publicly a tranny for long enough that you've mastered it. you'll never pass if you spend your life not presenting female.

>>40349628 (OP)
Just send them a text and get it over with
Onse its done its done and you kan move on from there
You need to get out of your head about it and just do it

>>40349628 (OP)
if theyve ever seen you as a man they will not notice unless you wear a dress and lipstick in front of them. i am not exaggerating

>>40349628 (OP)
When you're 30 you will look back with greater shame at the life you've wasted based on superficial fears
If you're not in an area where being openly trans will get you killed, then you will regret never doing it to begin with
>I'm ugly!
There's far uglier trannies that have quadruple your confidence

>>40352363
nta but i'm almost thirty and don't regret it. wtf am i supposed to do? i don't even enjoy girlmoding, i just do it in hopes it'll help me pass better. if i could get away with looking like a tomboy id do that in a heartbeat